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over a year ago
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Yeah i think that's a bit odd and if anyone mailed me asking about any i left i would tell them t ask the person in question.
What makes a good meet with one person might not with another |
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"I've had someone contact me about a guy I've left a veri for. Now I'd never do this and think its a bit out of line but maybe that's just me! Thoughts anyone??"
One of the reasons I hid mine! Some people don't mind, I personally thought it inappropriate. |
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"I think as a single female safety is a massive issue and someone may just want as much information as possible Pre meet. "
Yeah as a fellow single female I totally agree about safety but still I'd never question a previous veri plus the stuff she's asking certainly ain't about the safety aspect of the meet!!! |
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over a year ago
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Had that from a very strange person saying "we've shagged the same person"
I said I never shagged him it was a social meet if you read it properly you'll see that
She wanted a MFF meet with him and it wasn't going to happen |
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over a year ago
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If you think they're doing it for suspicious reasons - report them.
There's a big difference between a polite general enquiry from a safety point of view and snooping or asking for details that are private and personal. |
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over a year ago
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Depends on what they're asking. Like Obi says-if it's checking someone out for safety reasons we wouldn't have a problem endorsing someone but if they're just being nosey we'd tell them to jog on. Either way, we'd never give any personal or intimate information. |
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"Depends on what they're asking. Like Obi says-if it's checking someone out for safety reasons we wouldn't have a problem endorsing someone but if they're just being nosey we'd tell them to jog on. Either way, we'd never give any personal or intimate information."
This ^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have done this once. On a couple profile nearly 2 years old with one very old Verification.
The couple we asked told us they wished they could delete the verificationas things went bad afterwards.
So our suspicion was justified. |
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over a year ago
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I had someone let me know that they'd been messaged and asked questions about me - kind of uneasy about that - made me feel uncomfortable about the person in question  I'd rather they asked me anything they want to know. |
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"If you think they're doing it for suspicious reasons - report them.
There's a big difference between a polite general enquiry from a safety point of view and snooping or asking for details that are private and personal."
Said perfectly 
I would also let the person being enquired about, know I'd had the email. |
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