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Hello All,
I have been lucky enough to play with a few couples over the years and some hubbies just like to watch at a distance including one who liked to listen on the phone! where others prefer to be more active so to speak.
Could some of you folks share your views on the subject?
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I would hate my OH to just sit and watch and would never ever meet without him. Adding an extra man (or 2 or 3!) adds to our play and is not designed to replace it. My man being there and joining in is what makes it so horny, without him it would feel like I'm cheating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love to watch , sometimes from a distance , sometimes closer and sometimes I join in .
Depends on the meet and how we all feel but we only meet and play in the same room . Couldn't do separate rooms , never mind on the phone !
Each to their own I guess  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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done this i have,turned up with a chick and after a bit of chat went upstairs and fucked this fellas bird for about a hour and a half while him and the chick i brought along sat there watching it all.
best bit was he liked to lick her out and do nothing else...kinky fuckers lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we always prefer to be fully involved in any sex, but now and then we both like to play alone with others, when we do tho, we share the fun when we meet up, I love hearing about what my wife has done with other guys and her the same with me, but when we play together, unless Im taking 5 mins to recoup, we both fully involved with fun, some times we give one another a few mins alone with the other person for 1 on 1 with them too, but never just sit back and watch, not for long any way, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, i have been speaking to a few couples about this. But, never had the opportunity to take it forward.
Still on my fantasy list. Have had husbands watch me direct their wives on Skype..but not yet a meet in their presence.
..fingers crossed soon |
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By * n SCouple
over a year ago
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I always take part whenever we have a meet though Ill occasionally sit back during the meet just to enjoy the view of Mrs playing. When a couple have sex you tend to only see a bit of each others bodies whether it be the top half if shes on top or her back if youre going from behind and so on so it its quite a turn on to be able to see her entire body having fun and being pleasured. I would 1 day like to see her enjoy 2 guys aswell as me but as yet she hasnt been up for that.
I think quite often guys on here think they are going to be providing the female of a couple with something the male cant provide but certainly in our case that is not the case. if a guy is fortunate enough to be invited to play with us its just as an enhancement to what is already a great sex life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always take part whenever we have a meet though Ill occasionally sit back during the meet just to enjoy the view of Mrs playing. When a couple have sex you tend to only see a bit of each others bodies whether it be the top half if shes on top or her back if youre going from behind and so on so it its quite a turn on to be able to see her entire body having fun and being pleasured. I would 1 day like to see her enjoy 2 guys aswell as me but as yet she hasnt been up for that.
I think quite often guys on here think they are going to be providing the female of a couple with something the male cant provide but certainly in our case that is not the case. if a guy is fortunate enough to be invited to play with us its just as an enhancement to what is already a great sex life."
I totally agree with that. Sometimes its all about the visual element..just watching and seeing how each touch makes her moan.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always take part whenever we have a meet though Ill occasionally sit back during the meet just to enjoy the view of Mrs playing. When a couple have sex you tend to only see a bit of each others bodies whether it be the top half if shes on top or her back if youre going from behind and so on so it its quite a turn on to be able to see her entire body having fun and being pleasured. I would 1 day like to see her enjoy 2 guys aswell as me but as yet she hasnt been up for that.
I think quite often guys on here think they are going to be providing the female of a couple with something the male cant provide but certainly in our case that is not the case. if a guy is fortunate enough to be invited to play with us its just as an enhancement to what is already a great sex life.
I totally agree with that. Sometimes its all about the visual element..just watching and seeing how each touch makes her moan.."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with JnS too.
My OH likes to watch and I also like to sit back and watch him. Neither of us have to be active during every second of the meet and it is just as stimulating watching and seeing angles that you don't usually get to see.
We always play in the same room and we always join in when we feel like it.
I also think some single guys imagine the male half of a couple is somewhat lacking and that's why the couple swing. These people are just out for their own pleasure without understanding the dynamics of swinging.
Similarly there are women that believe the guy of a couple secretly fancies them more than his partner and also do not understand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love to have a trusted partner watching me play. It adds to it as long as I know they love to watch..
I love it the other way around too.. and sometimes the waiting till after to touch each other just heightens the experience. |
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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago
Bridgwater - Somerset |
Some complicated dynamics when it's not vanilla
The 'single' of a threesome has to understand what's going on and what's required of them.
Thinking the 'husband' can't manage it and all that's required is to pleasure the 'wife' is so wide of the mark  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When meeting single guys, i like watching C and the guy go at it first time around. When they are finished C will then beckon the 2 of us for the 3sum.
After that if C really likes the guy she will Fuck him again with me watching or going for a shower etc
All good fun  |
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By *incs.cpl1Couple
over a year ago
Holton le Clay near Cleethorpes |
We enjoy different situations. We have had MMf and MMMF meets where we have all played. We have also had meets where i have sat back and watched Lisa having fun with the guy we have met, also Lisa has played a couple of times on her her own and told me all about it later. All very erotic and horny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im sick of meeting couples that claim to be full swap only to spend half the time watching the guy getting off seeing my hubby fuck his wife. Surely they would be better off meeting single guys. I know its a bit selfish but I would quite like a good seeing too aswell. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife enjoys playing with multiple guys at once but prefers it if I'm involved. We've tried playing at clubs where she goes off and gets started with a group of guys but it's not as much fun if I can't be involved.
Like other guys I like to sometimes take a break, sit back and watch as seeing her in action is a massiveturn on and of course someone has to take the photos!
On our next club visit I'd like to fuck her, cum either in or over her and then 'hand her over' to the group of guys who will hopefully be watching while I get a drink. Here's hoping... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We prefer to meet singles guys for this reason. He likes to watch and join in. He would also like to listen but we haven't done that yet. He never knows how he will feel until we meet, but we always go home and relive the moment and that's what we both enjoy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im sick of meeting couples that claim to be full swap only to spend half the time watching the guy getting off seeing my hubby fuck his wife. Surely they would be better off meeting single guys. I know its a bit selfish but I would quite like a good seeing too aswell."
Well said! We're just the people for you as good seeing too's are what we do! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im sick of meeting couples that claim to be full swap only to spend half the time watching the guy getting off seeing my hubby fuck his wife. Surely they would be better off meeting single guys. I know its a bit selfish but I would quite like a good seeing too aswell.
Well said! We're just the people for you as good seeing too's are what we do! :-
Glad to hear its not just me that feels like that. Pity your so far away. X)"
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