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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We know this isnt everybodys cup of tea but why dont fab have bareback as an option on the intrests bit. It would be so much easier hookinbg up with like minded ppl  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess if you look at the members interests and "Safe Sex" isn't checked then Bareback sex is preferred! Also I assume morally the site has a duty to promote safe sex, so promoting bareback sex is at odds with that.
My self I enjoy bareback sex but as always its the couples choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have not ticked safe sex purely because while I use it for penetration I have gone bare.. and I don't use condoms for oral..
I do think bareback should be an option apparently on another site linked to this it is an option. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have not ticked safe sex purely because while I use it for penetration I have gone bare.. and I don't use condoms for oral..
I do think bareback should be an option apparently on another site linked to this it is an option. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We know this isnt everybodys cup of tea but why dont fab have bareback as an option on the intrests bit. It would be so much easier hookinbg up with like minded ppl "
Would be a good idea , but I guess the site need to be seen promoting safe sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The reason why there isn't a bare back option is because fab likes to promote safe sex! And I am sure someone will correct me if I am wrong, but I also believe they support an HIV/aids charity |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im going to ignore the last comment as theres no need to be nasty towards us
but you didnt ignore it though, you commented on it  "
I was too polite to point that out lol
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"The reason why there isn't a bare back option is because fab likes to promote safe sex! And I am sure someone will correct me if I am wrong, but I also believe they support an HIV/aids charity "
yes they do x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a lot of ppl put they dont do bareback until you actually meet and oops guess what no condoms oh dear me lol you find out who wants to bareback with you by the number of meets you have and veris maybe good luck. Personally I do practice safe sex as when working in GUM Clinic (se diseases) saw too many stds and serious ones with not much symptoms only found out about that one when they come for some other std. But evryone use their own body as they wish. Me Ive got to my age without ever having any STD and certainly dont want one now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe if adding bareback as an option when ticked it opens another box listing Stds you may have and be happy to share!"
you could say that for everyone on here... As multiple partners is risky as is oral.. and no good saying less risky as how someone got infected is hard to tell.. and most people do full and oral on a meet. So really the true risk for oral won't really be known.
Ironically in your eye is the most direct route to your blood stream.
I have been told that the fab guys site has the option. so why can't we. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess if you look at the members interests and "Safe Sex" isn't checked then Bareback sex is preferred! Also I assume morally the site has a duty to promote safe sex, so promoting bareback sex is at odds with that.
My self I enjoy bareback sex but as always its the couples choice."
Wot he/they/them/she said in the main -  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im going to ignore the last comment as theres no need to be nasty towards us "
 Whilst he makes a valid point - i think he put it across wrong - we are all adults and all make our own choices in life - all we need to do is inform others likewise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We know this isnt everybodys cup of tea but why dont fab have bareback as an option on the intrests bit. It would be so much easier hookinbg up with like minded ppl "
Been saying this for ages so then we can block all the people who want safe sex (although we're sick of getting winks and messages from couples who state safe sex but contact us??) Its obvious on our profile what we like  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sure there are lots of members out there that like bareback but only have safe ticked as preference,maybe this is something you would discuss at the initial stages of contact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess if you look at the members interests and "Safe Sex" isn't checked then Bareback sex is preferred! Also I assume morally the site has a duty to promote safe sex, so promoting bareback sex is at odds with that.
My self I enjoy bareback sex but as always its the couples choice."
Totally agree what you just said couldn't have out it better myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess bareback is fine if you like playing Russian Roulette.
Personally we would never have sex with anyone without using a condom.
The only time I ever done bareback was when I worked in the porn industry and I was tested every 3 weeks, never caught anything but you can never be 100% certain you won't as you have to rely on everyone being honest about sexual partners they have been with.
It is down to personal preference but we won't have sex with anyone without a condom.
You could have far more sex perhaps if you used condoms, there is no excuse not to use them really. I do prefer sex without a condom but I love my sexual health too much to risk it.
But this is just our opinion and you carry on doing it as you prefer.
Mrs Kinky
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love bareback but will not do multiple partners we were patient. And found our regular friend
Now Lou feels the heat as he fills her
I benefit from delightful , squelchy , indescribable pussy
SIMPLES |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It could be helpful to be added as a option also a option to stop people who have it ticked from messaging too "
I like that idea, but as I usually say in these threads, never has anyone tried to go near me without a condom.
I think my vetting process is good. I'm clear in what I want and make no exceptions, so those of you with this preference block me now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is similar to the bi threads.
For those that like - be nice to search.
For those that don't - be nice to block.
Whether you like this or not though, like bi guys you're relying on people to be honest (if it bothers you).At least you can see the couples on this thread be honest that they do this. Like with bi guys, we have met couples who state safe sex but when playing try otherwise.
Interesting thread OP. not for us but applaud you for being loud and proud about what you like. |
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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago
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I can't believe how many people would risk there lives going bb. I will not knowingly have sex with anyone who doesn't play safe, as there a lot more likely to have an std then someone who plays safe.
I had an 'incident' a few yrs ago with someone who had a std. I had played with him a few days before he found out which obviously greatly concerned me, even though we had used protection. He hadn't had safe sex with numerous people, which I also didn't know, and he had no idea where he got it from. I ended up in the clear to my relief, and not doubt to me being sensible.
I always think things through, and like to weight up to pros and cons, consider my options, negatives and positives. So would I rather have some safe clean fun where I can have a long healthy sex life or would I prefer to take a huge risk with my life, which would probably end with me in and out of a clinic, on medication could mean months before I'm in the clear, maybe passing things onto other people, and not to forget they are some stds you cannot cure, which could result in death!!! Hhhmmmm! Easy decision for me!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thanks mersy pair for your nice comment,, as adults we all make our own choices in life ,, i would say drop us a message if you fancy chatting to us but we arnt site supporters so we cant message u guys xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of us like playing without condoms, some of us don't. I don't see the problem. Surely if fab put the option to tick this as a preference it would put an end to these forum upon forum posts. There is obviously enough interest out there otherwise there wouldn't be so many posts. As for fab refusing to do so because they support safe sex...surely by putting safe sex as an option then they appreciate that some people don't support safe sex and express this by not ticking it. Therefore this negates there argument. Also, if they really support safe sex, are they going to refuse payment from any couple or single that has ever had sex without using a condom? If so, they will have very few members. We like bareback sex but we also play with condoms too. We respect ourselves and others views. An option for bareback would just make it easier to know others views. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because they have to promote safe sex...ultimately people are playing with their life and as a swinging site they need to promote it.
Just write it in your profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because they have to promote safe sex...ultimately people are playing with their life and as a swinging site they need to promote it.
Just write it in your profile "
Bareback is an option on fabguys. So why promote safe sex here and not on the gay/bi site for men when they are a higher risk? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can see an argument for another tick box - but at the end of the day that's all it is - a box!
At the end of the day people tick things for many reasons, because they have genuine interests in those activities - or because they perceive that by ticking such boxes (or not) they will appeal to a wider audience. There is no guarantee that because a box is ticked that it means anything at all and cannot be 100% relied on.
Far better to put more detail about your attitude to BB/safe sex in your profile text as this will place more emphasis on your viewpoint.
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"We love bareback but will not do multiple partners we were patient. And found our regular friend
Now Lou feels the heat as he fills her
I benefit from delightful , squelchy , indescribable pussy
SIMPLES"
Personally I would NEVER trust a casual sexual partner. If someone is willing to have unprotected sex with me he's not adverse to the idea and will gladly indulge with others in my view.
People will lie to get what they want, so no matter what filter is in place I doubt it'll make a difference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess if you look at the members interests and "Safe Sex" isn't checked then Bareback sex is preferred! Also I assume morally the site has a duty to promote safe sex, so promoting bareback sex is at odds with that.
My self I enjoy bareback sex but as always its the couples choice."
Yes .. That's the answer .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't go with peeps who have not ticked safe sex box .. And I always set my boundaries at coffee meets ... That's why I think coffee meets are very important .. Just my personal preference and choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can see an argument for another tick box - but at the end of the day that's all it is - a box!
At the end of the day people tick things for many reasons, because they have genuine interests in those activities - or because they perceive that by ticking such boxes (or not) they will appeal to a wider audience. There is no guarantee that because a box is ticked that it means anything at all and cannot be 100% relied on.
Far better to put more detail about your attitude to BB/safe sex in your profile text as this will place more emphasis on your viewpoint.
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wise words as usual but if the tick box was an option it would make it easier for me to find them, block (all that have verified them and) them.
It would also stop those into bb from being able to mail me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We know this isnt everybodys cup of tea but why dont fab have bareback as an option on the intrests bit. It would be so much easier hookinbg up with like minded ppl "
are we assuming everyone on here tells the truth?
they have a bi option but many bi people don't use it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We know this isnt everybodys cup of tea but why dont fab have bareback as an option on the intrests bit. It would be so much easier hookinbg up with like minded ppl
are we assuming everyone on here tells the truth?
they have a bi option but many bi people don't use it "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't believe how many people would risk there lives going bb. I will not knowingly have sex with anyone who doesn't play safe, as there a lot more likely to have an std then someone who plays safe.
I had an 'incident' a few yrs ago with someone who had a std. I had played with him a few days before he found out which obviously greatly concerned me, even though we had used protection. He hadn't had safe sex with numerous people, which I also didn't know, and he had no idea where he got it from. I ended up in the clear to my relief, and not doubt to me being sensible.
I always think things through, and like to weight up to pros and cons, consider my options, negatives and positives. So would I rather have some safe clean fun where I can have a long healthy sex life or would I prefer to take a huge risk with my life, which would probably end with me in and out of a clinic, on medication could mean months before I'm in the clear, maybe passing things onto other people, and not to forget they are some stds you cannot cure, which could result in death!!! Hhhmmmm! Easy decision for me!
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