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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Mrs here. Was talking to a guy. He hates blow jobs!!! ??? Is this even possible!! Its a first for me! No I haven't done one so no its not because I am crap lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mrs here. Was talking to a guy. He hates blow jobs!!! ??? Is this even possible!! Its a first for me! No I haven't done one so no its not because I am crap lol. "
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I met a guy a few times and he said he didn't like blow jobs but when I asked him why he said he's had a bad experiance and its put him right off. Teeth/nails etc. ouch. I asked him if he'd be willing to let me try and change his mind. He said ok. It went well! Lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mrs here. Was talking to a guy. He hates blow jobs!!! ??? Is this even possible!! Its a first for me! No I haven't done one so no its not because I am crap lol. "
Let me translate that for you, "I don't like blowjobs", in man speak either means I've almost had it bit off once or I'm not a fan of hygiene and don't intend to start being. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love giving them i think it would be less fun if they didn't like them.
And i know a woman who doesn't like oral...and there have been times when someone has given me it i really wish they hadn't
Maybe its down to bad experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea I get women not liking receiving oral. But was completely taken aback by a guy not liking a bj lol!!! My favo thing ever lol!"
Guys are allowed not to like things you know even if you enjoy them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love giving them i think it would be less fun if they didn't like them.
And i know a woman who doesn't like oral...and there have been times when someone has given me it i really wish they hadn't
Maybe its down to bad experience "
Just letting you know...... I love getting them!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mrs here. Was talking to a guy. He hates blow jobs!!! ??? Is this even possible!! Its a first for me! No I haven't done one so no its not because I am crap lol. can I have his number "
Bet hes not local to me. I will give them because I receive oral. Its only fair after all but I dont let them cum in my mouth, dont like it and wont do it. He must be a one-off  |
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"I met a guy a few times and he said he didn't like blow jobs but when I asked him why he said he's had a bad experiance and its put him right off. Teeth/nails etc. ouch. I asked him if he'd be willing to let me try and change his mind. He said ok. It went well! Lol x "
The mans a genius ..... lol ....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I met a guy a few times and he said he didn't like blow jobs but when I asked him why he said he's had a bad experiance and its put him right off. Teeth/nails etc. ouch. I asked him if he'd be willing to let me try and change his mind. He said ok. It went well! Lol x
The mans a genius ..... lol .... "
Ha ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met a guy a few times and he said he didn't like blow jobs but when I asked him why he said he's had a bad experiance and its put him right off. Teeth/nails etc. ouch. I asked him if he'd be willing to let me try and change his mind. He said ok. It went well! Lol x
The mans a genius ..... lol ....
Ha ha ha"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a guy once not off here who wouldn't do oral to a woman!
Best part of the warm up i think sex wasn't that good with him either if he's not going down why should i?
Didn't see him again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had some terrible blow jobs off women (n some men tooo) like they trying to scrape a carrot wiv their teeth!!!! Expect I've done some crap oral on women in me time tooo LOL  |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"Yea I get women not liking receiving oral. But was completely taken aback by a guy not liking a bj lol!!! My favo thing ever lol!
Guys are allowed not to like things you know even if you enjoy them "
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Let me translate that for you, "I don't like blowjobs", in man speak either means I've almost had it bit off once or I'm not a fan of hygiene and don't intend to start being."
What a stupid assumption. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its amazing when you look at most womens veris they are all amazing at giving oral and in my experience this is far from the truth. Think as soon as a woman puts her mouth near a guys cock they think its amazing no matter what she does.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is mr D i am not a fan off blow jobs i have to be really in the mood to receive one even though mrs D gives fantastic blow jobs sometimes i dont want it. |
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I've met women who don't particularly enjoy receiving oral, and didn't think they were weird in the slightest. Whenever i've mentioned to a meet that i'm not a fan of blowjobs, 2 things usually happen:
1) She looks at me like i'm some kind of alien (ugh)
2) She proceeds to give me one anyway, after boasting about her oral skills and how she's never had any complaints (double ugh)
Guaranteed to make me lose interest almost immediately. And my erection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've met women who don't particularly enjoy receiving oral, and didn't think they were weird in the slightest. Whenever i've mentioned to a meet that i'm not a fan of blowjobs, 2 things usually happen:
1) She looks at me like i'm some kind of alien (ugh)
2) She proceeds to give me one anyway, after boasting about her oral skills and how she's never had any complaints (double ugh)
Guaranteed to make me lose interest almost immediately. And my erection."
Now we can't have you loosing your erection shall I give you a blow job |
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Here we go again! The oral sex police. It isn't mandatory to like oral sex for any gender there has been no law.passed to make it so that I'm aware of.
We are all here to have fun and enjoy sex the best way we know how, not limit others pleasure by suggesting that they are somehow strange for not enjoying something that the majority claim to.
I don't like oral, I never have and I've come across men who don't, we simply respect each others preference not imply that either of us is odd. |
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"Mrs here. Was talking to a guy. He hates blow jobs!!! ??? Is this even possible!! Its a first for me! No I haven't done one so no its not because I am crap lol.
Let me translate that for you, "I don't like blowjobs", in man speak either means I've almost had it bit off once or I'm not a fan of hygiene and don't intend to start being."
Or how about it's simply his preference? |
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"I met a guy a few times and he said he didn't like blow jobs but when I asked him why he said he's had a bad experiance and its put him right off. Teeth/nails etc. ouch. I asked him if he'd be willing to let me try and change his mind. He said ok. It went well! Lol x
The mans a genius ..... lol .... "
Not really because its not like he persuaded me to to do it id already told him I love it. He wouldn't on the first meet. Just when he got more comfortable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it is unusual but everyone is different. I used to not enjoy being licked out, but recently after years of not enjoying it I like it.
I do love giving blow jobs though lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not a huge fan unless the women 100% knows what she's doing - and yes ladies it's very much about technique - I recon I've had about 5 toe-curlingly, eyes rolling into the back of head, good ones in my life.
So if you want to accept the challenge ladies
I've also met quite a few women who don't like men going down low ..but I think that's more about being self-conscious than not getting a pleasurable feeling from it. Most women, I believe, need to feel relaxed to enjoy sex |
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I've also met quite a few women who don't like men going down low ..but I think that's more about being self-conscious than not getting a pleasurable feeling from it. Most women, I believe, need to feel relaxed to enjoy sex"
no it isn't about feeling self conscious in my case, it's about genuinely not liking it..genuinely. I haven't had a bad experience, I don't think my genitals are unclean, shameful, ugly or different to other womens and I'm more than happy for men to see them be close to them touch them etc just not give me oral. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lol i dont like blow jobs? let me translate in a mans language
i dont like blow jobs but you can try n change my mind and try ..reverse psychology...... classic  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We met a couple off here a few years ago now (they're nolonger on here so no chance of them reading this) and got told that she wouldn't perform oral sex (given or receiving). When we actually got to playing he said he didn't like it either. Personally I think he wasn't allowed to try it or like it lol. The meet went very badly and we never met again, I wonder why? |
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I think it just goes to show we're all different and like and/or dislike different things. Surely that's the whole point of swinging it's about variety and embracing and enjoying those differences. Personally i love receiving blow jobs and love giving oral but it doesn't follow that everyone else should. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to say that until i met the ex wife i didnt see what the fuss was all about...hate to say this to the ladies but the vast majority of women are really mediocre at them...just we wont complain cos we are to grateful for any kind of attention lol...course the ones who are skilled...yowser !! |
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"I think it just goes to show we're all different and like and/or dislike different things. Surely that's the whole point of swinging it's about variety and embracing and enjoying those differences. Personally i love receiving blow jobs and love giving oral but it doesn't follow that everyone else should."
Exactly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've also met quite a few women who don't like men going down low ..but I think that's more about being self-conscious than not getting a pleasurable feeling from it. Most women, I believe, need to feel relaxed to enjoy sex
no it isn't about feeling self conscious in my case, it's about genuinely not liking it..genuinely. I haven't had a bad experience, I don't think my genitals are unclean, shameful, ugly or different to other womens and I'm more than happy for men to see them be close to them touch them etc just not give me oral. "
That's fair enough |
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"Mrs here. Was talking to a guy. He hates blow jobs!!! ??? Is this even possible!! Its a first for me! No I haven't done one so no its not because I am crap lol. "
Are you sure he was Human ....LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had some terrible blow jobs off women (n some men tooo) like they trying to scrape a carrot wiv their teeth!!!! Expect I've done some crap oral on women in me time tooo LOL "
ALTHO personally I'd RATHER get a decent blow job than fuck - LOL how freakish is THAT - luckily it says so in my profile so I don't tend to meet females who give me a  look!
Each to their own I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I think blow jobs are good visually but don't get that much out of them physically.
We met a couple from another site years ago, all he wanted to do was lie back and have his cock sucked, not even fuck.
She was great but he was the laziest fucker ever (no pun intended).
She certainly deserved better, she text us on their way home to say they'd stopped for her to suck his cock....... no surprise there then. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I think blow jobs are good visually but don't get that much out of them physically."
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Agree with this, and with the OP.
There's almost a pressure or an expectation for guys to enjoy blowjobs, like they're the holy grail of soft play or something, and you're strange if you don't!
There is something intimate about oral, obviously, and giving a blowjob can be a very submissive act both visually and physically in the right context, if you're like me and enjoy that kind of thing.
But just a blowjob, or a blowjob for a blowjobs sake? Not for me thank you. Rare as it is to find a woman who can actually give a good one properly, I still don't find them all that physically stimulating, and I certainly can't imagine ever cumming from just one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've had good ones and bad ones.
Guys do tend to be better than girls though.. Sorry ladies.
Things to remember..
It's like licking an ice cream, not biting a stick of celery!
Gentle is good. You are not trying to suck an apple through a letterbox... There's no need to suck like you have not eaten for a month.
Foreskins are like clitoral hoods, they protect sensitive bits... Don't yank the skin back... You are not pulling a polo neck over your head!
Don't ever, ever, pull the skin right back and suck so hard that his arsehole collapses in on itself... It's not enjoyable and can hurt like hell!
Teeth... If you can't pop them in a glass before you start, keep them outta the way!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Amazes me how so many women on here give "the best blow job in the world" or can " suck a golf ball through a hose"
Once met a lovely lady who promised "the best" I had to tell her to stop as it was shockingly poor. Putting it in your mouth then going hell for leather at it isn't good |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i dont like receiving oral and lads think that odd so i guess there could be lads out there that dont lol x "
Damn , my talented tongue would just have to kiss you instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a reduced sensitivity due to my circumcision, blowjobs can be quite frustrating as any change in rhythm is like starting again.
I can take them or leave them. |
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Looking back over this thread it seems that men who don't like or aren't keen on blow jobs aren't as uncommon as some would have us believe.
Choice is what its all about and allowing people to feel able to express that choice without being made to feel as if they are strange or as one person did have their membership of the human race questioned.  |
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"I have a reduced sensitivity due to my circumcision, blowjobs can be quite frustrating as any change in rhythm is like starting again.
I can take them or leave them."
Same here actually. Maybe it is a difference between cut and uncut guys. |
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I'm glad some men aren't that keen on receiving them - because I'm not that keen on giving them. I just get bored.
I do, by all accounts, give a pretty spectacular hand job though (and I'm not talking a bog-standard wank). A sensual hand job is very underrated imo |
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to me a blowjob is just a means to an end. If I'm struggling to get it up, then yes help me out, but otherwise I'm not bothered. To me its a waste of a bullet.
And before anyone says its cos I havent had a good one, I'm a regular at the Private Club, some of those ladies can proper suck cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"to me a blowjob is just a means to an end. If I'm struggling to get it up, then yes help me out, but otherwise I'm not bothered. To me its a waste of a bullet.
And before anyone says its cos I havent had a good one, I'm a regular at the Private Club, some of those ladies can proper suck cock."
I like to start by getting sucked, I've not come from blow job since I was teenager. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met a guy a few times and he said he didn't like blow jobs but when I asked him why he said he's had a bad experiance and its put him right off. Teeth/nails etc. ouch. I asked him if he'd be willing to let me try and change his mind. He said ok. It went well! Lol x "
Could you try that experiment with me? |
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"When I saw the thread title, I just thought of 10cc
"I don't like blow jobs"... "I love them".
oh the pleasures of a dirty mind"
This got me thinking about the thread title posting to the tune of I Don't Like Mondays by The Boomtown Rats :
The silicon chick decides on head
To get to the cum load
But nobody's gonna suck a tool today
She's gonna leave that bone alone
And daddy doesn't understand it
He always did as he was told
And he can see no reasons
'Cos there are no reasons
What reasons do you need to be blow-ow-ow-ow-own ?
Tell me why
I don’t like Blowjobs
Tell me why
I don’t like Blowjobs
Tell me why
I don’t like Blowjobs
I wanna shoo-oo-woo-woo-woo-oot the whole cum load
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By *1ckeyMan
over a year ago
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"When I saw the thread title, I just thought of 10cc
"I don't like blow jobs"... "I love them".
oh the pleasures of a dirty mind
This got me thinking about the thread title posting to the tune of I Don't Like Mondays by The Boomtown Rats :
The silicon chick decides on head
To get to the cum load
But nobody's gonna suck a tool today
She's gonna leave that bone alone
And daddy doesn't understand it
He always did as he was told
And he can see no reasons
'Cos there are no reasons
What reasons do you need to be blow-ow-ow-ow-own ?
Tell me why
I don’t like Blowjobs
Tell me why
I don’t like Blowjobs
Tell me why
I don’t like Blowjobs
I wanna shoo-oo-woo-woo-woo-oot the whole cum load
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