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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can anyone share how you felt becoming a sub for the first time?
I'm toying with the idea of becoming one for someone on here and would love to hear other opinions on how it played out for you 
I have a sub side with my husband but i don't know how far i would/could go with someone else xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whatever you chose to do make sure you talk and agree boundaries and what you are open to trying. Trust inquiry Dom is key as is having a safe word just in case... relax and enjoy... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The first time I spent with my first Dominant was incredible, but my god was I nervous! I was shaking!
My now Dominant is also my OH but my submission came first. The first time we met was at mutual friends' party. My submission chose him, and he also has my heart now. Being his submissive is the most phenomenal feeling and I honestly adore him.
Submission to me is a large part of my life, its not something I could do with someone I'm not sure about.
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By *exykirstyWoman
over a year ago
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I am also a Sub, and I have to say, it takes a lot of trust to be with that person, it is not something that can be done on a first meet.
It takes time to learn about each other, as the Dom has to know you inside out in order to be able to know what your limits are.
Yes my Dom is also my Partner, and does know me inside out, so we do not need a safe word, but I will say, I would not let anyone else Dom me so cannot understand why you are looking for someone else.
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
Midlothian |
"Anyone else have any advice?? xx  "
will your hubby be present?If not may be have him watching on the 1st meet.
My 1st time beeing Dommed by an experienced Master was amazing.i discovered to be a natural sub and love my role.Both hubby + i learned loads about D/s,the scene etiquette,ropework etc by having lots of meets with an experienced Master/slave cpl before hubby became my Master.
Hope you have a great 1st experience.Reflecting on your experience afterwards is very important and will help on your road of discovery.
(susie)
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I guess it would depend how far you go with your hubby
will he be there?
As you are probably aware trust is KEY...and the danger of being submissive in this play environment is that the trust mat not be there. That leads to issues of your own safety
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you its only been a thought atm not sure if i have the confidence to become someone elses Sub.
I will give it some moe thought. Thank you all for replying |
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