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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's something I'm open to talk about and thought I may aswell seek some advice on here before making a decision. Some people have told me it makes the sexual experience a lot better. And I'm ALL for better sex
I have an uncut cock, and when I'm really hard I sometimes struggle with pullin the skin right back..
Do I get the operation on my frenulum breve?
Does anyone know if it really hurts?
How long is the recovery stage?
Or should I just stay the way I am?
Bit of a personal thing, so Thank you Fab Community, and any help is very appreciated.
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A friend of mine had the operation done due to problems and said it was awful! But he needed it done and its now healed and looks fine. He said that no way round he of had it done if it wasn't necessary. So don't think of the better sex just if you need it as its not pleasant by all accounts lol x |
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over a year ago
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Oh bloody hell! No it's not necessary at all, how about from a women's point of view?
Is sex better with men without the problem? Or does it not matter? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my cousin had his done, but that was because forskin wouldnt go back at all and covered all the head of his cock.
his wasnt pleasent.
have to say though ur forskin goes back quite a bit,even if little tight..id see what doctor says about it and there thoughts also. either way u have a nice cock..just had say that!
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"Oh bloody hell! No it's not necessary at all, how about from a women's point of view?
Is sex better with men without the problem? Or does it not matter? "
Personally I prefer uncut. As long as there's not excessive foreskin there. But penetrative sex wise there's no difference from my point of view. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh bloody hell! No it's not necessary at all, how about from a women's point of view?
Is sex better with men without the problem? Or does it not matter?
Personally I prefer uncut. As long as there's not excessive foreskin there. But penetrative sex wise there's no difference from my point of view. X"
agree..prefer uncut  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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get yourself some pure coconut oil and have fun slowly working it back and over time the skin will stretch over it.
mine goes all the ay back so get the best of both worlds wit the extra sensitivity from the head being covered all the time its not being used 
I'm keeping mine now matter what anyone says |
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my opinion is that you should never have surgery unless its necessary for your well being. If its just on a whim, to see what it feels like or for other peoples benefit then don't do it.
A is uncut and if there's a better lover anywhere in the world I'd be surprised  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Guy I used to work with had it done and everyone was given regular updates on the healing process....including details of the night where he got the sleep horn and opened the wound! He did need it done as it was causing him problems but he certainly wouldn't have chosen too. Took a couple of months to fully heal, but that may have been longer than usual because of the incident in the night? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well I'd like to say thank you to everyone here! Fab community really are genuinely nice people!
So thanks for all the great advice!
I'm going to stay the way I am, and the coconut oil avenue sounds fun and beneficial!
Thanks again everybody!
Happy swinging xxx |
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My OH had it done many years ago. It was uncomfortable (but not unduly painful) for the first couple of days. The bandages were taken off after a week or so. We didn't have sex for 3 weeks, it didn't hurt but he did get a little cut which healed quickly. He hasn't really lost much sensation around the tip so he feels everything just fine.
Personally, I prefer it to his uncut one, looks nice, tastes nicer and it shoots further. I prefer cut if I can get it but I'm not picky enough to turn one down if it's uncut |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm in mixed minds again! Thanks for the replies again.
Obviously me being younger women I usually sleep with are around my age and inexperienced and I assume they see cocks as the usual one you would get in pornos. So obviously for me and women my age I'm not sure if for them it may not look right? |
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"I'm in mixed minds again! Thanks for the replies again.
Obviously me being younger women I usually sleep with are around my age and inexperienced and I assume they see cocks as the usual one you would get in pornos. So obviously for me and women my age I'm not sure if for them it may not look right? "
My friend who had his done sent me a pic. I think cocks look weird with no foreskin. And they feel different when being played with/wanking etc x |
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over a year ago
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"Provided you with pm which is medically more factual and specific on this op rather than views, hope this helps."
Information you sent me was very very helpful and has helped me loads! Looking at the facts I'm willing to take it into consideration! |
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over a year ago
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"If the younger inexperienced ladies don't know what to make of it, I'm willing to give it a go  "
This is why I adore older women. So much more sexier anyway!
'Experience is king' or should I say queen!  |
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"I'm in mixed minds again! Thanks for the replies again.
Obviously me being younger women I usually sleep with are around my age and inexperienced and I assume they see cocks as the usual one you would get in pornos. So obviously for me and women my age I'm not sure if for them it may not look right? "
You should only ever have anything done to your body for either medical reasons or for your own reasons....never, ever because you think someone else will prefer you like it.
The best cock is one attached to a man who is confident, aware of women as individuals and who knows that there is a lot more to sex than just his cock whether there is a foreskin attached to it or not. |
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To be honest many guys foreskin is fully retracted during erections anyway and it isn't painful at all so getting cut, unless there's a medical reason to do so, is pointless
I watched a programme on TV once about guys who had been cut trying to stretch a foreskin because they felt sex was much worse after circumcision so it's not straight forward |
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By (user no longer on site)
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2 main reasons for gettng the cut......
First if it is to tight it can lead to infections & needs doing
Second is, if you suffer from Prem ejaculation, it can be done to lesson sensitivety on the Glans, it does work btw.
As for pain... well it is uncomfortable maybe a dozen tiny stiches.... I was foolish enough to have quicky 24 hours after i had it done....... fookin hellllll..... the sensation was sublime.... but half an hour later i felt as though someone had smacked my Plums between 2 bricks. |
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My last boyfriend was cut well before he met me but in adult life, his foreskin apparently wouldnt go back. He said he was slightly more sensitive afterwards but that it didnt really make any differenct. Ive been with other guys that have been circumzized and it doesnt make the slightest difference. Having said that i did think the very first one i saw looked strange. But thats because i hadnt seen one before.
I hate to see tight forskins that dont go back, but it doesnt sound as though you have that problem.
As someone has said im sure the doctor will only refer you if its a genuine medical issue |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had a very tight foreskin but some very rampant sex when I was young solved the issue. The foreskin tore during sex which was very sore and bled like a sheep. It healed ok but fully retractable, tiny bit of scar tissue. |
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There was a thread on this a few months back and the general consensus from the guys who'd had the op was that it was bloody painful and pain like they had never known!!!! |
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A few years a go I underwent a dorsal split/slit, it's where they put a minor cut in there as my foreskin was so tight it really hurt to go over but that didnt work, it stayed tight, I then waited a few years because I didn't want to face it all again but in the end I went and had it off and it is very very painful, I tore my stitches 2 times and it took like 3 or so weeks to heal, there were other things as well, it was very sensitive for ages after and very tender...........recommend loose clothes if you have it done, the one thing I did find funny and strange was when I had a pee for the first time it went everywhere but where it was meant to and the first time I came after having it done that was a messy affair but I don't regret it at all and wish I had had it done years and years ago, would of made things a lot easier and sometimes a lot less pain full |
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"Oh bloody hell! No it's not necessary at all, how about from a women's point of view?
Is sex better with men without the problem? Or does it not matter? "
if your unable to pull the forskin back then the build up of smegma underneath will be awful a friend of mine kept telling me I can't pull my forskin back at all I insisted see your doc obviously embarrassment. Till one day he ask don't mean to sound gay but do u mind looking I said ok sure if it will make you feel better all looked well to be honest but I said just go to docs they see it all the time he then needed surgery an the surgeon said once out the amount of smegma build up he was surprised he wasn't uncomfortable he said only way to describe it as the amount of a baby bell urgh it can cause infection due to not been able to clean on a daily basis so go to doc befor too late |
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I had a similar operation 5 years ago, similar reasons to you, I tried all the stretching advice and creams to try and help it but in the end had the op. You definatly loose the sensitivity, sex is still good and can last even longer now... but for some reason since the op i struggle to come through masterbation and oral, it may be in my head but I used to love covering MrsH face with cum but have only managed it once in 5 years !!  |
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I got circumcised about 6 years ago because I had a tight foreskin that wouldn't pull back all the way. It did get painful during sex so the doc advised me to have it cut.
The recovery was about 8 weeks in all, mainly because my wound opened. Aside from some pain from the stitches if my cock was erect just after the operation, it wasn't too bad an experience. Now, it is much better, it feels cleaner, is still sensitive and when I cum, it can shoot quite far. The main benefit though was my confidence with it, that changed for the better. |
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