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By *ageBWC OP   Man 2 days ago

Glasgow

Looking for my first fuck but i don't get any replies or messages, am i that bad, what can i do to improve?

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By *orthern StarsCouple 2 days ago

Durham

Think of your profile as a shop window on a high street. You need to have it appealing to attract people to 'step through the door' and enquire more.

Ask yourself if you feel your profile is doing that for you.

Then ask yourself if you are just wanting a random fuck or are you genuinely interested in the swinging scene. If it's the first, then there are easier ways of getting a fuck, but if it's the latter, then get active in the scene instead of hiding behind a screen.

Good luck.

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By *hgoonthen74Man 2 days ago

Sheffield

Get out there and get some verifications that's a good start. Find a club local to you and go along and meet some people, they are a very friendly place and you don't need to play to get someone to write you a verification, just to show you are real

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By *arakiss12TV/TS 2 days ago

Bedford

Loose the stubble, do some naked full length body pics, put camera on timer then pose on a sofa or bed

Clothes ones in a jacket n shirt or just shirt, no casual wear.

Get to a club if you can and get some verification from others.

Try meets and events section, also get to a gang bang if you can a good scource of verifications

Be polite and friendly, it's about attitude as much as image. Work on sense of humour too, be sharp not crass, witty not too sarcastic.

Try and get pics with another person, action gets attention. If I was closer I'd help you out with pics.

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By *hgoonthen74Man 2 days ago

Sheffield


"Loose the stubble, do some naked full length body pics, put camera on timer then pose on a sofa or bed

Clothes ones in a jacket n shirt or just shirt, no casual wear.

Get to a club if you can and get some verification from others.

Try meets and events section, also get to a gang bang if you can a good scource of verifications

Be polite and friendly, it's about attitude as much as image. Work on sense of humour too, be sharp not crass, witty not too sarcastic.

Try and get pics with another person, action gets attention. If I was closer I'd help you out with pics.

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All really good advice

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By *ellhungvweMan 2 days ago

Cheltenham

Maybe stop looking for a random fuck and start thinking about what’s in it for them?

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By *iss DevilWoman 2 days ago

Bedford


"Looking for my first fuck but i don't get any replies or messages, am i that bad, what can i do to improve?"

If you got a message from a profile like yours on here, would you reply? Most people check profile before deciding whether or not they even want to reply to their message. Is yours appealing enough? Does it tell people everything you want them to know about you and what you have to offer? Does it make you stand out from thousands of other single men profiles? If you believe the answer to those questions is "yes", then leave it as it is.

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By *lik and PaulCouple 2 days ago

cahoots


"Think of your profile as a shop window on a high street. You need to have it appealing to attract people to 'step through the door' and enquire more.

Ask yourself if you feel your profile is doing that for you.

Then ask yourself if you are just wanting a random fuck or are you genuinely interested in the swinging scene. If it's the first, then there are easier ways of getting a fuck, but if it's the latter, then get active in the scene instead of hiding behind a screen.

Good luck."

This pretty much sums it up.

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