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By *he Gentleman. OP   Man 1 week ago

Sitlington

Awaiting delivery of a wand and wanting both my wife and myself to use it. Separately or together so I'm hoping for some tips on how to use it? I've bought some water based lube too. Thoughts please?

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By *icecouple561Couple 1 week ago
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East Sussex

Go gently at first they can be very intense and I find that they can make me go numb. I can only use mine over clothing

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By *he Gentleman. OP   Man 1 week ago

Sitlington


"Go gently at first they can be very intense and I find that they can make me go numb. I can only use mine over clothing "
Thank you. Perhaps we'll try the slower settings first?

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By *oodmessMan 1 week ago

yumsville

There's usually an extra setting if you hold a button down - normal is up-down speed but keeping the button pressed in to the top speed you want it to go to means it will pulse from low up to that speed.

Also, putting under your balls when fucking turns your cock into a vib

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By *he Gentleman. OP   Man 1 week ago

Sitlington


"There's usually an extra setting if you hold a button down - normal is up-down speed but keeping the button pressed in to the top speed you want it to go to means it will pulse from low up to that speed.

Also, putting under your balls when fucking turns your cock into a vib "

great knowledge, thanks.

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By *oodmessMan 1 week ago

yumsville


"There's usually an extra setting if you hold a button down - normal is up-down speed but keeping the button pressed in to the top speed you want it to go to means it will pulse from low up to that speed.

Also, putting under your balls when fucking turns your cock into a vib great knowledge, thanks."

Same goes using them with regular dildo's. Otherwise, they are powerful, people use them in different ways either feather light or pressed hard on, you can use them on other areas, though I can't say I ever concentrated on them much.. they'd no doubt tease

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By *oodmessMan 1 week ago

yumsville

* don't mean to spam the thread but using them as orgasm denial is a bit of fun.. build up, pause, build pause.

No doubt other stuff too

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By *he Gentleman. OP   Man 1 week ago

Sitlington


"There's usually an extra setting if you hold a button down - normal is up-down speed but keeping the button pressed in to the top speed you want it to go to means it will pulse from low up to that speed.

Also, putting under your balls when fucking turns your cock into a vib great knowledge, thanks.

Same goes using them with regular dildo's. Otherwise, they are powerful, people use them in different ways either feather light or pressed hard on, you can use them on other areas, though I can't say I ever concentrated on them much.. they'd no doubt tease "

can't wait to try. I hope my Mrs likes it too.

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By *he Gentleman. OP   Man 1 week ago

Sitlington


"* don't mean to spam the thread but using them as orgasm denial is a bit of fun.. build up, pause, build pause.

No doubt other stuff too"

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By *TWboyMan 1 week ago

Norwich

Anne Summers used to do a rubber add in top for the wand too - we still have it somewhere…… it was ‘interesting’

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By *he Gentleman. OP   Man 1 week ago

Sitlington


"Anne Summers used to do a rubber add in top for the wand too - we still have it somewhere…… it was ‘interesting’"
in what way was it "interesting "? I'm intrigued to know!

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By *he Gentleman. OP   Man 3 days ago

Sitlington

Well, the wand and lube arrived and we had some fun over the weekend with it. Need some practice still and any tips would be welcome.

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By *appyhitsMan 3 days ago

Midlands

Let her play with it herself first to figure out the right settings and pressure. You can then give her a massage as she uses it

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By *he Gentleman. OP   Man 3 days ago

Sitlington


"Let her play with it herself first to figure out the right settings and pressure. You can then give her a massage as she uses it"
she pretty much took over anyway so I just watched.

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By *appyhitsMan 3 days ago

Midlands


"Let her play with it herself first to figure out the right settings and pressure. You can then give her a massage as she uses it she pretty much took over anyway so I just watched."

Maybe let her have one with the wand and then go down on her. It's a little overstimulating but it's fun

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By *he Gentleman. OP   Man 3 days ago

Sitlington


"Let her play with it herself first to figure out the right settings and pressure. You can then give her a massage as she uses it she pretty much took over anyway so I just watched.

Maybe let her have one with the wand and then go down on her. It's a little overstimulating but it's fun "

love eating her pussy anyway

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman 3 days ago

Manchester

I have a doxy die cast which is unbelievably powerful, a bit too powerful maybe. I always need to use lube as the speed it vibrates and the materials of the head can cause friction and if I use it for too long I go numb. So I tend to prefer lots of foreplay and working up then someone introducing it to play when I'm close to cumming to tip me over the edge.

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By *iss DevilWoman 3 days ago

Bedford

A lot depends on what kind of wand it is. Is it the regular wand, with the round tip and a handle, or a different version? I just got myself a rechargeable one that can be used in a variety of ways. The round tip has a detachable sleeve that can turn it into clit sucker, and there is also vibration option in the bottom bit. So technically the lady could use the clit sucker part and the guy could use the vibrating end on his cock or balls. Or in his arse, if that's what he likes. It might take some bedroom acrobatics for that though.

If it's the "standard" wand, you used to be able to get some attachments (basically sleeves that would go over the head of the wand). I very much enjoyed using the hummingbird attachment on a few guys before. It slides onto the head of the wand, and then the penis slides into the sleeve. Just by using the vibration from the wand, the sleeve transfers those onto the cock. Then sliding it up and down the shaft while the wand is still vibrating creates the feeling of being wanked. And leads to some interesting "explosions"

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By *he Gentleman. OP   Man 3 days ago

Sitlington


"A lot depends on what kind of wand it is. Is it the regular wand, with the round tip and a handle, or a different version? I just got myself a rechargeable one that can be used in a variety of ways. The round tip has a detachable sleeve that can turn it into clit sucker, and there is also vibration option in the bottom bit. So technically the lady could use the clit sucker part and the guy could use the vibrating end on his cock or balls. Or in his arse, if that's what he likes. It might take some bedroom acrobatics for that though.

If it's the "standard" wand, you used to be able to get some attachments (basically sleeves that would go over the head of the wand). I very much enjoyed using the hummingbird attachment on a few guys before. It slides onto the head of the wand, and then the penis slides into the sleeve. Just by using the vibration from the wand, the sleeve transfers those onto the cock. Then sliding it up and down the shaft while the wand is still vibrating creates the feeling of being wanked. And leads to some interesting "explosions""

wonderful reply. Thanks.

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By *he Gentleman. OP   Man 3 days ago

Sitlington


"I have a doxy die cast which is unbelievably powerful, a bit too powerful maybe. I always need to use lube as the speed it vibrates and the materials of the head can cause friction and if I use it for too long I go numb. So I tend to prefer lots of foreplay and working up then someone introducing it to play when I'm close to cumming to tip me over the edge. "
I think the lube is a must. I'm sure we will find our ideal after some practice. The practice has been fun so far. Thanks for taking the time to reply. X

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By *fffunCouple 3 days ago

Never you mind


"Go gently at first they can be very intense and I find that they can make me go numb. I can only use mine over clothing "

Mee too.. I have a body massage gun and made my own sexual use for it instead and it's soo powerful I have to use it over clothing...thought i was the only one!

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By *hestercpl4funCouple 3 days ago

chester

My wife is on her 5 th wand burnt the others out all mains plug in , gives her very intense pleasure gushes everywhere

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By *he Gentleman. OP   Man 3 days ago

Sitlington


"My wife is on her 5 th wand burnt the others out all mains plug in , gives her very intense pleasure gushes everywhere "
this is a plug in too.

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By *odkaandredbullCouple 3 days ago

Antrim

Highly recommend the satisfyer 2 just hits so much better than a wand

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By *he Gentleman. OP   Man 3 days ago

Sitlington


"Highly recommend the satisfyer 2 just hits so much better than a wand "
bought this now but I've noted your recommendation.

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By *TWboyMan 3 days ago

Norwich


"Anne Summers used to do a rubber add in top for the wand too - we still have it somewhere…… it was ‘interesting’in what way was it "interesting "? I'm intrigued to know!"

It fits on the top of the wand (like a cap) and is at 90 degrees to the shaft of the wand device itself it’s silicon and soft and can be used to penetrate the front and stimulate the anus at the same time….

I had a picture somewhere - I’ll see if I can find it…..

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By *he Gentleman. OP   Man 3 days ago

Sitlington


"Anne Summers used to do a rubber add in top for the wand too - we still have it somewhere…… it was ‘interesting’in what way was it "interesting "? I'm intrigued to know!

It fits on the top of the wand (like a cap) and is at 90 degrees to the shaft of the wand device itself it’s silicon and soft and can be used to penetrate the front and stimulate the anus at the same time….

I had a picture somewhere - I’ll see if I can find it…..thanks. Sounds intriguing!

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