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Do you think some people let swinging take over there lives?..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey just a quick consensus do any of you think some swinging peeps let it takeover there live as in any spare time and they get swinging. I'm not judging as I have other stuff to do but notice expletives on here constantly ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey just a quick consensus do any of you think some swinging peeps let it takeover there live as in any spare time and they get swinging. I'm not judging as I have other stuff to do but notice expletives on here constantly ?"
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Oh blimey, yes! The anger you get from some posts or messages that they're struggling to get meets is so offputting.
I like sex as much as the next person but try and have other things to do too! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah I think sex can be as addictive as drugs that's why u get sex addicts. I believe unless ther getting it they feel shit. Another thing I find horrible is some women on here have meets nearly everyday when u look at veri there a cpl but some veris say for example " mrs x ver y sexy got down to it straight away. Mr x cool guy left us to it and went stairs" but there fucking all sorts everyday at least charge I think lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are plenty of people on here that not only let swinging take over but swinging is the only life they have......
Funniest comments seen during the 3years we have been swinging...
1. (After constant meets for several weekends).... Looks like I will be having sex with just my partner tonight then, will make a nice change.
2. Going on holiday, anyone else going to be there and want some fun...
Seriously! Take a step back and realise this should be an additive not a replacement...
Funny old world  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I think sex can be as addictive as drugs that's why u get sex addicts. I believe unless ther getting it they feel shit. Another thing I find horrible is some women on here have meets nearly everyday when u look at veri there a cpl but some veris say for example " mrs x ver y sexy got down to it straight away. Mr x cool guy left us to it and went stairs" but there fucking all sorts everyday at least charge I think lol "
So because I enjoy sex with different men I should charge...wow! |
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"Yeah I think sex can be as addictive as drugs that's why u get sex addicts. I believe unless ther getting it they feel shit. Another thing I find horrible is some women on here have meets nearly everyday when u look at veri there a cpl but some veris say for example " mrs x ver y sexy got down to it straight away. Mr x cool guy left us to it and went stairs" but there fucking all sorts everyday at least charge I think lol "
I don't understand. If you don't like the way some people play steer away from them. If someone wants to have sex with strangers daily its their business and suggesting they charge is crass. |
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"There are plenty of people on here that not only let swinging take over but swinging is the only life they have......
Funniest comments seen during the 3years we have been swinging...
1. (After constant meets for several weekends).... Looks like I will be having sex with just my partner tonight then, will make a nice change.
2. Going on holiday, anyone else going to be there and want some fun...
Seriously! Take a step back and realise this should be an additive not a replacement...
Funny old world "
Why? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So guys , it's like this - each to their own !
If a couple should choose to let a guy take the wife upstairs , what's up with that ?
The kink may be that the husband gets off to the fact that she is alone with the guy !
And as for the original question - yes it does take over some people's lives . Ours at times , and then after a while it gets stale so we stop for a while . Before too long the urge returns and we start again !
Been this for a couple of years now and tbh dunno if we are sex addicts or not as we have a fantastic sex life together aswell as the swinging , but if we are we like it so there !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id rather hv quality than quantity. I wldnt want to shag a different guy every weekend. I aint that desperate lol  "
I manage both quality and quantity. Like to meet some guys regularly and enjoy the excitement of meeting someone new too...nothing to do with desperation, I just enjoy sex and like variety too. You may want a few select meets but that's not what everyone else is on here for |
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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago
Wellington |
Each to their own I say! Some people live it as a lifestyle and its a free world and their choice! Others take it and leave as they want! As long everyone is having fun and are happy with their own choices and it's not hurting anyone. Why change? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Each to their own I say! Some people live it as a lifestyle and its a free world and their choice! Others take it and leave as they want! As long everyone is having fun and are happy with their own choices and it's not hurting anyone. Why change? "
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"Hey just a quick consensus do any of you think some swinging peeps let it takeover there live as in any spare time and they get swinging. I'm not judging as I have other stuff to do but notice expletives on here constantly ?"
Rhetorical question, right?!! |
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None of us are in any position to judge or comment on how other people choose to play as long as its legal and consensual. How often they do it, how many people they do it with and who is present while they're doing it is nobody elses business but their own.
If the way someone else plays isn't for us we avoid them and I'm sure we're avoided for the same reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it quite humorous that people on here have a couples profile (highlighting that they are a couple) however it seems that the novelty and out of the ordinary is to have sex with their partner....
I am all for fun and naughtiness but if being with your partner is a novelty and fucking others is the norm.... Wake up and realise your relationship is well and truly over, so get on single profiles and have a good old work out. |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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They not all having fun though, are they!
The amount of gripes and complaints you see daily on here shows that it is taking over their lives, they need to take a step back and start to enjoy it again....
Or just start lol |
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"There are plenty of people on here that not only let swinging take over but swinging is the only life they have......
Funniest comments seen during the 3years we have been swinging...
1. (After constant meets for several weekends).... Looks like I will be having sex with just my partner tonight then, will make a nice change.
2. Going on holiday, anyone else going to be there and want some fun...
Seriously! Take a step back and realise this should be an additive not a replacement...
Funny old world "
I think some couples should talk amongst themselves as some get so upset if a meet cancels invariably the husband then starts a thread about how gorgeous his wife is and how dare people not be beating a path to their foor to fuck her!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah I have no gripe with what people wanna do I just find it a bit vulgar to sleep with so many men I'm not highlighting every weekend I've seen some profiles with at least 5 different veris a week. I mean come on and the certain person I saw likes it bareback surely that's asking for trouble isn't it. How many men would like there wife's fucking 5 different men a week. |
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"Yeah I have no gripe with what people wanna do I just find it a bit vulgar to sleep with so many men I'm not highlighting every weekend I've seen some profiles with at least 5 different veris a week. I mean come on and the certain person I saw likes it bareback surely that's asking for trouble isn't it. How many men would like there wife's fucking 5 different men a week."
So its just the women who are vulgar? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah I have no gripe with what people wanna do I just find it a bit vulgar to sleep with so many men I'm not highlighting every weekend I've seen some profiles with at least 5 different veris a week. I mean come on and the certain person I saw likes it bareback surely that's asking for trouble isn't it. How many men would like there wife's fucking 5 different men a week.
So its just the women who are vulgar? "
No of course not in my mind I'd be worried of sti if it was a freind of mine I'd be worried for there lives cus meeting so many men your bound to come across a wrong un especially if they know where u live |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I have no gripe with what people wanna do I just find it a bit vulgar to sleep with so many men I'm not highlighting every weekend I've seen some profiles with at least 5 different veris a week. I mean come on and the certain person I saw likes it bareback surely that's asking for trouble isn't it. How many men would like there wife's fucking 5 different men a week.
So its just the women who are vulgar?
No of course not in my mind I'd be worried of sti if it was a freind of mine I'd be worried for there lives cus meeting so many men your bound to come across a wrong un especially if they know where u live "
Vulgar and sti ridden...I must be such a catch! For someone claiming not to judge you sound pretty judgemental  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I have no gripe with what people wanna do I just find it a bit vulgar to sleep with so many men I'm not highlighting every weekend I've seen some profiles with at least 5 different veris a week. I mean come on and the certain person I saw likes it bareback surely that's asking for trouble isn't it. How many men would like there wife's fucking 5 different men a week.
So its just the women who are vulgar?
No of course not in my mind I'd be worried of sti if it was a freind of mine I'd be worried for there lives cus meeting so many men your bound to come across a wrong un especially if they know where u live
Vulgar and sti ridden...I must be such a catch! For someone claiming not to judge you sound pretty judgemental "
Agree!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it doesnt impact you or your life why worry ?? The plain truth is its others personal choice as to who , where and how many they sleep with.
Until the point that it impacts your swinging lifestyle or personal life then let them get on with it. Although i do agree that safe swinging is a must as it not only puts them at risk but also others.
Live and let live as they say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its like life really...we are all different, tall short thin not so thin, lively quiet. Its a good thing we aren't all the same. So is it surprising we all have different libido levels..even within some couples they are different! Swinging is different in definition and immersion for all. That said sex like any exercise produces hormones etc that are addictive, so the more you have the more you crave.
All in all we should accept others levels and choices as their own and hope we meet like folk and hit it off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey just a quick consensus do any of you think some swinging peeps let it takeover there live as in any spare time and they get swinging. I'm not judging as I have other stuff to do but notice expletives on here constantly ?"
On here ??????/ we are not swinging we are just chatting and looking and its no more them being on other sites like FB and stuff .... And I do jobs but its easy to say logged on now just look on phone ipad lap tops can move around easy ... take over no its a escape from everyday jobs , lol and swinging is not just chatting its Sex , lol and only if sex mad high sex drive and loads of free time you maybe could live for SEX , LOL But most have jobs and families thay get in the way . Normal life .. some here are just lap-top pc swingers , lol Happy just looking . Keeps a lot happy so good all around. x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people do its like every spare moment will be filled with trying to get meets.
For me its kids,family,work and friends and then this when i feel like it inbetween. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A guy every day or even every weekend? I should be so lucky lol. Got to be asked first and my marriage prevents a fair bit anyway. Yes now I will prob get moaned at, but im not moaning just stating a fact. |
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"Hey just a quick consensus do any of you think some swinging peeps let it takeover there live as in any spare time and they get swinging. I'm not judging as I have other stuff to do but notice expletives on here constantly ?"
Hey just a quick consensus do any of you think some swinging peeps should mind their own business a lot more? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey just a quick consensus do any of you think some swinging peeps let it takeover there live as in any spare time and they get swinging. I'm not judging as I have other stuff to do but notice expletives on here constantly ?
Hey just a quick consensus do any of you think some swinging peeps should mind their own business a lot more? "
Lol !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is quite addictive and we go through phases of wanting to do it all the time but then we also go through phases were we don't bother and don't miss it.
Just need to get a balance! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont know how someone on this site can be so judgemental of others lifestyle!!
The coment about quality over quantity...... does it really matter how many strangers you have sex with in one weekend? As as for sti's how do you know the 5 she fucked had anything worse than the 1 you fucked?
We have had at times where swinging has taken over our weekends but its not because we are swinging every weekend, we can have month where every weekend we try to arrange something but may only meet once in that time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont know how someone on this site can be so judgemental of others lifestyle!!
The coment about quality over quantity...... does it really matter how many strangers you have sex with in one weekend? As as for sti's how do you know the 5 she fucked had anything worse than the 1 you fucked?
We have had at times where swinging has taken over our weekends but its not because we are swinging every weekend, we can have month where every weekend we try to arrange something but may only meet once in that time."
We couldn't agree more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let's not forget Sex is great fun... but yes all the time can be too intense.
Emma has to have time to take a break but usually between intense times! Say a long week and weekend of meets usually equals a month off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We come and go at it as there is always lots going on in our lives. I don't see anything wrong with people going full flow for a while I am sure they will have a break as and when they choose after all we should all live our lives as we want to don't you think . |
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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago
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When I first joined, it felt like all my christmasses had come at once! It did take over my life. That wasn't a problem because it was only my life that was affected.
The novelty has worn off now so swinging now supplements my life. Quality of life and swinging has improved as a result.
I'm not going to comment on others (each to their own and Fab certainly caters to all tastes and requirements). |
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"Hey just a quick consensus do any of you think some swinging peeps let it takeover there live as in any spare time and they get swinging. I'm not judging as I have other stuff to do but notice expletives on here constantly ?"
Some might - doesn't affect me in any way though so haven't given it a thought before! Z |
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