80 mile round trip for nothing. Went on a meet, the guy didn't open the door. Texted, said I looked nothing like my pics and told me to fuck off!
Not impressed but there's nothing I can do about it |
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"80 mile round trip for nothing. Went on a meet, the guy didn't open the door. Texted, said I looked nothing like my pics and told me to fuck off!
Not impressed but there's nothing I can do about it"
He probably expected you to wear your avatar outfit! |
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over a year ago
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"80 mile round trip for nothing. Went on a meet, the guy didn't open the door. Texted, said I looked nothing like my pics and told me to fuck off!
Not impressed but there's nothing I can do about it"
I would of ripped my door off its hinges for you your HOTT xxx |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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"80 mile round trip for nothing. Went on a meet, the guy didn't open the door. Texted, said I looked nothing like my pics and told me to fuck off!
Not impressed but there's nothing I can do about it"
OMG! What a total tosser! Hope you are ok xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"80 mile round trip for nothing. Went on a meet, the guy didn't open the door. Texted, said I looked nothing like my pics and told me to fuck off!
Not impressed but there's nothing I can do about it"
What an assole!!
Poor you hope your ok and you look gorgeous btw xx |
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"80 mile round trip for nothing. Went on a meet, the guy didn't open the door. Texted, said I looked nothing like my pics and told me to fuck off!
Not impressed but there's nothing I can do about it
I would of ripped my door off its hinges for you your HOTT xxx"
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"80 mile round trip for nothing. Went on a meet, the guy didn't open the door. Texted, said I looked nothing like my pics and told me to fuck off!
Not impressed but there's nothing I can do about it"
His loss  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"80 mile round trip for nothing. Went on a meet, the guy didn't open the door. Texted, said I looked nothing like my pics and told me to fuck off!
Not impressed but there's nothing I can do about it"
Hope you have reported his profile...
What an idiot.
I had a similar thing happen last Saturday, arranged to meet a guy in Liverpool, got loads of texts asking what I was wearing and where exactly where I was in pub, the guy was probably at home getting off on this, luckily had a back up plan and ended up to be a really good night xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well, it's his loss. It's annoying that it was a wasted journey and that he was rude to add insult to injury. There will always be those who don't understand what common decency is, but hopefully they will be outshone by those who do have some decorum and etiquette. |
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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago
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Yes, he was rude and inconsiderate for not contacting you and cancelling until you were at his door.
Just imagine how many times this scenario happens to the guys ! Would a guy who mailed the same story on here receive the same support ?
Just sayin'
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"Seeing as you have his address and mobile number, wouldn't it be funny if one night this asshole had 3 or 4 different takeaways arriving at his door that he didn't order.
Just sayin  "
How would that be funny? You'd just be doing the takeaway firms out of business. Not my idea of fun.... |
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He must be mad .i would have pulled you through the door..name and shame the pratt thats what gives guys a bad time on here .it happened to us once so wife only joins me at club meets,bis loss ps,we use jaydees for fin |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes, he was rude and inconsiderate for not contacting you and cancelling until you were at his door.
Just imagine how many times this scenario happens to the guys ! Would a guy who mailed the same story on here receive the same support ?
Just sayin'
Jane x "
Yes.
Bad manners is bad manners, regardless of gender. |
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"Seeing as you have his address and mobile number, wouldn't it be funny if one night this asshole had 3 or 4 different takeaways arriving at his door that he didn't order.
Just sayin "
Absolutely hilarious for the businesses concerned  .
The guy was rude and ill mannered take it put on him if you have to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"he bottled it..
gutless and also bloody rude to not even offer you a cup of tea as he knew how far you had driven..
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Was goin to say exactly the same thing, called respect . Just cause decide he didn't want to, does not mean he shouldn't treat you with respect you deserve . Cup of tea and a bit of a chit chat would have made situation all the better if he had decided to not go thought with it.
Instead he is a rude twat!
Had few similar experiences myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is why camming is a good idea first.
But I wonder if it may have been a set up? Could he really tell you lOoked that different through the window?
Why be so rude as to say fuck off.. Why not just say sorry you weren't what I was expecting, goodnight. I think it would of been awkward if he let u in to say the same thing |
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"This is why camming is a good idea first.
But I wonder if it may have been a set up? Could he really tell you lOoked that different through the window?
Why be so rude as to say fuck off.. Why not just say sorry you weren't what I was expecting, goodnight. I think it would of been awkward if he let u in to say the same thing"
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This is a very sad story x hugs x
My advice , report , vent, forget revenge and planning revenge just consumes a person. Remember he could have invited you in , that would have been worse x you are safe x |
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"80 mile round trip for nothing. Went on a meet, the guy didn't open the door. Texted, said I looked nothing like my pics and told me to fuck off!
Not impressed but there's nothing I can do about it"
Dreadful behaviour sums up the vagaries of this site I am afraid. I always fear that ladies going to houses on their own will end up on the news. Personal safety is paramount. Single ladies take note! |
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"This is a very sad story x hugs x
My advice , report , vent, forget revenge and planning revenge just consumes a person. Remember he could have invited you in , that would have been worse x you are safe x "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been there & got the tshirt.
In our early days we got burnt twice by guys from Dundee.
The lesson we learned is only play local & never play with anyone from Dundee ever again
I can sense the flood of protests from Dundee are already on the way |
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"Yes, he was rude and inconsiderate for not contacting you and cancelling until you were at his door.
Just imagine how many times this scenario happens to the guys ! Would a guy who mailed the same story on here receive the same support ?
Just sayin'
Jane x "
There is a similar thread running at the minute about a guy who cycled to meet and got stood up. He's getting told to improve his selection process, not getting a whole bunch of sympathy to be fair!!
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"80 mile round trip for nothing. Went on a meet, the guy didn't open the door. Texted, said I looked nothing like my pics and told me to fuck off!
Not impressed but there's nothing I can do about it"
Better than a shit fuck though.
I've turned away from people after doing more miles than that, though, their profile was a classy one; getting there and see them was a whole different story lol. You dont look 1/2 bad, though again.. better than a lackluster fuck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even if he didn't like the look of you he could have invited you in, made you a drink, had a social etc.
Some of the girls on here should set him up with a few meets and get him to burn some miles to no avail, see how he likes it.
You look great, he's an ass and that's all there is to it. |
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"Seeing as you have his address and mobile number, wouldn't it be funny if one night this asshole had 3 or 4 different takeaways arriving at his door that he didn't order.
Just sayin "
Only 3 or 4 should be the whole local directory for take away,s the arse!! |
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We cammed with a guy first .he even gave phone no. But the prick failed to show up at hotel we booked ,so we either play at club .or. friends partys,,,wife will not go to guys house unless i check it first,.have to be so careful on here |
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"80 mile round trip for nothing. Went on a meet, the guy didn't open the door. Texted, said I looked nothing like my pics and told me to fuck off!
Not impressed but there's nothing I can do about it"
 how'd you feel |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regardless of gender, everyone is entitled to decide that they don't want to play, once they've met in person. But he could have had the bottle to open the door, give you a cuppa, and THEN say that he didn't want to play.
What a twonk! Don't let his bad manners bring you down! |
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Gosh guys, thank you all for your support. Thankfully I haven't taken it to heart, and I'll carry on regardless.
I didn't realise it would stir things up quite so much, and its been heartening and hilarious on your replies and thoughts.
I don't play often, thought I knew the guy well, see each other on web cam, done the whole bit, spoken on phone etc. Followed the rules and let others know where I was. All I can assume is that he bottled it, but still can't understand the rudeness.
Still I live for another day, still randy as fuck, but hopefully some proper quality fun tonight.
I've really appreciated your thoughts and some really kind private messages. Glad to have you guys around. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So, do you look like your pics ?
Not excusing his behaviour at all (and echo many of the sentiments above), but did the guy have a point ?
We seem to have skirted over that bit.
Also, I am thinking the same as a couple of other posters that had the roles been reversed, the sympathy might not have been as forthcoming.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I certainly wouldn't slam the door on you.You are one hell of a sexy ladiy,I love full thighed ladies like you.If ever you are around my way,knock on my door,and you willl get the red carpet treatment from me. |
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Yeah unfortunately i really do look like that in real life, no make up as such, wrinkles and absolutely no photoshop!
As others have said, and I've been on meets where in reality there's no spark, but we've enjoyed a social instead and left on good terms. |
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"Yeah unfortunately i really do look like that in real life, no make up as such, wrinkles and absolutely no photoshop!
As others have said, and I've been on meets where in reality there's no spark, but we've enjoyed a social instead and left on good terms."
You have a lovely smile and beautiful eyes- i'm fairly sure you'll be swamped with offers from blokes with a bit more backbone than Mr Muppet |
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"Yes, he was rude and inconsiderate for not contacting you and cancelling until you were at his door.
Just imagine how many times this scenario happens to the guys ! Would a guy who mailed the same story on here receive the same support ?
Just sayin'
Jane x
There is a similar thread running at the minute about a guy who cycled to meet and got stood up. He's getting told to improve his selection process, not getting a whole bunch of sympathy to be fair!!
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes, he was rude and inconsiderate for not contacting you and cancelling until you were at his door.
Just imagine how many times this scenario happens to the guys ! Would a guy who mailed the same story on here receive the same support ?
Just sayin'
Jane x
There is a similar thread running at the minute about a guy who cycled to meet and got stood up. He's getting told to improve his selection process, not getting a whole bunch of sympathy to be fair!!
Yep! "
I totally agree, a guy will always get told 'that he is the common denominator and to change his selection process, and a female will always get the sympathy votes and the 'his loss' comments, go figure |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is a very sad story x hugs x
My advice , report , vent, forget revenge and planning revenge just consumes a person. Remember he could have invited you in , that would have been worse x you are safe x "
Mate, seriously, she only got stood up on a meet, she wasn't meeting him a war-torn country! A little OTT don't you think?
Yeah, we've all been there and its bloody annoying, especially travelling a bit to get there and back but lets keep it in perspective! |
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To be fair, peeps, this OP had done her due diligence. She had cammed, spoke on the phone, got a full address etc. And still had her time wasted.
While I have every sympathy for the guy who cycled for 3 hours (and couldn't find his meet), I don't think he had done his due diligence. That's the difference. |
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"To be fair, peeps, this OP had done her due diligence. She had cammed, spoke on the phone, got a full address etc. And still had her time wasted.
While I have every sympathy for the guy who cycled for 3 hours (and couldn't find his meet), I don't think he had done his due diligence. That's the difference."
You beat me to it! Added to the above is that the guy told her to f*** off rather than offering her a cup of tea after a long journey and saying politely that she wasn't for him. If it had happened to a man, my response would have been exactly the same. No place for rudeness. Ms |
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By (user no longer on site)
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its why you really should rethink before you do a meet
meet half way - a place you no not his
do a social first then you wont get caught out in this again
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Gosh, this still rumbling on. I've forgotten about it and moved on. I only wrote at the time as I was annoyed, it was character building.
I did all the right stuff, he didn't have the back bone in the end. He has since apologised, turns out he was pissed as a fart due to nerves and he's realised that swinging is not for him. Too close since a recent break up.
So, please can we all move on and end the thread. |
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The guy was very rude, especially if he was aware you had travelled so far.
But he can't be reported, he hasn't broken any rules, it is not compulsory to have sex with someone you arrange a meet with on here, you don't have to invite them into your home and you don't have to be polite when telling them no either. He was a rude and insensitive yes, but not everyone has
grace do they? Couldn't you tell from the way he wrote messages and spoke about people as to the type he was?
You can't name and shame either, he said no, rudely yes, but we are all allowed to say no.
As for the people who think revenge should be sought, and in particular the fast food deliveries, please be reminded this is an adult site.
Never mind OP, not a nice experience, I am sorry to hear it, I'm sure the next meet you have will be electric
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