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Why it is so difficult to find couple dates?
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Well, around 2-3 months on fab, it is so difficult to find a real date here. We get tons of messages and winks, we reply enthusiastically too. There is initial spark as well, but it hardly converts to date.
We are free on weekends and ideally looking for dates within 50 miles of our area, why is so dry in here???? |
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By *oxy jWoman 24 hours ago
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if people put all their eggs in one basket then of course its going to be hard ... the swinging scene is far bigger than one web site even if fab is the best for online ...
clubs are where the best info is get known and then doors open for much much more than just clubs ie private invite only parties some couples only some have single women too men are very very vetted ie they must know some of the couples invired ..
so whats the difference well face to face your meeting real swingers and that cant be said for online that is very male driven with wanking porn fantasy pretending to be couples or women ie half of couples and women are not who they say they are ...
even meeting men is easier via clubs 90% of guys i meet are from clubs and couples and women i meet is 100% awat from online and over the years have built a very big network of friends ..
nothing falls into your lap effprt is needed and not in one location..
and i say all that but fab is by far as swinging goes the best site you just need to avoid the non swingers and fakes |
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"if people put all their eggs in one basket then of course its going to be hard ... the swinging scene is far bigger than one web site even if fab is the best for online ...
clubs are where the best info is get known and then doors open for much much more than just clubs ie private invite only parties some couples only some have single women too men are very very vetted ie they must know some of the couples invired ..
so whats the difference well face to face your meeting real swingers and that cant be said for online that is very male driven with wanking porn fantasy pretending to be couples or women ie half of couples and women are not who they say they are ...
even meeting men is easier via clubs 90% of guys i meet are from clubs and couples and women i meet is 100% awat from online and over the years have built a very big network of friends ..
nothing falls into your lap effprt is needed and not in one location..
and i say all that but fab is by far as swinging goes the best site you just need to avoid the non swingers and fakes"
Thanks that's some real good advice. Have to look at the club scenes. |
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It's hard for couples, looking to meet other couples, I'm half of one.
You have to factor in 4 way attraction and then availability of all parties, as many like me and my other half do shift work.
If all aren't free for a while, the chat can Peter out or become very boring.
Why not consider a club?. You could put on your status that you're attending too,see if anyone else you like the look of is. |
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We're new, and tbh, possibly a bit scared. In the end, you're meeting total strangers, and it's nerve wracking. Hopefully got our 1st meet tomorrow, just a drink, but that's all we're after for now. |
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"We're new, and tbh, possibly a bit scared. In the end, you're meeting total strangers, and it's nerve wracking. Hopefully got our 1st meet tomorrow, just a drink, but that's all we're after for now. "
I was really nervous the first time we met someone for a drink. I still get nervous now but not quite like I was the first time  . I had to keep stopping on the way to pee |
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We struggle to find couples that want to meet, we had a previous profile with alot more verifications but after losing access to it trying to build up a new profile is difficult as circumstances have changed its impossible for us to go clubs together anymore so people haven't actually seen us as a couple rather then just a single woman xx |
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"It's hard for couples, looking to meet other couples, I'm half of one.
You have to factor in 4 way attraction and then availability of all parties, as many like me and my other half do shift work.
If all aren't free for a while, the chat can Peter out or become very boring.
Why not consider a club?. You could put on your status that you're attending too,see if anyone else you like the look of is. "
Thanks! Yes we see, and these have been the difficulties. More and more we are thinking about club scenes. |
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"It's hard for couples, looking to meet other couples, I'm half of one.
You have to factor in 4 way attraction and then availability of all parties, as many like me and my other half do shift work.
If all aren't free for a while, the chat can Peter out or become very boring.
Why not consider a club?. You could put on your status that you're attending too,see if anyone else you like the look of is.
Thanks! Yes we see, and these have been the difficulties. More and more we are thinking about club scenes."
Good luck, we made more connections through clubs than just using fab. |
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"It's hard for couples, looking to meet other couples, I'm half of one.
You have to factor in 4 way attraction and then availability of all parties, as many like me and my other half do shift work.
If all aren't free for a while, the chat can Peter out or become very boring.
Why not consider a club?. You could put on your status that you're attending too,see if anyone else you like the look of is.
Thanks! Yes we see, and these have been the difficulties. More and more we are thinking about club scenes.
Good luck, we made more connections through clubs than just using fab. "
Any favourite in south east? |
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"We're new, and tbh, possibly a bit scared. In the end, you're meeting total strangers, and it's nerve wracking. Hopefully got our 1st meet tomorrow, just a drink, but that's all we're after for now.
I was really nervous the first time we met someone for a drink. I still get nervous now but not quite like I was the first time . I had to keep stopping on the way to pee "
that's not nerves for me, just a middle aged man issue! |
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Chams in Darlaston is perfect for a first club visit. Everyone is so friendly and never any pressure to do anything you would not feel happy to do. This was our first club and still remains our club of choice. |
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Spending your time chatting with the wrong type of people if you want instantaneous action rather than a social which leads onto a private meets!
It's just like in real life, you can't click with everyone. And those you do click with, they need to factor in free time to make something potentially happen!
Just go to a club if you want to try and crack on!  |
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"Well, around 2-3 months on fab, it is so difficult to find a real date here. We get tons of messages and winks, we reply enthusiastically too. There is initial spark as well, but it hardly converts to date.
A 4 way connection can be hard to find
But we think it's more likely that a profile is being driven by one or the other of a couple
And with 1 of them just along for the ride , or to keep the peace
We are free on weekends and ideally looking for dates within 50 miles of our area, why is so dry in here????"
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"We're new, and tbh, possibly a bit scared. In the end, you're meeting total strangers, and it's nerve wracking. Hopefully got our 1st meet tomorrow, just a drink, but that's all we're after for now.
I was really nervous the first time we met someone for a drink. I still get nervous now but not quite like I was the first time . I had to keep stopping on the way to pee that's not nerves for me, just a middle aged man issue!"
Oh dear  |
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I’m one half of a couple and the 4 way attraction, the limited availability of us both sometimes, makes it difficult.
Clubs are lots of fun though; even if you don’t find a couple you’re attracted to, you can still have fun. 🤪😈 |
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Too many people who don’t read profile and also so many fake couples and ladies x