invite me down and i will demonstrate ....
in all seriousness, fidn someone with experience who you trust to be honest with you both and chat to them face to face (not online) and discus what you want to do, and see if they can guide the two of you down the road you want to go...
If in fact you know yet where that may be... I learned from a very sexy domme and a male dom she played with, and also an expereinced sub who i 'owned' for sometime..
Its fun, try it .... experiment, there are no rules and dont let people label your fun... we are all different in swinging and in S & M. |
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Join a more Fet based site, attend local munches that are advertised and attend events, watch, learn and try stuff.
S&M has a very wide spectrum so all depends how far you want to go from sensual to sexy pain to pain lol
Look online there are loads of bdsm story out there to give you guys idea's if you don't fancy heading out on the scene just yet, though we would say be careful and do some reading before roping and tieing people and using floggers and whips as there is things you need to watch out for and know for safety reason, certain area's not to don't hit, looking for circulation problems etc etc
enjoy guys and welcome to the kinky world of the Fet scene |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
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"invite me down and i will demonstrate ....
in all seriousness, fidn someone with experience who you trust to be honest with you both and chat to them face to face (not online) and discus what you want to do, and see if they can guide the two of you down the road you want to go...
If in fact you know yet where that may be... I learned from a very sexy domme and a male dom she played with, and also an expereinced sub who i 'owned' for sometime..
Its fun, try it .... experiment, there are no rules and dont let people label your fun... we are all different in swinging and in S & M."
 it's what we did,too.Found a very experienced cpl who love introducing,teaching+guiding others.We never looked back 
Be patient in finding the right person or cpl.i must had browsed 100's of profiles with kinky interests before i struck gold.Chatted loads + met socialy before entering the dungeon 
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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If you just away to start with each other, then communication is key and as far as I am concerned you can use whatever toys you want, be it paddles/floggers/spanking whatever...
IF introducing someone else, then communication is more important, the bdsm scene is so open and diverse and you need to know/understand they way they interpret it, as I am only sub in the bedroom, and I find anyone who contacts me on here or even on specific sites, our views do not match! So it is quite difficult to find the right type of person for me/you but I continue to look and hope, so you should continue to explore
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When I started out on my S&M adventure i was far to shy to go to an event or munch, not my thing at all.
I was worried (maybe unjustly) what regulars would make of a single man who knew nothing turning up !
Maybe it will be different for a couple (especially a cute couple) i dont know.
What it does show is that there are many different ways to start off on the S&M road.
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"When I started out on my S&M adventure i was far to shy to go to an event or munch, not my thing at all.
I was worried (maybe unjustly) what regulars would make of a single man who knew nothing turning up !
Maybe it will be different for a couple (especially a cute couple) i dont know.
What it does show is that there are many different ways to start off on the S&M road.
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It sure does before we ventured out on the fet we was on this scene, and we had a interest in the dungeon rooms and play, so we did a little bit of reading to get some idea's had a few plays just us and then went out on the fet scene watched a few times, spoke with a few old hands and picked up tips etc.
Its just like this scene really so don't see much of a issue attending things as new when they already head out on this scene really. |
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