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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We've all heard now about the worries of some Bbw's, now I'd like to ask What do men really think of slim women? I've had men tell me I'm too slim to meet and we've all now heard that us slim women are " not real women" ," are too intimidating" and have the personalites of brick walls. So let's hear your stories.

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By *ipswichmaleMan over a year ago

ipswich

Hmmm,I like women to have curves in the right place's, if that make sense ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm fairly keen on women of all shapes and sizes as it's more about the personality of the person playing. However, your figure, which seems to be slim and athletic, is amazing. It's as much a 'real' woman's body as any others. I hang out with a lot of runners and the really fit toned ladies are just awesome to look at. In fact I do too much looking and not enough running at times....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Looks are the first thing people go on here when thy don't really know people ... shallow but true. Only when you start to chat and get to know them you see there's more too them not a size but a person .... and like with all things in life , We all like different things.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me, personally, someones body shape doesnt matter. That is something beyond my control. Im a weird one lol - for me, a gorgeous pair of eyes and a gorgeous smile will take me to the edge..

However, sometimes when i do meet slim women im just worried if im going to hurt them lol i am a bit clumsy and quite broad/heavy..usually end up with bruises, so im not sure if thats good or bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm fairly keen on women of all shapes and sizes as it's more about the personality of the person playing. However, your figure, which seems to be slim and athletic, is amazing. It's as much a 'real' woman's body as any others. I hang out with a lot of runners and the really fit toned ladies are just awesome to look at. In fact I do too much looking and not enough running at times...."
You have to keep up with them to look at their bums!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We've all heard now about the worries of some Bbw's, now I'd like to ask What do men really think of slim women? I've had men tell me I'm too slim to meet and we've all now heard that us slim women are " not real women" ," are too intimidating" and have the personalites of brick walls. So let's hear your stories."

It's all preferences. Given the choice, I'd always go for a curvier woman because that's what I like: big tits, big ass and big hips.

But that woman might not like me because I'm short so then I move on!

My point is we're never going to be wanted by everyone. So read profiles, find out what people like and have fun!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"For me, personally, someones body shape doesnt matter. That is something beyond my control. Im a weird one lol - for me, a gorgeous pair of eyes and a gorgeous smile will take me to the edge..

However, sometimes when i do meet slim women im just worried if im going to hurt them lol i am a bit clumsy and quite broad/heavy..usually end up with bruises, so im not sure if thats good or bad

"
mmmm I've been thrown round by body builders and roughy toughy marines I'm good with it lol!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's unhealthily skinny with bones sticking out and there's slim. Big difference.

You're stunning

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We both love playing with boobs so a good pair is essential!

Mind they could be on a slim girl..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Couldn't agree more with dave, a woman that takes care of themselves appeals to me, but it comes down to personality too.

'Too slim to meet' though? Mad statement

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Looks are the first thing people go on here when thy don't really know people ... shallow but true. Only when you start to chat and get to know them you see there's more too them not a size but a person .... and like with all things in life , We all like different things."
I agree I am not sizest myself but generalizations and the idea that someone's personality is dictated by their size just seems rediculous to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am not big all over and I am not small I am middle size , so I don't fit in no box , lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We both love playing with boobs so a good pair is essential!

Mind they could be on a slim girl.."
Doh! That's me out lol I'm lacking in the boobage department although I am currently working on my pecks hehe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

people wish to put people in boxes here .. Things thay like and don't like and size .. maybe its human nature ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We both love playing with boobs so a good pair is essential!

Mind they could be on a slim girl.. Doh! That's me out lol I'm lacking in the boobage department although I am currently working on my pecks hehe "

Not big but definitely nice my lovely!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"people wish to put people in boxes here .. Things thay like and don't like and size .. maybe its human nature ?"
Personally I wouldn't choose someone who is hugely obese that's my personal preference, I have my likes and dislikes as much as the next person but I try and avoid making sweeping statements about any group of people and base my decision on getting to know individuals. We are however on here for sex so there is a need to make an instant judgement.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We both love playing with boobs so a good pair is essential!

Mind they could be on a slim girl.. Doh! That's me out lol I'm lacking in the boobage department although I am currently working on my pecks hehe

Not big but definitely nice my lovely!

"
Aaww just checking out yours mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"people wish to put people in boxes here .. Things thay like and don't like and size .. maybe its human nature ? Personally I wouldn't choose someone who is hugely obese that's my personal preference, I have my likes and dislikes as much as the next person but I try and avoid making sweeping statements about any group of people and base my decision on getting to know individuals. We are however on here for sex so there is a need to make an instant judgement."
yes your right in what you say xx But like I say ... its fast lane sex here most the time people just go on pics and really don't get to know people as some don't wish to get close its SEX ... And thay move to next .. A lot don't have time to know people and don't wish too ... you must see that from mail box I get loads .......... how about a shag , lol and not said a word to them , For some all holes a goal .. and that's true.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's unhealthily skinny with bones sticking out and there's slim. Big difference.

You're stunning

agree with you too, and a very nice smile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Looked at your pic ! Absolutely stunning hun

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"people wish to put people in boxes here .. Things thay like and don't like and size .. maybe its human nature ? Personally I wouldn't choose someone who is hugely obese that's my personal preference, I have my likes and dislikes as much as the next person but I try and avoid making sweeping statements about any group of people and base my decision on getting to know individuals. We are however on here for sex so there is a need to make an instant judgement.yes your right in what you say xx But like I say ... its fast lane sex here most the time people just go on pics and really don't get to know people as some don't wish to get close its SEX ... And thay move to next .. A lot don't have time to know people and don't wish too ... you must see that from mail box I get loads .......... how about a shag , lol and not said a word to them , For some all holes a goal .. and that's true."
Absolutely I've met people for one time only some people just want that, other people you become friends with and get to know properly it's just the same as day to day life only we don't get as much time to make the decisions. It's all about going with your instincts and past experiences and hoping for the best

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"people wish to put people in boxes here .. Things thay like and don't like and size .. maybe its human nature ? Personally I wouldn't choose someone who is hugely obese that's my personal preference, I have my likes and dislikes as much as the next person but I try and avoid making sweeping statements about any group of people and base my decision on getting to know individuals. We are however on here for sex so there is a need to make an instant judgement.yes your right in what you say xx But like I say ... its fast lane sex here most the time people just go on pics and really don't get to know people as some don't wish to get close its SEX ... And thay move to next .. A lot don't have time to know people and don't wish too ... you must see that from mail box I get loads .......... how about a shag , lol and not said a word to them , For some all holes a goal .. and that's true. Absolutely I've met people for one time only some people just want that, other people you become friends with and get to know properly it's just the same as day to day life only we don't get as much time to make the decisions. It's all about going with your instincts and past experiences and hoping for the best

yes you need a lot of luck and everything crossed ..Instincts play a big part in all this and not letting your heart rule your head or can end up in a mess , lol been there have T Shirt but I did lean not everything people say here is the truth , lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There's unhealthily skinny with bones sticking out and there's slim. Big difference.

You're stunning

agree with you too, and a very nice smile."
Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We both love playing with boobs so a good pair is essential!

Mind they could be on a slim girl.. Doh! That's me out lol I'm lacking in the boobage department although I am currently working on my pecks hehe

Not big but definitely nice my lovely!

Aaww just checking out yours mmmmm"

lol see...we are all boob people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i dont think size = unattractiveness. unless its in its extreme forms on both ends

you cant generalize all plus sized and slim women like that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For me, personally, someones body shape doesnt matter. That is something beyond my control. Im a weird one lol - for me, a gorgeous pair of eyes and a gorgeous smile will take me to the edge..

However, sometimes when i do meet slim women im just worried if im going to hurt them lol i am a bit clumsy and quite broad/heavy..usually end up with bruises, so im not sure if thats good or bad

mmmm I've been thrown round by body builders and roughy toughy marines I'm good with it lol!"

I like a good 'chucking about' lol. My main problem is i am one of the shortest men on here, so not good news for me from the site..

But like they say, opposites attract x

(Tempted to say i wouldnt mind chucking you about anyday hehehe)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm really slim 6/8 we don't break easily but may bruise a little if being chucked about

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've in the debate of the larger lady on the forums and I've voiced my opinion on there about how I love the larger lady. I simply do..... Skinny or slim girls just don't float my boat... I don't know why but they never have done and think they never will.

In my book slim ladies are like jeans without pockets... Look good but nowhere to put your hands...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I think 'slim' women, I think 'gym slim' as in not underweight, just fit, slender, strong and healthy - women with a little muscle definition are incredibly sexy.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple over a year ago

bedford

Me and wife both prefer a few curves on a woman,comfort main issue have played with a few slim women ,don't get me wrong nice to look at ,had lovely personalities .but got injuries while ribs digging into me,if I play with any now I insist they go on top..wife says goes for slimy blokes too,the only part she wants to feel digging in her is their clocks,hence she goes more for rugby or builder type guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont like skinny chicks.

I like women with a bit of body haha!

Must have boobage too. That part is compulsory

Ben

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont think size = unattractiveness. unless its in its extreme forms on both ends

you cant generalize all plus sized and slim women like that

Totally agree. Having said that, you're more likely to be unattractive if overweight...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont think size = unattractiveness. unless its in its extreme forms on both ends

you cant generalize all plus sized and slim women like that

Totally agree. Having said that, you're more likely to be unattractive if overweight..."

I disagree!

I've seen as many 'unattractive' (definitions will always be personal opinion) slim women as large.

Body shape is just one factor - facial features, eyes and of course personality are not determined by calorific intake!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"i dont think size = unattractiveness. unless its in its extreme forms on both ends

you cant generalize all plus sized and slim women like that

Totally agree. Having said that, you're more likely to be unattractive if overweight..."

Really!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i dont think size = unattractiveness. unless its in its extreme forms on both ends

you cant generalize all plus sized and slim women like that

Totally agree. Having said that, you're more likely to be unattractive if overweight..."

my much older sister is slim, my brothers used to call her horse.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"i dont think size = unattractiveness. unless its in its extreme forms on both ends

you cant generalize all plus sized and slim women like that

Totally agree. Having said that, you're more likely to be unattractive if overweight...

I disagree!

I've seen as many 'unattractive' (definitions will always be personal opinion) slim women as large.

Body shape is just one factor - facial features, eyes and of course personality are not determined by calorific intake!

Very well put Mr Obi

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Comes down to people being happy in own skin the size thing ...... if your big and happy ... If your slim and happy .. why care what thay think here ??? ,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Met cpls where their partners have been of all sizes, Aslong as they have a GSH and good crack we will get on fine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Paula finds that a lot of men are scared to chat her up , because of her looks , but will chat her bow friends instead ,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love curvy asses with tiny thongs creeping up them but also like spreading the cheeks of a size 6 lady.

Regards,

T R

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We both like curves on a girl but that being said, we both really enjoyed the company of a very slim lady who had the most delicious long labia lips and extremely long nipples.

If I ask Andy, my guess is that He would say his requirement is a good strong pulse!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Not sure why so many opinions come back to either us getting hurt or people being hurt by us. I've been roughly taken by pretty huge guys and never once sustained an injury, in fact the only time I've been hurt are by men half the size being clumsy with their hands!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not sure why so many opinions come back to either us getting hurt or people being hurt by us. I've been roughly taken by pretty huge guys and never once sustained an injury, in fact the only time I've been hurt are by men half the size being clumsy with their hands!"

Overcompensating perhaps?

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By *allDarkFoxForYouMan over a year ago

Winchester/London

Just perused your pics.

Slim is my " cup of char " and you look fab.

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By *attman23Man over a year ago

Wath

Personally I would jump at the chance to meet you, you are stunning and have a gorgeous body... Definitely not too slim.

I don't think you can categorise people's personalities based on their size, not all BBW are fun and bubbly and lots of fun. And on the other hand just because a women is slim doesn't mean she's gonna be elitist or stuck up.

I've found that each women's personality is unique doesn't matter is she's big or small

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Personally I would jump at the chance to meet you, you are stunning and have a gorgeous body... Definitely not too slim.

I've found that each women's personality is unique doesn't matter is she's big or small "
Thanks and very nice ink!!

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By *attman23Man over a year ago

Wath

"Personally I would jump at the chance to meet you, you are stunning and have a gorgeous body... Definitely not too slim.

I've found that each women's personality is unique doesn't matter is she's big or small Thanks and very nice ink!!

Thank you about 6hrs per session

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Personally I would jump at the chance to meet you, you are stunning and have a gorgeous body... Definitely not too slim.

I've found that each women's personality is unique doesn't matter is she's big or small Thanks and very nice ink!!

Thank you about 6hrs per session"
Ouch, worth it though! Got a bit of a thing about tattoos

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Slim woman still have curves!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Slim woman still have curves!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Slim woman still have curves!

Your ass could have made that statement on its own

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"i dont think size = unattractiveness. unless its in its extreme forms on both ends

you cant generalize all plus sized and slim women like that

Totally agree. Having said that, you're more likely to be unattractive if overweight..."

to you maybe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Slim woman still have curves!

Your ass could have made that statement on its own

Thanks

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By *attman23Man over a year ago

Wath

"Ouch, worth it though! Got a bit of a thing about tattoos

I really enjoy getting tattoos, you only have to ask and you can get a closer look

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By *attman23Man over a year ago

Wath

"Slim woman still have curves!

Your ass could have made that statement on its own

I have to agree, Julie has a gorgeous ass

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Slim women are the the only ones for us.

The sight of dimples and cellulite is a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its a load of crap,prob an excuse for being rejected by slim women.

I'm fairly big and strong/weightlifter and never hurt a woman in mistake during a bit of fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

TBH I don't have preference either way

I went from seeing a girl who was 5ft nothing and a size 6 to seeing one who was 5ft8 in her stockings and at her biggest a size 30/32

It's how I click with someone that matters and how we make each other feel.

For me, that has come in a variety of shapes and sizes and ages and genders and skin colours

I do think though that people make comments in these here forums that feed others hypersensitivity to their own self perception and that's when the falling out starts.

People will always have preferences and ideals, sometimes we fit them other times we don't.

How we get those preferences across remains critical though.

We are blessed with a vocabulary that allows us to express our preferences without being insulting or derogatory to those that may not match them.

I do wish more people would use it to its full potential.

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By *lackshadow7Man over a year ago

Toronto

"Slim woman still have curves!

Preach Julie

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love curves

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Slim woman still have curves!

Your ass could have made that statement on its own

I have to agree, Julie has a gorgeous ass"

Thank you kind sir, nice to be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Slim woman still have curves!

Preach Julie

Haha yeah loving this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Slim doesn't mean flat-chested and skeletal. It's perfectly possible for a woman to be slim but have plenty of curves at the same time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What do men really think ?? maybe some will not post as feel may get jumped on ... But its nice to know what thay think of the size thing as it keeps coming up here in forums so much .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To the OP, I saw a post earlier saying how someone didn't care about size, how a smile and eyes were more important and I thought yeah yeah, yada yada- more crap spouted to get into a girls knickers. Anyway, being a perve I checked the pics. I'm an ass man so was very happy but what really struck me was your smile- you really look like you're enjoying yourself and it was an even bigger turn on.

To those posting about getting injured etc, well did you not say something at the time?! Sex is supposed to be fun, not a health hazard! No matter what size/shame/colour etc, the sexiest thing you can do is enjoy it

PS- more ass pics please and maybe a competition against Julie? That I'd love to see!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Slim woman still have curves!

Your ass could have made that statement on its own

I have to agree, Julie has a gorgeous ass"

Magnificent, I'd say....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Slim woman still have curves!

Your ass could have made that statement on its own

I have to agree, Julie has a gorgeous ass

Magnificent, I'd say....

"
your not julies other half on his single profile , lol xxx its not just her bum boys xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Slim woman still have curves!

Your ass could have made that statement on its own

I have to agree, Julie has a gorgeous ass

Magnificent, I'd say....

your not julies other half on his single profile , lol xxx its not just her bum boys xxx

Might be...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Slim woman still have curves!

Your ass could have made that statement on its own

I have to agree, Julie has a gorgeous ass

Magnificent, I'd say....

your not julies other half on his single profile , lol xxx its not just her bum boys xxx

Might be...

"
was the name that give your game away , lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To the OP, I saw a post earlier saying how someone didn't care about size, how a smile and eyes were more important and I thought yeah yeah, yada yada- more crap spouted to get into a girls knickers. Anyway, being a perve I checked the pics. I'm an ass man so was very happy but what really struck me was your smile- you really look like you're enjoying yourself and it was an even bigger turn on.

PS- more ass pics please and maybe a competition against Julie? That I'd love to see! "

What did you want me to do? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Slim woman still have curves!

Your ass could have made that statement on its own

I have to agree, Julie has a gorgeous ass

Magnificent, I'd say....

your not julies other half on his single profile , lol xxx its not just her bum boys xxx

Might be...

was the name that give your game away , lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What do men really think ?? maybe some will not post as feel may get jumped on ... But its nice to know what thay think of the size thing as it keeps coming up here in forums so much ."

I'll be honest. I'm more likely to go for a woman who is, for some, overweight than someone who is a similar build to the OP. That's just me. I'm sure I'm an acquired taste as well.

The thing I have found with this site is the need to be everyone's cup of tea which isn't going to happen and people just have to deal with it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Slim woman still have curves!

Your ass could have made that statement on its own

I have to agree, Julie has a gorgeous ass

Magnificent, I'd say....

your not julies other half on his single profile , lol xxx its not just her bum boys xxx

Might be...

was the name that give your game away , lol xxx

He has been posting under the other account Jo! But I kicked him off it

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Slim woman still have curves!

Your ass could have made that statement on its own

I have to agree, Julie has a gorgeous ass

Magnificent, I'd say....

your not julies other half on his single profile , lol xxx its not just her bum boys xxx

Might be...

was the name that give your game away , lol xxx

He has been posting under the other account Jo! But I kicked him off it

Xxx"
well nice to see your keeping him in order here , lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think if you have a brilliant sense of humor size doesn't really matter, ironically curvy/bigger girls are known for having a better sense of humor. I think its a common misconception.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think if you have a brilliant sense of humor size doesn't really matter, ironically curvy/bigger girls are known for having a better sense of humor. I think its a common misconception."

Never heard of that before?

However I can tell you I am hilarious

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Slim woman still have curves!

Your ass could have made that statement on its own

I have to agree, Julie has a gorgeous ass

Magnificent, I'd say....

your not julies other half on his single profile , lol xxx its not just her bum boys xxx

Might be...

was the name that give your game away , lol xxx

He has been posting under the other account Jo! But I kicked him off it

Xxx well nice to see your keeping him in order here , lol

Vaguely!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

some of this shits hilarity

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What do men really think ?? maybe some will not post as feel may get jumped on ... But its nice to know what thay think of the size thing as it keeps coming up here in forums so much .

I'll be honest. I'm more likely to go for a woman who is, for some, overweight than someone who is a similar build to the OP. That's just me. I'm sure I'm an acquired taste as well.

The thing I have found with this site is the need to be everyone's cup of tea which isn't going to happen and people just have to deal with it.

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Whether I am a person's cup of tea or not, whether men fancy us or not no matter what our size is isn't as important, how women veiw eachother and how other women seem to think only slim women are going to get meets or that size dictates how much criticism they face is the importance of this thread. Ladies why are we judging eachother? If you believe that you are being judged more than me or have any more or less insecurities than any other woman that's not true. To a certain degree everyone on here needs a thick skin, doesn't matter how lightly I take things I've been left feeling crap a couple of times, that's life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

my honest opinion on this is men on here would prefer to meet women like you they're just prepaired to settle for women like me because they think we will be less fussy and easier to meet

I would imagine your not short on offers and I would imagine the amount of mail you must get will answer your question

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

my honest opinion on this is men on here would prefer to meet women like you they're just prepaired to settle for women like me because they think we will be less fussy and easier to meet

I would imagine your not short on offers and I would imagine the amount of mail you must get will answer your question

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The vast majority of men that arrange meets find an excuse to get out of it, I get my messages deleted by guys, I've been told I can be intimidating and also look difficult to please( not sure how that works) either way people letting you down and being that shallow sucks! This is what some men think of us but we should be careful we don't believe others have it any easier as that is damaging to our self esteem.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

my honest opinion on this is men on here would prefer to meet women like you they're just prepaired to settle for women like me because they think we will be less fussy and easier to meet

I would imagine your not short on offers and I would imagine the amount of mail you must get will answer your question

That's not fact though. That's just an assumption.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Firstly OP lady you have a lovely figure so no worries there.

It is however true that a bit of extra weight makes women physically softer and in some respects they feel more feminine as a result as men tend to feel hard.

In the end its personal preference. Some guys like big, some small and some medium. But just remember this, you have nothing to worry about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

my honest opinion on this is men on here would prefer to meet women like you they're just prepaired to settle for women like me because they think we will be less fussy and easier to meet

I would imagine your not short on offers and I would imagine the amount of mail you must get will answer your question

That's not fact though. That's just an assumption. "

It's not even an assumption as my post states from the start 'my opinion on this' as that's all I can give, my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Firstly OP lady you have a lovely figure so no worries there.

It is however true that a bit of extra weight makes women physically softer and in some respects they feel more feminine as a result as men tend to feel hard.

In the end its personal preference. Some guys like big, some small and some medium. But just remember this, you have nothing to worry about.

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I have been much bigger myself before and softness and cuddliness was something I liked although Its never occurred to me before but I'm healthier and smaller now so I'll have to get used to me like this lol

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By *allen MadonnaWoman over a year ago

In my own little world

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