"I don't feel jealous but they have to be okay for me to say the same thing about a guy"
That's the problem I don't feel that way about other men. Am sure I am probably in the minority bit am really truly truing to understand this. |
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By *fffunCouple 2 weeks ago
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"I don't feel jealous but they have to be okay for me to say the same thing about a guy
That's the problem I don't feel that way about other men. Am sure I am probably in the minority bit am really truly truing to understand this."
It's natural too..if you appreciate someone's humour, or thier talent/skills, why not their beauty/looks too... However as another person mentioned if it was that a little too often or comparing it would be verging on more than appreciation and maybe I would say something then...
We have eyes to see the world and hot men and women are part of that  |
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"Would really be interested in knowing how women particularly feel when their man says a women looks sexy/hot?"
Uh, usually interested in who they're looking at and seeing if I can pick out which factors are drawing them in.
My partners finding other people hot is no threat to me 💜 |
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I've spent years encouraging my husband to be comfortable telling me when he finds someone else attractive after his previous relationship made him feel horrible about it.
Its human nature to look and find people attractive. Why would I want him to hide that part of himself from me? I tell him when I see a hot man or woman.
Also we swing, I need to know what his likes and dislikes are. Can't surprise him if I don't know what kind of woman he's into. |
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"I don't feel jealous but they have to be okay for me to say the same thing about a guy
That's the problem I don't feel that way about other men. Am sure I am probably in the minority bit am really truly truing to understand this."
I don't look at other men this way but I'm fine when Mr looks at other women. I even tease him when he really likes another lady as he gets a bit giddy. He may find them sexy but they aren't me.
I have got jealous but not since we have actually been together... it was a meet before we had told each other how we felt x |
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