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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My better half has a fantasy to do me with strap on.
Im coming around to the idea and have allowed her to finger me a few times and yesterday even used an object.
Both of these feel slightly uncomfortable to me although not really unpleasant but not pleasurable either
prior to this i was a complete ass virgin.
My question is, does this become more comfortable and or pleasurable with practice?
We do of course use plenty of lube...
Will i learn to enjoy it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex used to use a strap on on me as an exceptional treat for everyone: I found it uncomfy at first, but then it was really enjoyable because my other half was conscious it could be painful...
If she's gentle and you're realxed, you'll learn to get loads of pleasure out of it!! 
Don't try a strap on first though: first fingers, then anal beads then strap on... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My ex used to use a strap on on me as an exceptional treat for everyone: I found it uncomfy at first, but then it was really enjoyable because my other half was conscious it could be painful...
If she's gentle and you're realxed, you'll learn to get loads of pleasure out of it!!
Don't try a strap on first though: first fingers, then anal beads then strap on..."
cheers for advice mate... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No worries 
Oh, one more thing: feel free to stop if it becomes slightly painful, otherwise you'll never enjoy it: anal is not something you start lving overnight |
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"My better half has a fantasy to do me with strap on.
Im coming around to the idea and have allowed her to finger me a few times and yesterday even used an object.
Both of these feel slightly uncomfortable to me although not really unpleasant but not pleasurable either
prior to this i was a complete ass virgin.
My question is, does this become more comfortable and or pleasurable with practice?
We do of course use plenty of lube...
Will i learn to enjoy it?"
yes you will , but you have to go small steps at a time . fingers at first , then suggest you buy a series of butt plugs of different sizes . Good thing about plugs is they stay in and allow your ass to relax and adjust to being stretched . I have a FB who couldn't take anything in there , but now she can take a hard fucking by a big cock or dildo . Took 3 years though !!!! its a long journey , but she loves it , so it's worth it . Your man is going to have to have patience of a saint though ....LOL |
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By *J45Man
over a year ago
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Incredibly erotic when done right. As others have said start slowly use lots of lube and stop if you feel any more than little pain.
I got myself and anal massager before jumping in, played a lot on my own and now I love it, if my O/H hits my P spot it drives me crazy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cheers for your help guys"
get a small vibrator...this will ease in easy and its smooth if not used to having anything inside you.
as fingers can sometimes still feel uncomfortable. one small object will be a good build up..also poppers as they will relax you but not too much haha |
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I have a vibrating strap on I won in a raffle.
I've used it on guys and girls (with condoms) and only ever given a fuck to the ladies. With the guys I tend to just lay/kneel there and let them do all the work. Plenty of lube and with them in control and its easy peasy.
All bar one of the guys loved it but he was a brave little soldier and didn't grumble till the day after.
I've had them do doggy and cow girl so far. Any one interested form an orderly queue xxx |
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One of my best experience s was laying on my back pillow under my lower back. T girl lubed up and slowly fucked my arse whilst wanking my cock with her hands. Was one of the best feelings I had. Try that position and nice slow technique with strap on and wank job. You will love it for sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a vibrating strap on I won in a raffle.
I've used it on guys and girls (with condoms) and only ever given a fuck to the ladies. With the guys I tend to just lay/kneel there and let them do all the work. Plenty of lube and with them in control and its easy peasy.
All bar one of the guys loved it but he was a brave little soldier and didn't grumble till the day after.
I've had them do doggy and cow girl so far. Any one interested form an orderly queue xxx"
You seriously put a condom on a strap on lol? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rosie managed to enjoy two new strapon experiences last week as we played with a lovely cpl. First the other female took Rosie with her strapon much to rosies enjoyment then a change over. Rosie wore the strapon and took me, having experienced it before this was another level doing it in the presence of another cpl which meant even more stimulation of my sensitive parts. Truly amazing and look forward to sharing the experience again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a vibrating strap on I won in a raffle.
I've used it on guys and girls (with condoms) and only ever given a fuck to the ladies. With the guys I tend to just lay/kneel there and let them do all the work. Plenty of lube and with them in control and its easy peasy.
All bar one of the guys loved it but he was a brave little soldier and didn't grumble till the day after.
I've had them do doggy and cow girl so far. Any one interested form an orderly queue xxx
You seriously put a condom on a strap on lol? "
Of course I did, its going in to different people!!! I used to sell toys for ann summers, you should always cover them if sharing them. They don't get scrubbed clean, can you imagine the possible bacteria on them and to go shoving them into different bodies, never mind cavities. Have you any idea how many bacteria live in the colon??? |
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over a year ago
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You can buy beginner's strapon's which have dildo's that are designed for first timers. They're slimmer, smooth and made of flexible silicone. The harnesses they come with will also accept bigger toys when you feel you can handle bigger. Search Lovehoney for beginners strapon kits they're not expensive either. Have fun.... |
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