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Dominant, Submissive Or Switch
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over a year ago
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"Surely it's not a choice, you just 'are'? "
This is my thinking... But I do have a dominant side towards women but playfully..my submission is very serious. I have no choice in it..it's just how I am. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I agree...it isn't really a choice thing. If you are dominant by nature, that's the way it is in bed. Occasionally you can change, just as a role play, but your nature always comes to the fore.
Me...dominant but not domineering. And as in life you adapt to the person you are with...not very good with rules. |
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I've always been more dominant in previous relationships. I'm a natural sub but unfortunately so were my partners so we used to clash.
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"I agree...it isn't really a choice thing. If you are dominant by nature, that's the way it is in bed. Occasionally you can change, just as a role play, but your nature always comes to the fore.
Me...dominant but not domineering. And as in life you adapt to the person you are with...not very good with rules."
I think I'd possibly disagree with that and say it can be a choice. I know for me I choose to be submissive sexually because my work and home life requires me to take a dominant role and lots of responsibility so taking that into my sex life as well isn't an option for me as I want someone to take the lead and make the decisions!! |
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