For all the single men women and everything in between out there what originally drew you to this site and the swinging world, what came first the site or the lifestyle and what has kept you here
Have the reasons changed as time has gone on or are they the same.
I'm just curious as to what motivates people for instance are you collecting notches on your bed post, looking for love, exploring your sexual boundries or maybe just don't have the time for looking or keeping a relationship?
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"I don't want a relationship but I have a very high sex drive, so NSA sex with like minded people suits me fine."
Did you join looking for a regular fuck buddy if so and you found one why stay on here or is variety the spice of life lol |
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over a year ago
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To gain some confidence and experience in this area as no one is interested in giving me that offline, but it turns out people on this site are exactly the same   |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't want a relationship but I have a very high sex drive, so NSA sex with like minded people suits me fine.
Did you join looking for a regular fuck buddy if so and you found one why stay on here or is variety the spice of life lol"
I got my FB from a previous site but I like to meet lots of new people too. |
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"Joined here with an ex...that went tits up so joined as single fem
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If I can take my eyes off your bum long enough to think straight lol was It this site or activities involved that led to your split and did he then join as a single bloke |
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I was on a different site, had a meet with a guy and he suggested this site. Joined and never looked back and haven't used other sites since.
As I like the social aspect of swinging, I like to make new friends, there's more opportunities to meet women and play in group situations, so for me this site is perfect! |
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"To gain some confidence and experience in this area as no one is interested in giving me that offline, but it turns out people on this site are exactly the same "
I joined for varying different reasons but one thing I have learnt about this life and this site that unlike vanilla life, swingers (especially the couples) seem to know exactly what they are looking for and are really specific about it and there that many single blokes on here that even if you do tick all the boxes and stand out from the rest its all to easy to be overlooked due to the sheer amount of mail couples and single fems seem to get |
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"Joined here with an ex...that went tits up so joined as single fem
If I can take my eyes off your bum long enough to think straight lol was It this site or activities involved that led to your split and did he then join as a single bloke "
He got jealous  ...he thinks im a hoe for being here as a single fem lol..ive met some fantastic people off here and having the time of my life  |
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"I don't want a relationship but I have a very high sex drive, so NSA sex with like minded people suits me fine."
Snap really, after previous ones the last thing on my mind is a relationship but the sex is the one thing I miss so here does solve that very well
Do have to say though have met a lot of really genuine and nice women and guys, often in clubs, which has been a pleasant experience outside of the sexual side |
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"Joined here with an ex...that went tits up so joined as single fem
If I can take my eyes off your bum long enough to think straight lol was It this site or activities involved that led to your split and did he then join as a single bloke
He got jealous ...he thinks im a hoe for being here as a single fem lol..ive met some fantastic people off here and having the time of my life "
Who's idea was it to join and why would he think your a hoe as a single fem but not as a couple sorry if I'm being nosey lol great pics on your profile tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined because my mrs of 6 yrs doesn't has a very low sex sex drive, so it gets really frustrating and I know its not her fault but I have a really high one and im on a totally different page sexually. We have a beautiful child an have sex once every 8 or so days ( I know this not by counting but by my shift pattern) im not sex crazy but everyone has needs, fantasies and freaky shit that they want to do....I do wish she could share my dreams but ive tried for a very long time in every romantic, and stright up seeing to way, ive read loads, I listen to her we go places togerher and as a family I do everything I can she doesnt work and she she dont have to but she can of she wants...all I want is pussy on the table lol but thats why I joined bit too much I think lol rant over
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