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Who Supplies The Condoms?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone, just a curious thought question on "Who Supplies The Condoms?"
Reason for asking is we are still surprised at the amount of people who go out looking & hoping to engage in adult fun who never carry condoms.
So as a couple out looking for fun, should the couple always carry & supply them?
Or should the people out hoping for fun carry their own supply ?
Obviously people can pin prick them etc etc & some people have the wrong size ones (lol) but we just thought we would ask anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I expect the man to supply condoms. Hopefully he buys the one's that fit him properly, and if I accommodate and fork out for expensive lingerie and stockings at £8 a pair, I expect him to pay for a box of condoms  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think everyone should carry them to be honest! I always make sure I have some and if you're on a swinging site there's no excuse for anyone not to. If you and your meet come to some other arrangement then that's different but Id be horrified if a man I was meeting turned up without them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we always take our own as they need to be latex free, would rely or risk a guy using the wrong type"
Similar to this, even though I "carry" being an ex boy scout....if i were a woman or a female i would supply on the basis I trust nobody and how do i know the bloke hasnt sabotaged them....
Unlikely but possible.....there are strange uns about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's currently 100 odd in my boot, some in my camera bag, glovebox and - yep - just checked - three in my suit jacket pocket!
I'll never go anywhere unprepared. The only times I've ever had to rely on anyone else is when they've sprung a latex allergy on me - but then I've been happy to use theirs.
*note to self - acquire small supply of latex free for such situations!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's currently 100 odd in my boot, some in my camera bag, glovebox and - yep - just checked - three in my suit jacket pocket!
I'll never go anywhere unprepared. The only times I've ever had to rely on anyone else is when they've sprung a latex allergy on me - but then I've been happy to use theirs.
*note to self - acquire small supply of latex free for such situations! "
You must have big feet if you can fit 100 in ones boot  |
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By *aptzogMan
over a year ago
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I think everyone should have them. I'd hate to get to a rare meet and get sent home simply because I wasn't carrying lol
I must admit to being surprised by the number of people concerned about tampering - are there really many people about that deliberately put holes in condoms and what do they get out of it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to provide my own. One I know they haven't been tampered with and two won't bring me out in a rash..
Cali x"
Just my mind but this made me think , I carry my own and will use either but saying provide my own because I know they haven't been tampered with is like saying to the other party you going to have to trust me that I haven't tampered with mine because you don't get a choice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like to provide my own. One I know they haven't been tampered with and two won't bring me out in a rash..
Cali x
Just my mind but this made me think , I carry my own and will use either but saying provide my own because I know they haven't been tampered with is like saying to the other party you going to have to trust me that I haven't tampered with mine because you don't get a choice "
I actually don't care what the guy thinks.. as a woman it's far easier for me to catch something than it is for a guy... Also if they don't have latex free I can't use them anyway...
A guy has two choices.. use mine or don't fuck me.
Sounds harsh but I've had someone tamper in the past... So no way will I risk it happening again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Male every time but think women should always carry/have a supply as the amount of times i been at group meetings and guys say oh i forgot - they are those guys who hunt out un protected BB sex - in my opinion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we always have some with me including latex free as we have a gf who has a latex allergy so if play happens better to be prepared, He has some in his wallet and I have in my purse ( thank god for lots of pockets ) x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Male every time but think women should always carry/have a supply as the amount of times i been at group meetings and guys say oh i forgot - they are those guys who hunt out un protected BB sex - in my opinion "
if they forget I don't play either.. as the only person I don't use protection with is my regular playmate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I have my purse, I'm carrying condoms (I buy those in the credit card pack)
If I'm heading to a club (whether condoms are free or not) I pick up loads, not that I plan to use them but it's no good me standing there saying, yeah I have loads in my drawer at home 
If he wants to use his own that's ok by me, but I carry them as I see it as responsible  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never without Durex Fetherlites. Closest to not wearing condoms, in terms of "feel" that I've found, and gives me and my partners the best guarantee of safe sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think everyone should carry them to be honest! I always make sure I have some and if you're on a swinging site there's no excuse for anyone not to. If you and your meet come to some other arrangement then that's different but Id be horrified if a man I was meeting turned up without them. "
yep both parties should carry them end of |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi everyone, just a curious thought question on "Who Supplies The Condoms?"
Reason for asking is we are still surprised at the amount of people who go out looking & hoping to engage in adult fun who never carry condoms.
So as a couple out looking for fun, should the couple always carry & supply them?
Or should the people out hoping for fun carry their own supply ?
Obviously people can pin prick them etc etc & some people have the wrong size ones (lol) but we just thought we would ask anyway "
I always provide my own as its my safety I am thinking about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're the only ones responsible for our own sexual health so always have our own in our swing kit along with lube, wipes and hand gel(don't get the lube and the hand gel confused though)
We would expect people to bring their own even if we don't use them because it shows that they take their own health seriously but also don't abuse our hospitality...if it was a regular meet and they regularly didn't bring them, it would cross our mind not to meet again for those reasons... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It never seizes to amaze me how many guys do not bring the right size condoms. A fairly recent date kept having to stop to pull the condom down his shaft.... so frustrating!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It never seizes to amaze me how many guys do not bring the right size condoms. A fairly recent date kept having to stop to pull the condom down his shaft.... so frustrating!
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We've had this happen a few times and they wonder why we never meet them again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always carry a few in my wallet more if a planned meet. Always a bonus of ur out and a friend meets someone and they not carrying too"
I wouldn't have expected someone with that profile name to be carrying condoms! |
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Recent threads about safe sex emphasised that everyone should be responsible for their own sexual health. Therein lies the answer, anyone turning up without condoms doesn't their own or their potential partners health seriously.
As far as tampering with condoms goes there are indeed.some strange people about and much as it pains me to say it you should trust no one in this lifestyle until you know them. |
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"Hi everyone, just a curious thought question on "Who Supplies The Condoms?"
Reason for asking is we are still surprised at the amount of people who go out looking & hoping to engage in adult fun who never carry condoms.
So as a couple out looking for fun, should the couple always carry & supply them?
Or should the people out hoping for fun carry their own supply ?
Obviously people can pin prick them etc etc & some people have the wrong size ones (lol) but we just thought we would ask anyway "
I always provide the condoms as I use them on my toys and I'm allergic to latex to have latex free ones.
I have noticed though the rise in men who suddenly go floppy when you produce a condom. |
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" I have noticed though the rise in men who suddenly go floppy when you produce a condom."
Me too, it's pretty disheartening, and they put on the puppy dog eyes and look at you like they think you'll change your mind! Sorry mate, condoms are not optional! |
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" I have noticed though the rise in men who suddenly go floppy when you produce a condom.
Me too, it's pretty disheartening, and they put on the puppy dog eyes and look at you like they think you'll change your mind! Sorry mate, condoms are not optional!"
Indeed! I don't meet them again. |
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Must admit one guy I did keep meeting, as he was amazing with fingers and everything else and we got on really well, I made it clear he'd just have to cope with condoms, and things did get better each time we met and he managed longer and longer with one on, so it worked out alright in the end  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have noticed though the rise in men who suddenly go floppy when you produce a condom."
Practice, practice, practice
and finding the right ones for you
and knowing when to get one out
Like many blokes, I struggled for some time with condoms especially as after years in a vanilla relat of not needing to use them.
I have suffered from said floppiness and the three things above are what made a difference to me.
I do think though that some guys get stage fright anyway as well as a pressure to perform and satisfy - and the condom just makes it worse or is a great excuse for the lack of sustainable hard on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always have them, and also expect the guy to carry them.
Tbh if a guy turned up for a meet without, I'd be worried he was hoping for bareback!
That would result in a 'put your clothes back on/I'm off' scenario! |
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"Hi everyone, just a curious thought question on "Who Supplies The Condoms?"
Reason for asking is we are still surprised at the amount of people who go out looking & hoping to engage in adult fun who never carry condoms.
So as a couple out looking for fun, should the couple always carry & supply them?
Or should the people out hoping for fun carry their own supply ?
Obviously people can pin prick them etc etc & some people have the wrong size ones (lol) but we just thought we would ask anyway "
Everyone should have their own
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If I'm meeting someone at home I'll often say not to worry about condoms unless they have specific requirements, I have absolutely loads of them, a couple of years ago Home Bargains had boxes of 12 Mates lube+ and king size for a quid a box, I erm stocked up. All still well in date, got a few years yet! Also got clinic freebies, and some Durex Fetherlite from a recent offer. If I go to a party or club I put a handful in my little black purse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we have met single men who were very surprised when we produced condoms, even though we'd made it clear at the social meeting we never bare back and none of them had their own  "
I'd be sending them home, with my packets still in tack  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The person or persons invited or looking to have fun should allways bring there own but on the other side of it is if you want to be sure and safe if you have ur own then your mind is at ease but then are there mind at ease catch 22 lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I expect the man to supply condoms. Hopefully he buys the one's that fit him properly, and if I accommodate and fork out for expensive lingerie and stockings at £8 a pair, I expect him to pay for a box of condoms "
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