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How many prefer a hotel?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well, i cant always accomodate as i dont live on my own and only on rare occassions is it possible for me to do so.
Personally, i prefer meeting at a hotel - there is a certain naughtiness about it and the mess..well you dont need to explain to anyone lol.
Would you prefer hotels? Or yours? Or at their's?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't accommodate by choice, as life is too short for housework!
I don't like to go to a stranger's home not knowing what I may find.
Hence I only play at hotels.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah. I agree with the latter. How shall i say this without sounding like an arse. I prefer houses to be well looked after..smell nice, to not be messy.
For me, a house represents how a person is. And im a clean freak..so wouldnt be comfortable in the unknown. But all depends on the situation.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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have only met in a hotel once with a group of guys I trusted well.. I would not meet a guy in one unless I knew them very well..
I don't meet at others houses either or at mine.. so it's clubs for me mostly. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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I used to love it though the amount of time it takes to set a meet up concerning a hotel meet its a lot easier if one can accom. I think timewasters have a lot to do with it, essentially they make people more aprehensive that youre gonna book one for them not to turn up |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I'm not a hotel meet kinda girl, I like my home comforts too much!
Plenty of wine, plus I smoke, so I can smoke in my own home, but I understand where pearl is coming from, sometimes I don't meet because I really can't be arsed doing all the housework malarkey and changing bedding 
And yes I am a lazy biatch at times, so therefore, whilst my home is always clean and tidy when I do meet, I do sometimes think your not really worth my effort  |
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"Well, i cant always accomodate as i dont live on my own and only on rare occassions is it possible for me to do so.
Personally, i prefer meeting at a hotel - there is a certain naughtiness about it and the mess..well you dont need to explain to anyone lol.
Would you prefer hotels? Or yours? Or at their's?
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My house, my name on the Deeds so I don't have to explain anything to anyone. My house is always tidy I'm not a slob and disorder unsettles me.
My brackets, chains, restraints etc are in my home, I like playing with my things in my own environment. I have a portable kit I take to playmates home, but I prefer mine.
That said, for me playmates should be able to accommodate. If they can't/wont, that's not a problem at all, they'll just never see the inside of mine. |
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"Yeah. I agree with the latter. How shall i say this without sounding like an arse. I prefer houses to be well looked after..smell nice, to not be messy.
For me, a house represents how a person is. And im a clean freak..so wouldnt be comfortable in the unknown. But all depends on the situation.
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You can't accommodate but being picky about other people's homes. Sounds about right. A prime example of why I do not, under any circumstance invite those that don't accommodate into my home! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My meets so far have been at other people's houses or clubs.
I'd love a naughty hotel meet but have not had that opportunity yet.
It's even naughty when staying in a hotel with my wife. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah. I agree with the latter. How shall i say this without sounding like an arse. I prefer houses to be well looked after..smell nice, to not be messy.
For me, a house represents how a person is. And im a clean freak..so wouldnt be comfortable in the unknown. But all depends on the situation.
You can't accommodate but being picky about other people's homes. Sounds about right. A prime example of why I do not, under any circumstance invite those that don't accommodate into my home! "
Well, im a traditional kind of guy. Whoever i meet, i will treat them like guests and be made to feel welcome. If the house doesnt feel welcoming...it will be hard to have a good time.
Im not judging anyone according to their house but in the instances i can accomodate, i will make sure my house looks presentable. I dont want them going back thinking negative about me.
At the end of the day, it is their house and i have no right in saying what it should be like.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to meet at his 
I do enjoy the occasional hotel but I hate the 'I'm passing by offers' so usually I end up at hotels if I've booked it for travelling to a club or met with someone at a club and gone on/back to a hotel  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That said, for me playmates should be able to accommodate. If they can't/wont, that's not a problem at all, they'll just never see the inside of mine. "
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When we play here in Guernsey its either at ours or their place.
When we play in the UK we do not have a choice it would either be theirs or a hotel.
Only once have we played at someones home, when in the UK and no one has ever said they would not meet us at a hotel so far anyways |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hotels my house is my personal space and i don't want people knowing where i live or to get disturbed if someone wants me to go to theirs i would but on a first meet i prefer a hotel |
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"We prefer hotels as we normally book them and stay overnight.
We get a break from home , a good shag and loads of showers and chill out.
Love em "
That all depends on who is with you in the hotel room, of course! |
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"My meets so far have been at other people's houses or clubs.
I'd love a naughty hotel meet but have not had that opportunity yet.
It's even naughty when staying in a hotel with my wife. "
Just perfectly said. Thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have kids at home so never meet there. We play in hotels where we can relax before our meet arrives.
We will.meet at with those who can accommodate if all are comfortable, although we did walk out of one because it was really bad x
The hotel we use has reception that doesn't face the door, so our visitors don't get seen.
And we get a nice relaxing time away from the kids x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well, im looking to arrange a meet in a hotel soon in Kensington. I love those hotels. Amazing light, scenery and the beds are so comfortable.
..i always love booking a hotel to help unwind and just relax.
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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago
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"Well, im looking to arrange a meet in a hotel soon in Kensington. I love those hotels. Amazing light, scenery and the beds are so comfortable.
..i always love booking a hotel to help unwind and just relax.
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The scenery on the Cromwell Road? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tend to use hotel for first meet.its neutral so no one feels like host or guest x "
That's why I like hotels, I like the fact its neutral, if I want a drink I want to just get a drink, if I want a pee I want to just go have a pee, if I want a shower I want to just get up and go for a shower, you cant do that in other peoples homes, you have to respect its their space so wouldn't dream of doing any without asking first but I don't want to be asking if its ok every time I want a pee, to use their loo, or asking if they mind getting me a drink etc, id sooner use a hotel so I can just do as I like when I like |
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