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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im browsing through the couples and im increasingly getting more worried about my size, being a large 16/18 with a fairly wobbly belly. Majority of pics i see are of slim, toned, athletic women, i may be stupid in thinking am i not suitable or am i too large?
Is that possibly why we get none or hardly any replies?
Or if im being silly please tell me to shut up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sexy is a state of mind! granted most people have a 'type' but remember the only people you have to impress are each other....its their privilege to be involved with you! its all shapes and sizes! just you guys have fun!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Shut up your being silly 
I'm a size 14, I wobble I, not athletic I like pies and I love me
Have confidence in yourself and you'll see them running
Zira xxx |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
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"Im browsing through the couples and im increasingly getting more worried about my size, being a large 16/18 with a fairly wobbly belly. Majority of pics i see are of slim, toned, athletic women, i may be stupid in thinking am i not suitable or am i too large?
Is that possibly why we get none or hardly any replies?
Or if im being silly please tell me to shut up "
you look good to me hun x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Them 3 varies are from 2 girls we met at a club and a guy i knew from before xx
Your tats are awesome
Love a lady with tats xxx"
Thank you, i have been told they are off putting a few times x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im browsing through the couples and im increasingly getting more worried about my size, being a large 16/18 with a fairly wobbly belly. Majority of pics i see are of slim, toned, athletic women, i may be stupid in thinking am i not suitable or am i too large?
Is that possibly why we get none or hardly any replies?
Or if im being silly please tell me to shut up you look good to me hun x"
Thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't worry about it - there's all sizes on here as long as your happy with yourself that's the main thing.
SnB x x"
I thought i was happy with me, ahh i will get over it i guess xx |
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I'm bigger than you and we get plenty of attention, you need to be proud of your pics, agreed tats arnt for everyone, but from the posts on here about tattoos most seem to love theme, search the forums for this topic, have a look at the replies and send messages to those who love them, its got to be a winner!!! xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm bigger than you and we get plenty of attention, you need to be proud of your pics, agreed tats arnt for everyone, but from the posts on here about tattoos most seem to love theme, search the forums for this topic, have a look at the replies and send messages to those who love them, its got to be a winner!!! xxx"
Thank you for your reassuring words xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm bigger than you and we get plenty of attention, you need to be proud of your pics, agreed tats arnt for everyone, but from the posts on here about tattoos most seem to love theme, search the forums for this topic, have a look at the replies and send messages to those who love them, its got to be a winner!!! xxx
Thank you for your reassuring words xx"
Everyone likes different things. Personally I would be disappointed if a woman was less than a size 14.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Them 3 varies are from 2 girls we met at a club and a guy i knew from before xx
Your tats are awesome
Love a lady with tats xxx
Thank you, i have been told they are off putting a few times x "
Bollocks to them they don't know talent when they see it, they are gorgeous xx |
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"I'm bigger than you and we get plenty of attention, you need to be proud of your pics, agreed tats arnt for everyone, but from the posts on here about tattoos most seem to love theme, search the forums for this topic, have a look at the replies and send messages to those who love them, its got to be a winner!!! xxx
Thank you for your reassuring words xx"
your very welcome, stop worrying and enjoy  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Them 3 varies are from 2 girls we met at a club and a guy i knew from before xx
Your tats are awesome
Love a lady with tats xxx
Thank you, i have been told they are off putting a few times x
Bollocks to them they don't know talent when they see it, they are gorgeous xx"
All credit goes to my tattooist lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there are some very slim fit people on here and also some big people too
and the big people are having as much fun as the smaller ones, from what i have noticed anyway.
last year i was two stone heavier than i am now and i still got quite a few messages, i look better now but i dont think of myself as just being a slightly overweight old woman.
i have other things about myself that i like, and that other people like as well.
i dont expect everyone to like me, same as i dont like the same types of men that a lot of other women do like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im browsing through the couples and im increasingly getting more worried about my size, being a large 16/18 with a fairly wobbly belly. Majority of pics i see are of slim, toned, athletic women, i may be stupid in thinking am i not suitable or am i too large?
Is that possibly why we get none or hardly any replies?
Or if im being silly please tell me to shut up "
r u serious? u are stunning omg come to me baby lol |
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The thing I love about fab is that there is someone or there who loves EVERY shape size or sexual inclination. Ok so one dickhead started calling me a hippo in the chat rooms once but you will always get that from one. But there were more people in the room telling him to shut the fuck up and that they loved my body.
I don't like marmite and I don't like coffee. Doesn't make me a bad person just makes me different. Some people don't like larger girls. Some LOVE having something to hold onto.
If we all liked the same stuff the world would be really boring!
Love kath (feeling a bit l loved up after last night's meet!!) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"there are some very slim fit people on here and also some big people too
and the big people are having as much fun as the smaller ones, from what i have noticed anyway.
last year i was two stone heavier than i am now and i still got quite a few messages, i look better now but i dont think of myself as just being a slightly overweight old woman.
i have other things about myself that i like, and that other people like as well.
i dont expect everyone to like me, same as i dont like the same types of men that a lot of other women do like. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Them 3 varies are from 2 girls we met at a club and a guy i knew from before xx
Your tats are awesome
Love a lady with tats xxx
Thank you, i have been told they are off putting a few times x "
Love the tatts. Not off putting at all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The thing I love about fab is that there is someone or there who loves EVERY shape size or sexual inclination. Ok so one dickhead started calling me a hippo in the chat rooms once but you will always get that from one. But there were more people in the room telling him to shut the fuck up and that they loved my body.
I don't like marmite and I don't like coffee. Doesn't make me a bad person just makes me different. Some people don't like larger girls. Some LOVE having something to hold onto.
If we all liked the same stuff the world would be really boring!
Love kath (feeling a bit l loved up after last night's meet!!)"
Thank you , i am feeling better after reading all these positive comments xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Them 3 varies are from 2 girls we met at a club and a guy i knew from before xx
Your tats are awesome
Love a lady with tats xxx
Thank you, i have been told they are off putting a few times x
Love the tatts. Not off putting at all. "
I know they are not everyones cup of tea, i just wish some people would not be so vile with messages about them. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im browsing through the couples and im increasingly getting more worried about my size, being a large 16/18 with a fairly wobbly belly. Majority of pics i see are of slim, toned, athletic women, i may be stupid in thinking am i not suitable or am i too large?
Is that possibly why we get none or hardly any replies?
Or if im being silly please tell me to shut up "
You look horny as hell to me
We want more real women like you on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Them 3 varies are from 2 girls we met at a club and a guy i knew from before xx
Your tats are awesome
Love a lady with tats xxx
Thank you, i have been told they are off putting a few times x
Love the tatts. Not off putting at all.
I know they are not everyones cup of tea, i just wish some people would not be so vile with messages about them. Xx"
Well so long as you are happy with them. It doesn't matter what they think. But they really should be quiet and not pester you with vile messages. Unfortunately there does seem to be an ever increasing muppets r us club on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im no super model in the slightest and a size 16 curvy ive had 3 kids and im happy with how iam. i dont get put off with slim lasses on here. its more about personality. |
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By shystockingboy Man 23 minutes ago
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"Im browsing through the couples and im increasingly getting more worried about my size, being a large 16/18 with a fairly wobbly belly. Majority of pics i see are of slim, toned, athletic women, i may be stupid in thinking am i not suitable or am i too large?
Is that possibly why we get none or hardly any replies?
Or if im being silly please tell me to shut up "
You look horny as hell to me
We want more real women like you on here
So slim women aren't real then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think what shystockingboy meant was that some people like to see women that are more typical or representative of the general population rather than the super skinny model types so often seen in the media. The comment about real women often comes up in bbw threads and always makes me smile. Vive la difference I say!  Ms |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Same size as me - plenty of folk love curves even if we prefer to call them wobbly bits and are insecure about them - I think all women (and men), regardless of their size have bits they don't like, it's just human nature...
love your hair colour by the way "
I didnt mean for this thread to become volitile , im sorry to those who feel they have been backlashed
I do love my pink hair too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No need to apologize OP! This usually happens with threads about size and us skinny minnies get a bashing! I'm happy with my size (not my wobbly bits tho) so don't care what others think. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do all these threads turn into a jibe at the slimmer women, sheesh, I'm obviously not a 'real woman' after all 
Always the same
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The thread will begin talking about larger women, forming the truck of the tree, this will rise into branches of digs against slim women, these will in turn continue into twigs and leaves of guys opportunistically complimenting these slim women.
This is one such twig, for you have a lovely tum x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No need to apologize OP! This usually happens with threads about size and us skinny minnies get a bashing! I'm happy with my size (not my wobbly bits tho) so don't care what others think. X"
Im still new to all this especially the forums. I guess i will get used to the different comments from people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not your fault OP, but unfortunately these threads always go the same way. Stampedes of folks saying bigger the better, big women are real women, etc etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women without curves are like jeans without pockets... you don't know what to do with your hands lol
for every person on here who wants a gym bunny there is someone who wants to get lost in your curves
be proud of your wobbly bits... xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Women without curves are like jeans without pockets... you don't know what to do with your hands lol
for every person on here who wants a gym bunny there is someone who wants to get lost in your curves
be proud of your wobbly bits... xxx"
This made me giggle xxx |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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"Same size as me - plenty of folk love curves even if we prefer to call them wobbly bits and are insecure about them - I think all women (and men), regardless of their size have bits they don't like, it's just human nature...
love your hair colour by the way
I didnt mean for this thread to become volitile , im sorry to those who feel they have been backlashed
I do love my pink hair too "
I'm ice blue at the moment, will be going pink next month I think |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Same size as me - plenty of folk love curves even if we prefer to call them wobbly bits and are insecure about them - I think all women (and men), regardless of their size have bits they don't like, it's just human nature...
love your hair colour by the way
I didnt mean for this thread to become volitile , im sorry to those who feel they have been backlashed
I do love my pink hair too
I'm ice blue at the moment, will be going pink next month I think "
Ive been pink for about 2 years now, was thinking of a change but not sure what colour |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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"Same size as me - plenty of folk love curves even if we prefer to call them wobbly bits and are insecure about them - I think all women (and men), regardless of their size have bits they don't like, it's just human nature...
love your hair colour by the way
I didnt mean for this thread to become volitile , im sorry to those who feel they have been backlashed
I do love my pink hair too
I'm ice blue at the moment, will be going pink next month I think
Ive been pink for about 2 years now, was thinking of a change but not sure what colour "
Try the crazy colours - semi-permanents, I was purple 4 weeks ago, it washed down to blue and just been bleached today therefore evened out to icy blue |
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"Im browsing through the couples and im increasingly getting more worried about my size, being a large 16/18 with a fairly wobbly belly. Majority of pics i see are of slim, toned, athletic women, i may be stupid in thinking am i not suitable or am i too large?
Is that possibly why we get none or hardly any replies?
Or if im being silly please tell me to shut up
You look horny as hell to me
We want more real women like you on here "
Real women?!!
At my advanced years and time on Fab you'd think I'd stop being amazed, but nope, still amazed.
Amazed people lack such self esteem they need and actively seek validation from total strangers.
As if you're going to get men, eager for a fuck and/or playing to the gallery to post anything negative!
There's always going to be someone younger, slimmer, prettier, kill yourself trying to keep up or enjoy your life...the decision is yours! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm a size 16 and was a 20 when we joined the site...I understand where you are coming from hon I was worried that no bigger would want my wobbles...I was wrong...we have made lots of friends and never have an issue situ meets...im not for everyone though...no one is...be patient the meets will happenxxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Shut up your being silly
I'm a size 14, I wobble I, not athletic I like pies and I love me
Have confidence in yourself and you'll see them running
Zira xxx"
I'm with you on this one, dev been silly. I get plenty of interest and action on here and I'm much bigger then a 16 xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"that's exactly how i feel too so dnt worry! I am bigger than you 24 and there are those who do like us jst keep looking!!
And shut up! lol"
Giggles ok ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm a size 16 and was a 20 when we joined the site...I understand where you are coming from hon I was worried that no bigger would want my wobbles...I was wrong...we have made lots of friends and never have an issue situ meets...im not for everyone though...no one is...be patient the meets will happenxxxxxx"
Thank you xxx |
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"Im browsing through the couples and im increasingly getting more worried about my size, being a large 16/18 with a fairly wobbly belly. Majority of pics i see are of slim, toned, athletic women, i may be stupid in thinking am i not suitable or am i too large?
Is that possibly why we get none or hardly any replies?
Or if im being silly please tell me to shut up
You look horny as hell to me
We want more real women like you on here
Real women?!!
At my advanced years and time on Fab you'd think I'd stop being amazed, but nope, still amazed.
Amazed people lack such self esteem they need and actively seek validation from total strangers.
As if you're going to get men, eager for a fuck and/or playing to the gallery to post anything negative!
There's always going to be someone younger, slimmer, prettier, kill yourself trying to keep up or enjoy your life...the decision is yours!"
Sometimes the honest opinons come from strangers, people who love you will say things to make you happy...
In life people knock that confidence out of you, and sometimes you need a little advice and warmth even from total strangers |
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