My partner and I would love to see a club with a dedicated soft play-only room—somewhere to enjoy sensual, intimate vibes without the pressure of full swaps. A space for flirting, touching, and exploring at a slower pace. Would anyone else be into this idea? Would love to hear your thoughts! |
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"My partner and I would love to see a club with a dedicated soft play-only room—somewhere to enjoy sensual, intimate vibes without the pressure of full swaps. A space for flirting, touching, and exploring at a slower pace. Would anyone else be into this idea? Would love to hear your thoughts!"
would be good but but how meany would get carried away then it would be just another room, I suppose you could make rules like removing of clothing is not allowed
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Yes, we know exactly what you mean when it comes to soft swap. But what about a sign on the door, like the ones we used to see at the swimming baths?
‘Will patrons kindly refrain from… bombing, shouting, pushing |
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"The biggest issue to this is the variations of the term soft swing, for some it’s playing with their partner only and for others it’s everything except full penetration."
Exactly this. It always puts us off. |
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Attic used to have a couples only room with like a divide down the middle of the bed. So couples could be either side but perhaps looking at each other.
With all these things though you should be able to control this at a club when speaking to people.
Also some clubs have wristband systems to let people know what you are looking for. Although as others have said everyone has different opinion. |
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As others have said, definitions of what soft swing is vary. For us anything goes bar penetration with others. We have played in couples rooms with others and never had a problem with others pushing our boundaries which have, where necessary, been communicated quietly without fuss, verbally or none verbally. Off topic, but a bi room would be a good addition to clubs as bi nights tend to be on awkward nights for us. |
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If everyone abides by the normal club rules.. no contact unless consented.. then if softplay /voyerstic watching etc is what you like then you should be able to participate in any open play area without your boundaries being crossed.. 👍😁 |
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I'll be honest, there's probably few that will.
When I'm in the moment, as in he or she has nearly got me there,I can easily throw any rules out the window.
Yes I'm probably going to get lambasted from all sides, but at least I'm honest. 😢🤷 |
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"Yes, we know exactly what you mean when it comes to soft swap. But what about a sign on the door, like the ones we used to see at the swimming baths?
‘Will patrons kindly refrain from… bombing, shouting, pushing"
But Petting is allowed 😉🤣🤣 |
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"Yes, we know exactly what you mean when it comes to soft swap. But what about a sign on the door, like the ones we used to see at the swimming baths?
‘Will patrons kindly refrain from… bombing, shouting, pushing
But Petting is allowed 😉🤣🤣"
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Surely when your discussing playing with another couple you express your boundaries to them prior to going to a room
Not sure a dedicated room is required just think rules need discussing by all parties before play begins
Soft play can happen in any room if that's your rules xx |
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"Surely when your discussing playing with another couple you express your boundaries to them prior to going to a room
Not sure a dedicated room is required just think rules need discussing by all parties before play begins
Soft play can happen in any room if that's your rules xx"
We agree soft play can happen anywhere. All our play in clubs though has developed from playing alongside another couple then developed organically. We may be unusual, but have never discussed boundaries outside a playroom in a club with a couple and then entered to play, and it’s always worked well. On the odd occasion we have played with a single guy we have, and when meeting via Fab always. |
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