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By *porty.ben OP Man
over a year ago
West Hampstead |
Hey, So my girlfriend hasn't tried anal before, but has recently said that she wants to give it a go...
I obviously want to make it as nice as possible for her, but was wondering how best to do it...
I've heard that a lot of people try it first when d*unk, think this would be a good idea? I have lube and I would plan on using a lot. I'm quite a thick guy so don't wanna hurt her... |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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If your thick and she's apprehensive its not going in plain and simple.
My advice, get tipsy, not on wine add that makes you sleepy. Lots of oral, on her pussy, lots of sensual play, lots of fucking preferably having her come/orgasm.
Then move to rimming, lube and fingers. The arse has loads of nerve endings so open her up by only going a half finger in and circling to enhance sensation. Lots of lube and go further and alternate fingers so she's again getting different sensation.
If she's lubed and lose thought go two fingers then one, then two, then one, then three, then two, then one, then three, kind of thing, do she opens. Then use a thin vib or dildo, again swirl, again use different strokes and angles, then back to fingers ( about 30+ mins easily).
Re position her onto her knees... Then fuck the living shit out of her, as in not going to divulge any more  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If your thick and she's apprehensive its not going in plain and simple.
My advice, get tipsy, not on wine add that makes you sleepy. Lots of oral, on her pussy, lots of sensual play, lots of fucking preferably having her come/orgasm.
Then move to rimming, lube and fingers. The arse has loads of nerve endings so open her up by only going a half finger in and circling to enhance sensation. Lots of lube and go further and alternate fingers so she's again getting different sensation.
If she's lubed and lose thought go two fingers then one, then two, then one, then three, then two, then one, then three, kind of thing, do she opens. Then use a thin vib or dildo, again swirl, again use different strokes and angles, then back to fingers ( about 30+ mins easily).
Re position her onto her knees... Then fuck the living shit out of her, as in not going to divulge any more "
That's about right - and also go at her pace, don't force anything  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The first time my wife and i did it, she lay on top of me facing towards my feet, then as she masturbated her slit so her well lubed arse gradually slid forward on to my cock, this way she can control the penetration and the weight of her on top of you will reduce your thrusting, once you are fully inside her, and when she is comfortable with it gradually turn on your sides, leaving her hand free to frig herself, then you can control the penetration, might be a few times before you get her on her side, the important thing is for her to climax whilst you are inside her arse. Above all else have patience and let her control the penetration, getting her on all fours and sticking it in her as in the porn movies is a recipe for disaster. You will eventually be able to do that but take it slow and at her pace, in this case it is her pleasure that must come first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If your thick and she's apprehensive its not going in plain and simple.
My advice, get tipsy, not on wine add that makes you sleepy. Lots of oral, on her pussy, lots of sensual play, lots of fucking preferably having her come/orgasm.
Then move to rimming, lube and fingers. The arse has loads of nerve endings so open her up by only going a half finger in and circling to enhance sensation. Lots of lube and go further and alternate fingers so she's again getting different sensation.
If she's lubed and lose thought go two fingers then one, then two, then one, then three, then two, then one, then three, kind of thing, do she opens. Then use a thin vib or dildo, again swirl, again use different strokes and angles, then back to fingers ( about 30+ mins easily).
Re position her onto her knees... Then fuck the living shit out of her, as in not going to divulge any more "
Very good!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we have just tried doing this.
laid her on her front, stradled her and massaged the hell out of her. when working the arse slide down her arse crack and slightly push, each time with abit more pressure, seemed to work the treat as she was an anal virgin. only done a few times now but slips in quite easily now even though Im a bit more than average girth.
have her on the side too, you can then play with her clit, she cums hard both ways and nothing like her first anal cream pie  |
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"The first time my wife and i did it, she lay on top of me facing towards my feet, then as she masturbated her slit so her well lubed arse gradually slid forward on to my cock, this way she can control the penetration and the weight of her on top of you will reduce your thrusting, once you are fully inside her, and when she is comfortable with it gradually turn on your sides, leaving her hand free to frig herself, then you can control the penetration, might be a few times before you get her on her side, the important thing is for her to climax whilst you are inside her arse. Above all else have patience and let her control the penetration, getting her on all fours and sticking it in her as in the porn movies is a recipe for disaster. You will eventually be able to do that but take it slow and at her pace, in this case it is her pleasure that must come first. "
Now that sounds horny as hell! |
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"The first time my wife and i did it, she lay on top of me facing towards my feet, then as she masturbated her slit so her well lubed arse gradually slid forward on to my cock, this way she can control the penetration and the weight of her on top of you will reduce your thrusting, once you are fully inside her, and when she is comfortable with it gradually turn on your sides, leaving her hand free to frig herself, then you can control the penetration, might be a few times before you get her on her side, the important thing is for her to climax whilst you are inside her arse. Above all else have patience and let her control the penetration, getting her on all fours and sticking it in her as in the porn movies is a recipe for disaster. You will eventually be able to do that but take it slow and at her pace, in this case it is her pleasure that must come first. "
Oh i disagree, all fours is the easiest way in my opinion...as long as the guy is someone u really trust to listen to your guiding etc. When u are on all fours u can play with your clit and i find that makes everything more open as i get more and more stimulated etc....that works for me anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not an anal virgin but my fb was until the weekend  he wanted to try it so this is how I played it and he loved it. He massaged my back slow and sensual fingered my pussy followed by some gentle fucking getting me wet I rubbed my juices on my ass just gently pressing him in telling him to kiss my neck his hands running over me.
I pushed his cock into my pussy again to wet it more then pushed him into my ass while he held me tight close to him and it was me who fucked his cock.
He loved it |
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