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So what do you go for?
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By *tomCom OP Man
over a year ago
Wellingborough |
Nice face
Fit body
Big cock/Breasts
Funny
Intelligence ?
By honest ... I know a lot of people say they have to make me laugh. But that would mean the comedians are the greatest sex symbols and they are not.
If you look at the top 20 most shagable people you see that looks seem to be the major factor .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks first, always
if someone sends me a pic and i'm not attracted to him i'm not going to find out if he's a nice guy cause I wouldn't play with him even if he was
The deal breakers personality tho, no matter how good looking they are if we don't get on its a no go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A man I find attractive and he must have broad shoulders!
Intelligence because I want to talk about more than what happened today on Jeremy Kyle
The ability to make me laugh - he'll need a sense of humour
Someone that fits me perfectly! About 7" is good.
But also someone who enjoys sex, passion and intimacy. I'm not a performing seal that wants to fuck for 3 hrs - I'll be daydreaming and thinking about the kids pack lunches tomorrow  |
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"A man I find attractive and he must have broad shoulders!
Intelligence because I want to talk about more than what happened today on Jeremy Kyle
The ability to make me laugh - he'll need a sense of humour
Someone that fits me perfectly! About 7" is good.
But also someone who enjoys sex, passion and intimacy. I'm not a performing seal that wants to fuck for 3 hrs - I'll be daydreaming and thinking about the kids pack lunches tomorrow "
You don't ask for much, do you? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Intelligence and attraction are paramount for me..
It's one thing having a real hottie infront of you. However, if the personality is dire or zero the intial impact of physical chemistry evaporates for me... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Physically....broad shoulders and a great smile. J is a breast man but women with dimples go to the front of the line.
But all that means nothing without a good personality. Like the poster above there have been times I've been attracted to a man on personality alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Her eyes and bottom, rather bizarrely.
The eyes say passion, happy, sexy thoughts and more.
The bottom shape has to be girlie, hips, shapely, .... Just love the view from behind ... Although not at all fond of anal.
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If it's a meet from here then looks first, but even after meeting, if they have a poor personality then it's a no go. Looks aren't everything.
If it's at a club then sparkling personality every time. Making me laugh opens my legs. Must be a medical thing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have the most amazing body but i was blessed with good genes and a pretty face and it seems to work for me.
I always go a nice face and good personality...if i can have banter with someone and they make me smile and there is the attraction there,Everything else seems to fall into place. |
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By *tomCom OP Man
over a year ago
Wellingborough |
"They have to be sexually appealing to attract me but articulate and intelligent to keep my interest...oh, and not have a voice like Joe Pasquale! "
So David Beckham would not do it for you then ? hehe |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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"A man I find attractive and he must have broad shoulders!
Intelligence because I want to talk about more than what happened today on Jeremy Kyle
The ability to make me laugh - he'll need a sense of humour
Someone that fits me perfectly! About 7" is good.
But also someone who enjoys sex, passion and intimacy. I'm not a performing seal that wants to fuck for 3 hrs - I'll be daydreaming and thinking about the kids pack lunches tomorrow
You don't ask for much, do you? Lol"
Ah but black metal isn't that you she is describing mainly, except you have more to offer as well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Confidence is a massive turn on for me, like a man to throw me around in the bedroom lol
Pleased to read some men find the dimples above bum sexy! I hate mine  |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
OP. this is my shopping list.
Taller than me
Good body (not skinny)
Fantastic bum
Good looking
Naughty sense of humour
Full lips
Good conversationalist
The list goes on and on but then I am a greedy girl. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP. this is my shopping list.
Taller than me
Good body (not skinny)
Fantastic bum
Good looking
Naughty sense of humour
Full lips
Good conversationalist
The list goes on and on but then I am a greedy girl. "
Damn I'm only 5'2   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In order of personal importance:
1. Intelligence/Nice face (there HAS to be both a mental and physical attraction)
2. Funny (helps the meet go smoothly)
3. Fit body (adds to the physical attraction)
4. Big Boobs (same as above, but these are more like the cherries on the cake) |
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"They have to be sexually appealing to attract me but articulate and intelligent to keep my interest...oh, and not have a voice like Joe Pasquale!
So David Beckham would not do it for you then ? hehe"
No he wouldn't. I met a man that looked like Daniel Craig, my own personally idea of perfection. As he was walking towards me I could see people looking at him, he was gorgeous and the only man that made me think about my wobbly bits.
Then he opened his mouth...it was awful. He was also as boring as fuck, kept talking about his mother and his insecurities: I couldn't drink my cappuccino fast enough.
Now I always speak on the phone before meeting. |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"OP. this is my shopping list.
Taller than me
Good body (not skinny)
Fantastic bum
Good looking
Naughty sense of humour
Full lips
Good conversationalist
The list goes on and on but then I am a greedy girl.
Damn I'm only 5'2 "
Q of T I could make an exception for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP. this is my shopping list.
Taller than me
Good body (not skinny)
Fantastic bum
Good looking
Naughty sense of humour
Full lips
Good conversationalist
The list goes on and on but then I am a greedy girl.
Damn I'm only 5'2
Q of T I could make an exception for you "
I shall remember that in July  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a personal connection so therefore personality and a sense of humour is first on the list. In terms of physical looks, I love a gorgeous face and then I'm all about boobs and bum...having said that I appreciate all attributes of a woman, especially sexy curves |
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"OP. this is my shopping list.
Taller than me
Good body (not skinny)
Fantastic bum
Good looking
Naughty sense of humour
Full lips
Good conversationalist
The list goes on and on but then I am a greedy girl.
Damn I'm only 5'2
Q of T I could make an exception for you
I shall remember that in July "
If I give you a piggy back so you're taller, do you think she'll have us both?? |
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"A man I find attractive and he must have broad shoulders!
Intelligence because I want to talk about more than what happened today on Jeremy Kyle
The ability to make me laugh - he'll need a sense of humour
Someone that fits me perfectly! About 7" is good.
But also someone who enjoys sex, passion and intimacy. I'm not a performing seal that wants to fuck for 3 hrs - I'll be daydreaming and thinking about the kids pack lunches tomorrow
You don't ask for much, do you? Lol
Ah but black metal isn't that you she is describing mainly, except you have more to offer as well "
Oh do I? 
Hmm wonder what that is, you sexy thing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's facial looks, size and bum (love a peachy ass) That'll get them a meet. Once we've met its the personality which is the decider on whether Ill meet them again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attraction for me is a combination of beauty and brains. You don't need to be stunningly gorgeous but if we click mentally and you look average or better then I'd probably find you attractive. Men are very visually orientated where women tend to be emotion centred. |
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For me, a lot of it is about the face... Believe it or not! 
