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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it just us or What?,is this a swinging site????.We joined fab to meet like minded horny people for no strings fun and friendship,Horny Fun being the no 1 reason lol,not do you want to chat on here for a while get to know each other,or shall we go for a drink see how we get on?,W.T.F is that all about,With us its we like you,do you like us?want to meet up fancy some fun,Its as simple as that.what is your thoughts about it????.xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone is different
Personally I need to have conversation and get to know the person I intend on being intimate with
But as I said - everyone is different |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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As a single bi fem - I need to know who I am meeting and feel comfortable with them... its not just drop my drawers and shag.
For me swinging is the whole scene - I could go out and have random shags from the pub, but I prefer the social side, and agreeing with whats been said - my brain needs to be engaged too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single bi fem - I need to know who I am meeting and feel comfortable with them... its not just drop my drawers and shag.
For me swinging is the whole scene - I could go out and have random shags from the pub, but I prefer the social side, and agreeing with whats been said - my brain needs to be engaged too! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to chat to people for a while as although its a swinging site its not all about the sex for me its about having fun with fun people and if you get along with that person and click then the sex can e amazing.
If someones not for me and we don't get along then im not going to be open and honest about everything i want and then what's the point. |
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"Is it just us or What?,is this a swinging site????.We joined fab to meet like minded horny people for no strings fun and friendship,Horny Fun being the no 1 reason lol,not do you want to chat on here for a while get to know each other,or shall we go for a drink see how we get on?,W.T.F is that all about,With us its we like you,do you like us?want to meet up fancy some fun,Its as simple as that.what is your thoughts about it????.xx "
Exactly right to start with.. its a swinging site.. swinging is a scene/a lifestyle and that lifestyle for most involves a fantastic social side too. if thats not for you thats your choice entirely but its for most. if its not for you leave the ones that do prefer it to get on with it and find ones that dont to play with.
Arranging to meet and get on with it for us is not a turn on. the turn on and excitment is in the build up the flirt the tease etc which are all done socially. we prefer to get know our meets first makes the sex much much better. anyother way to us is not nice and not exciting.. so as you say to us people who want to meet and fuck without getting to know the perso is as you said wtf is that all about.
Each to their own best you just concentrate your efforts on who you want meet and let the rest of us get on what we prefer. Swinging has a big social scene. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is it just us or What?,is this a swinging site????.We joined fab to meet like minded horny people for no strings fun and friendship,Horny Fun being the no 1 reason lol,not do you want to chat on here for a while get to know each other,or shall we go for a drink see how we get on?,W.T.F is that all about,With us its we like you,do you like us?want to meet up fancy some fun,Its as simple as that.what is your thoughts about it????.xx
Exactly right to start with.. its a swinging site.. swinging is a scene/a lifestyle and that lifestyle for most involves a fantastic social side too. if thats not for you thats your choice entirely but its for most. if its not for you leave the ones that do prefer it to get on with it and find ones that dont to play with.
Arranging to meet and get on with it for us is not a turn on. the turn on and excitment is in the build up the flirt the tease etc which are all done socially. we prefer to get know our meets first makes the sex much much better. anyother way to us is not nice and not exciting.. so as you say to us people who want to meet and fuck without getting to know the perso is as you said wtf is that all about.
Each to their own best you just concentrate your efforts on who you want meet and let the rest of us get on what we prefer. Swinging has a big social scene."
Slow down we are not knocking anyone here,We like to chat see if we get on,see each other so we know what we all look like,have a chat on the phone send some horny messages we love all that,but for it to drag on into weeks and weeks that is the problem.xx |
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I have to like the people I'm going to have sex with and for me part of the build up to great sex is flirting, chatting and generally having a laugh in a bar or by message.
You do it your way, I'll do it mine and we'll both be happy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to like the people I'm going to have sex with and for me part of the build up to great sex is flirting, chatting and generally having a laugh in a bar or by message.
You do it your way, I'll do it mine and we'll both be happy "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone is different
Personally I need to have conversation and get to know the person I intend on being intimate with
But as I said - everyone is different"
Hello Foo  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally as a single female I like to get to know someone first,,even have a social meet first....at the end of the day safety is paramount..."
totally agree. My safety comes first and I wont meet without chatting on here for a while and then a social meet first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally as a single female I like to get to know someone first,,even have a social meet first....at the end of the day safety is paramount...
totally agree. My safety comes first and I wont meet without chatting on here for a while and then a social meet first. "
at the end of the day you are going into a strangers house or vice versa. Safety safety safety |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Slow down we are not knocking anyone here,We like to chat see if we get on,see each other so we know what we all look like,have a chat on the phone send some horny messages we love all that,but for it to drag on into weeks and weeks that is the problem.xx "
Sounds about right to me. Makes more sense than your OP, that sounded more like 'fuck n go'. But I agree with your post above.
For me it may take a few weeks to sort out to be free but I say that at the start. Don't like chatting for weeks for no reason. There would have to be at least a coffee meet early on for me. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"Is it just us or What?,is this a swinging site????.We joined fab to meet like minded horny people for no strings fun and friendship,Horny Fun being the no 1 reason lol,not do you want to chat on here for a while get to know each other,or shall we go for a drink see how we get on?,W.T.F is that all about,With us its we like you,do you like us?want to meet up fancy some fun,Its as simple as that.what is your thoughts about it????.xx "
hmmm theres good sex - and Olympic gold medal sex, mine's the latter if youre interested in blokes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we tend to take our time, people who are all about the now now now smacks of desperation a bit. Plus we have each other for that. When it comes to added extras we want to make sure we can stand the person behind the cock. |
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