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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone, now we like outdoor fun & we have a great life & sex life together.
Now we have been pondering the idea of going to a club or possibly a private party for the 1st time.
So our enquiry is this;
Just because you are interested in this idea, when attending either do you have to play or can you just chill out, natter & see where the mood takes you?
Would being normally dressed make you out of place & do people understand why you are there?
Any thoughts on the above are gratefully received & thanks for your input  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok then, for parties - the host should give you a good idea of what to wear, though normally, it is what ever you are comfortable in..
For clubs - pretty much the same to be honest, although many clubs have wet areas, so towel wear occurs later on..
But in both cases, there is never a compulsion to play, if you dont want to, then dont..
We often go to JayDees and have many times just treated it as a glorified social - ok there may be some kissing and light feeling/groping, but if you dont want to play, you dont have to, and once you explain that you just want to have a look around, people will respect that... if someone doesnt, speak to the hostr and they will deal with them...
Most of all, relax and have fun xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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and just for the record you two look fine, so you wont have a problem ... just chat away and dont be afreaid to let the hands rove .. as long as the people you are with know that you are newbies... xx |
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