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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there have been loads of threads on here about pregnant swinging,a lot of guys would love to play with a pregnant woman,and some girls would too.There are also those who judge it as irresponsible and dangerous to the baby,in case you caught an STI for example.
Its your choice,I'm sure if you put it on your profile you will have plenty of interest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am a little over 4 months pregnant now and was wondering if most people won't fuck a pregnant woman or are we just looking in the wrong place "
totally wrong unless with partner
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am a little over 4 months pregnant now and was wondering if most people won't fuck a pregnant woman or are we just looking in the wrong place totally wrong unless with partner"
you mean it's totally wrong for you... It's not wrong to many. |
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If you are safe and the person respects your condition I dont see any problem with it.
Maybe if you like rough hard sex tone it down a little, but other than that, enjoy...
We are all different and I am sure many will agree, many will disagree
Joys of Fab aint it we are all different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"personally i think swinging takes up too much of someones life if they need to carry it on through a pregnancy
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I don't swing, I fuck people.. but I am not about to change who I am just because I was pregnant. Yes I'd calm down a little... But as my mum used to say.. your not ill your just pregnant.
I love sex.. and when I was pregnant I loved sex even more... if couples want to carry on then just let them enjoy their time... As after little bundle is their.. then life gets put on hold a little.
If it's not your thing, I am sure no one is forcing people to do it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" totally wrong unless with partner
Is your opinion. We'll continue playing with friends when Rachel is pregnant one day. As long as you stay safe there's no harm. "
Ummmm......can we be friends?!  |
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"personally i think swinging takes up too much of someones life if they need to carry it on through a pregnancy
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Think this is the only post of yours I've ever agreed with: it was bound to happen one day!  |
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"personally i think swinging takes up too much of someones life if they need to carry it on through a pregnancy
I don't swing, I fuck people.. but I am not about to change who I am just because I was pregnant. Yes I'd calm down a little... But as my mum used to say.. your not ill your just pregnant.
I love sex.. and when I was pregnant I loved sex even more... if couples want to carry on then just let them enjoy their time... As after little bundle is their.. then life gets put on hold a little.
If it's not your thing, I am sure no one is forcing people to do it.
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You do realise that just as your entitled to your opinion others are too right?!!
He said "personally"... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"personally i think swinging takes up too much of someones life if they need to carry it on through a pregnancy
Think this is the only post of yours I've ever agreed with: it was bound to happen one day! "
I have to agree too
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"each to there own but your taking added risks to your unborn child x"
that's the only reason I don't agree with it
If you fuck a guy and the condom comes off inside you and he has a STI its 2 weeks of antibiotics for you and jobs a good un, for your child it could be quite latterly life changing
is it really worth it? even more so when your a couple and you have a fella to shag, why risk your child's health and development? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" totally wrong unless with partner
Is your opinion. We'll continue playing with friends when Rachel is pregnant one day. As long as you stay safe there's no harm. "
There us no such thing as 100% safe sex and i think putting a unborn child at risk isn't something anybody should do. Parents are meant to protect there kids for there whole life and that includes while they are still in the womb.i think If you aren't responsible enough to hold off from swinging for 9 month to protect your child which is meant to be the most precious thing in your life then you've definitely got your prioritise wrong |
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" totally wrong unless with partner
Is your opinion. We'll continue playing with friends when Rachel is pregnant one day. As long as you stay safe there's no harm.
There us no such thing as 100% safe sex and i think putting a unborn child at risk isn't something anybody should do. Parents are meant to protect there kids for there whole life and that includes while they are still in the womb.i think If you aren't responsible enough to hold off from swinging for 9 month to protect your child which is meant to be the most precious thing in your life then you've definitely got your prioritise wrong"
Nothing is 100% safe in life. Protected sex with friends who have limited sexual partners is no different to us having sex with each other. There's far more chance of complications from smoking, drinking (we do neither), physical accidents, unavoidable illnesses, etc. Life has no absolute guarantees but we weigh up our risks sensibly and to us, cutting off our sex lives doesn't have to be part of the process.
Everyone has their opinions though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"personally i think swinging takes up too much of someones life if they need to carry it on through a pregnancy
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Amen to that! Kind of feel that crosses the boundaries some what. That's a pure life and mums are rather sacrid in that respect!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" totally wrong unless with partner
Is your opinion. We'll continue playing with friends when Rachel is pregnant one day. As long as you stay safe there's no harm.
There us no such thing as 100% safe sex and i think putting a unborn child at risk isn't something anybody should do. Parents are meant to protect there kids for there whole life and that includes while they are still in the womb.i think If you aren't responsible enough to hold off from swinging for 9 month to protect your child which is meant to be the most precious thing in your life then you've definitely got your prioritise wrong
Nothing is 100% safe in life. Protected sex with friends who have limited sexual partners is no different to us having sex with each other. There's far more chance of complications from smoking, drinking (we do neither), physical accidents, unavoidable illnesses, etc. Life has no absolute guarantees but we weigh up our risks sensibly and to us, cutting off our sex lives doesn't have to be part of the process.
Everyone has their opinions though x"
Of course it is different to you have sex together and only together if you both haven't got anything. They are still having sex with other people which could be having sex with numerous other people. I can't believe that people can't stop having sex with other people for 9 mo th to protect a child and it isn't cutting off your sex lives as you would still have each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn't think of anything worse when pregnant tbh. I didn't want anyone near me lol.
I think you need to look at all of the risks and make an informed choice as it is potentially dangerous for the baby. Personally, I wouldn't, I think it's a special time to share with your partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So long as your not putting baby at risk with really rough sex, go for it! I loved sex when pregnant!"
Sorry but that is ridiculous. Being gentle doesn't stop the fact that infections can be passed on which is putting the baby at risk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So long as your not putting baby at risk with really rough sex, go for it! I loved sex when pregnant!
Sorry but that is ridiculous. Being gentle doesn't stop the fact that infections can be passed on which is putting the baby at risk"
it's a small risk.. the point is that in daily life many pregnant women do things that are statistically much more risky.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I still think if people are careful, its up to them.
For me its a massive turn on, but everyone interested is in the midlands or higher. ; )"
I never find anyone from near here lol |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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some will play whilst pregnant
some won't play whilst pregnant
some will play with pregnant ladies
others won't...
there will be a range of mixed opinions, it is your baby & it is you that needs to consider it's wellbeing.
You will do what you want to do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes there are risks in everyday life but you try and minimise the risks as much as possible and having sex with strangers is one that should be cut out for 9 month. I've c+p this off a website so people can see what they are risking doing to there unborn child.
Harmful effects on the baby may include stillbirth, low birth weight, conjunctivitis (eye infection), pneumonia, neonatal sepsis (infection in the blood stream), neurologic damage (such as brain damage or motor disorder), congenital abnormalities (including blindness, deafness, or other organ damage), acute hepatitis, meningitis, chronic liver disease, and cirrhosis. Some of these consequences may be apparent at birth; others may not be detected until months or even years later.
Is an hour worth of fun worth the risks of lifetime illness to your child or even worse. If people put there child at risks of something like that them they should seriously consider wether having a child to love and protect is something they should be doing. It's nothing but selfish |
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"yes there are risks in everyday life but you try and minimise the risks as much as possible and having sex with strangers is one that should be cut out for 9 month. I've c+p this off a website so people can see what they are risking doing to there unborn child.
Harmful effects on the baby may include stillbirth, low birth weight, conjunctivitis (eye infection), pneumonia, neonatal sepsis (infection in the blood stream), neurologic damage (such as brain damage or motor disorder), congenital abnormalities (including blindness, deafness, or other organ damage), acute hepatitis, meningitis, chronic liver disease, and cirrhosis. Some of these consequences may be apparent at birth; others may not be detected until months or even years later.
Is an hour worth of fun worth the risks of lifetime illness to your child or even worse. If people put there child at risks of something like that them they should seriously consider wether having a child to love and protect is something they should be doing. It's nothing but selfish"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All sorts of judgmental coming out in the open community of swinging as per usual!
I love the fact many of you assume you can only get an Sti from a swinging partner and not your actual partner (all of whom are always totally faithful all the time obviously)
I'm assuming also that you all when pregnant also drive within the Speed limit, don't drink or smoke or any other high risk activity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" totally wrong unless with partner
Is your opinion. We'll continue playing with friends when Rachel is pregnant one day. As long as you stay safe there's no harm. "
I agree! And in the swinging worldwho the hell has the right to say anything is "wrong"! It's not for some, so pass it by.
When preg with my last one, I was on heat lol... Didn't come across here till after though. Safety and trust is key! If it is desired tho, adding to profile title may help x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yes there are risks in everyday life but you try and minimise the risks as much as possible and having sex with strangers is one that should be cut out for 9 month. I've c+p this off a website so people can see what they are risking doing to there unborn child.
Harmful effects on the baby may include stillbirth, low birth weight, conjunctivitis (eye infection), pneumonia, neonatal sepsis (infection in the blood stream), neurologic damage (such as brain damage or motor disorder), congenital abnormalities (including blindness, deafness, or other organ damage), acute hepatitis, meningitis, chronic liver disease, and cirrhosis. Some of these consequences may be apparent at birth; others may not be detected until months or even years later.
Is an hour worth of fun worth the risks of lifetime illness to your child or even worse. If people put there child at risks of something like that them they should seriously consider wether having a child to love and protect is something they should be doing. It's nothing but selfish"
Haha don't u just love this place!!
Each yo their own!
Sex with anyone as long as it is safe and protected, is safe for baby - and a happy contented motger is a happy baby!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" totally wrong unless with partner
Is your opinion. We'll continue playing with friends when Rachel is pregnant one day. As long as you stay safe there's no harm.
I agree! And in the swinging worldwho the hell has the right to say anything is "wrong"! It's not for some, so pass it by.
When preg with my last one, I was on heat lol... Didn't come across here till after though. Safety and trust is key! If it is desired tho, adding to profile title may help x"
It is wrong it is child neglect |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yes there are risks in everyday life but you try and minimise the risks as much as possible and having sex with strangers is one that should be cut out for 9 month. I've c+p this off a website so people can see what they are risking doing to there unborn child.
Harmful effects on the baby may include stillbirth, low birth weight, conjunctivitis (eye infection), pneumonia, neonatal sepsis (infection in the blood stream), neurologic damage (such as brain damage or motor disorder), congenital abnormalities (including blindness, deafness, or other organ damage), acute hepatitis, meningitis, chronic liver disease, and cirrhosis. Some of these consequences may be apparent at birth; others may not be detected until months or even years later.
Is an hour worth of fun worth the risks of lifetime illness to your child or even worse. If people put there child at risks of something like that them they should seriously consider wether having a child to love and protect is something they should be doing. It's nothing but selfish
Haha don't u just love this place!!
Each yo their own!
Sex with anyone as long as it is safe and protected, is safe for baby - and a happy contented motger is a happy baby!!"
There is no such thing as safe sex and protection fails. If you don't think that's right I think you need to have some sex education lessons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"all this thread shows is the divide between responsible and irresponsible parents
all this swinger/sexual liberation bullshit has nothing to do with it "
Safe sex = responsible!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"all this thread shows is the divide between responsible and irresponsible parents
all this swinger/sexual liberation bullshit has nothing to do with it "
I'm a perfectly responsible parent thank you. some judgemental people on here.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"all this thread shows is the divide between responsible and irresponsible parents
all this swinger/sexual liberation bullshit has nothing to do with it
Safe sex = responsible!! "
What do you class as safe sex?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All sorts of judgmental coming out in the open community of swinging as per usual!
I love the fact many of you assume you can only get an Sti from a swinging partner and not your actual partner (all of whom are always totally faithful all the time obviously)
I'm assuming also that you all when pregnant also drive within the Speed limit, don't drink or smoke or any other high risk activity. "
I don't smoke or sink when pregnant and as I have high risk pregnancies I actually stop driving all together at around 30 weeks. I have to do everything I can to try and get passed the 37 week mark and that normally includes hospital bed rest, so yeah, I think we can safely say I wouldn't risk an STI. I also completely trust my husband, otherwise we wouldn't be part of the swinging scene... |
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Why is it when people express their opinion some jump to the conclusion it's judgemental? Oh, the irony!
As a mother, one who has had the misfortune of burying a child, I've personally done everything in my power to protect my children. I PERSONALLY cannot envisage doing anything that could potentially cause harm.
Whilst pregnant I drove a car to and from work. Would I go rally racing: of course not! Whilst pregnant I walked to the shops. Would I walk to the shops wrapped in the union jack singing rule Britannia in Helmand province? What do you think. Would I have sex with my husband, the man I loved, trusted, father of my child? As often as possible. Would I have sex whilst pregnant with random strangers, who have sex with all comers (no pun intended)via a website dedicated to promiscuous adults; PERSONALLY I wouldn't.
If others don't understand the difference there's nowt more to add. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it when people express their opinion some jump to the conclusion it's judgemental? Oh, the irony!
As a mother, one who has had the misfortune of burying a child, I've personally done everything in my power to protect my children. I PERSONALLY cannot envisage doing anything that could potentially cause harm.
Whilst pregnant I drove a car to and from work. Would I go rally racing: of course not! Whilst pregnant I walked to the shops. Would I walk to the shops wrapped in the union jack singing rule Britannia in Helmand province? What do you think. Would I have sex with my husband, the man I loved, trusted, father of my child? As often as possible. Would I have sex whilst pregnant with random strangers, who have sex with all comers (no pun intended)via a website dedicated to promiscuous adults; PERSONALLY I wouldn't.
If others don't understand the difference there's nowt more to add. "
plus we felt, as others have said, that it was a special time between us only. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Taking the specific (I didn't do it because of) and applying it to the general (you shouldn't do it because) is pointless as we all have different experiences. For those of you who swing and are concerned about STI due to broken condoms etc, lets assume that before you got pregnant you also didn't swing and got tested before you went ahead with pregnancy? If not I'm afraid hypocrisy rings through. Before you feel I'm advocating swinging during pregnancy, I'm not, I found sex with my partner was amazing when she was pregnant but neither of us were interested in swinging at that point.
What you choose to do is up to you but some of the quite personal comments are appalling. "Child neglect"? Seriously get a grip, don't like it? Don't do it! But comments like that are disgusting! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think I need to get a grip. You are neglecting the child by not putting there health first if you swing or have sex with people other than your partner during pregnancy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All sorts of judgmental coming out in the open community of swinging as per usual!
I love the fact many of you assume you can only get an Sti from a swinging partner and not your actual partner (all of whom are always totally faithful all the time obviously)
I'm assuming also that you all when pregnant also drive within the Speed limit, don't drink or smoke or any other high risk activity. "
I'm sorry, but whislt i think each to their own and all that, i just have to point out a glaring error in your post! When you say that a pregnant lass can catch a sti from her partner if HE is cheating, SHE would catch it unknowingly. I just don't see them as the same situation! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All sorts of judgmental coming out in the open community of swinging as per usual!
I love the fact many of you assume you can only get an Sti from a swinging partner and not your actual partner (all of whom are always totally faithful all the time obviously)
I'm assuming also that you all when pregnant also drive within the Speed limit, don't drink or smoke or any other high risk activity. "
Totally true. Hit the nail on the head. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think I need to get a grip. You are neglecting the child by not putting there health first if you swing or have sex with people other than your partner during pregnancy"
Or leading up to pregnancy or when you're trying to get pregnant or when you might be pregnant. Or when you have a child and you contract hepatitis or HIV through swinging. And so and and so forth. It's perhaps foolish but neglect is a criminal offence so be careful with choice of words |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think I need to get a grip. You are neglecting the child by not putting there health first if you swing or have sex with people other than your partner during pregnancy
Or leading up to pregnancy or when you're trying to get pregnant or when you might be pregnant. Or when you have a child and you contract hepatitis or HIV through swinging. And so and and so forth. It's perhaps foolish but neglect is a criminal offence so be careful with choice of words"
Yes of course if your trying to get pregnant or suspect you are pregnant it is the same as being pregnant in this context. I chose my words carefully because Thats what it is neglect (failing to care for properly) by putting them at unnecessary risk |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't agree with your concept of neglect. Using your definition, Neglect could apply to all smokers as we know that it shortens your life, if you have a child and you get cancer through your own actions would that also be neglectful (not taking care of)? It could apply to drinkers, people who don't exercise enough or eat healthily.
Indeed anyone who has become pregnant after they've been swinging but before they've had a STI and HIV test is also neglectful, which I should imagine would cover quite a few people. It's easy to take the moral height point in these discussions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't agree with your concept of neglect. Using your definition, Neglect could apply to all smokers as we know that it shortens your life, if you have a child and you get cancer through your own actions would that also be neglectful (not taking care of)? It could apply to drinkers, people who don't exercise enough or eat healthily. "
None of these have a direct threat towards the child and doesn't affect the child's health so not the same at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tell that to children who've lost a parent to these. Your sweeping statement of neglect is offensive."
Ffs honestly. Your trying to use other things to try and make swinging while pregnant acceptable. If you have took offence to anything I've said that's your problem not mine |
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"Tell that to children who've lost a parent to these. Your sweeping statement of neglect is offensive.
Ffs honestly. Your trying to use other things to try and make swinging while pregnant acceptable. If you have took offence to anything I've said that's your problem not mine"
Hear hear x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tell that to children who've lost a parent to these. Your sweeping statement of neglect is offensive.
Ffs honestly. Your trying to use other things to try and make swinging while pregnant acceptable. If you have took offence to anything I've said that's your problem not mine"
Actually no, if you read what I've said I didn't and wouldn't swing at that time, what I object to is the sanctimonious attitude people have to others behaviour without thinking about their own. To accuse people of neglecting their children is emotive and offensive.
There are all sorts of things we do which can have an impact on children some are statisically more likely to happen than harm to a foetus through swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All sorts of judgmental coming out in the open community of swinging as per usual!
I love the fact many of you assume you can only get an Sti from a swinging partner and not your actual partner (all of whom are always totally faithful all the time obviously)
I'm assuming also that you all when pregnant also drive within the Speed limit, don't drink or smoke or any other high risk activity.
I'm sorry, but whislt i think each to their own and all that, i just have to point out a glaring error in your post! When you say that a pregnant lass can catch a sti from her partner if HE is cheating, SHE would catch it unknowingly. I just don't see them as the same situation!"
Can you identify a time when someone would knowingly catch an STI? !-:
Historically people cheat, clearly no one here does because we're all as clean as the driven snow, but others do. The risk is not eliminated by being with your partner, merely reduced. Did they get checked before you were trying for a child for example? He or indeed she may have been infected prior to conception.
Please don't get confused I'm neither for nor against swinging while pregnant, I personally don't think I would want to, but that doesn't mean everyone who does is somehow less of a person than me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tell that to children who've lost a parent to these. Your sweeping statement of neglect is offensive.
Ffs honestly. Your trying to use other things to try and make swinging while pregnant acceptable. If you have took offence to anything I've said that's your problem not mine
Actually no, if you read what I've said I didn't and wouldn't swing at that time, what I object to is the sanctimonious attitude people have to others behaviour without thinking about their own. To accuse people of neglecting their children is emotive and offensive.
There are all sorts of things we do which can have an impact on children some are statisically more likely to happen than harm to a foetus through swinging. "
Yes there is other things that can harm the foetus. I've never disagreed that fact but you need to take as many precautions as possible and shagging randoms should be one of the things you withhold from. Like I have already said it is selfish to keep on swinging while pregnant for an hour worth of thrills and possibly a life time of pain. As for statistics I'd love to know where you got them from. Like I have said that is not my fault if you find that offensive. That is my opinion and as far as I remember I am allowed to have it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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10-25% of foetal deaths are caused by infections of which most are nothing to do with STI's.
A far higher percentage of foetal deaths are caused by the mother being over 35, obesity, smoking, alcohol and diabetes as well as deaths these will more often lead to low birth weight and other problems.
There is a strong correlation between socio economic status and foetal deaths globally.
So eat well, drink little, stop smoking, lose weight, have them before 35 And earn more.
I do agree that swinging is selfish when pregnant but not neglect.
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"Who would have thought a website where people meet stranges for sex would be so judgemental..."
Lol, this is the tip of the iceberg! People seem to feel their ability to judge others behaviour is factual and not opinion in the slightest. Astonishingly at the same time meeting others for "no strings attached" sex, ironic some would say  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find the fact you negative people are so two faced I don't even wanna waste my energy. A strong suggestion would be look at what u do in everyday life before casting your judgement on people and a scene you clearly have no knowledge of.
Ever heard the saying, if you have nothing good to say, don't say nothing.
Haters are pathetic and you actually use your rubbish judgement when it wasnt asked for. Yes it's a forum. How many times do you go off topic. Close ya accounts coz this life clearly isn't for you.
Grrrr rant over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who would have thought a website where people meet stranges for sex would be so judgemental...
Lol, this is the tip of the iceberg! People seem to feel their ability to judge others behaviour is factual and not opinion in the slightest. Astonishingly at the same time meeting others for "no strings attached" sex, ironic some would say "
Fact n agree strongly. |
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it's not something I would do, for many reasons...but each to there own, who am I to say someone else is wrong for doing it? it's no one else's business but there's!  |
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"Who would have thought a website where people meet stranges for sex would be so judgemental..."
Me I believe it... this is fabswingers and if you read enough threads in forums you will see that certain people think what they do is 'right' and what they dont do is 'wrong'.
Live and let live.... take what you want from life and leave the stuff you dont want for those who do !
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over a year ago
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"I don't agree with your concept of neglect. Using your definition, Neglect could apply to all smokers as we know that it shortens your life, if you have a child and you get cancer through your own actions would that also be neglectful (not taking care of)? It could apply to drinkers, people who don't exercise enough or eat healthily.
None of these have a direct threat towards the child and doesn't affect the child's health so not the same at all"
sorry but more risk from smoking or drinking than the small risk of catching something. |
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"All sorts of judgmental coming out in the open community of swinging as per usual!
I love the fact many of you assume you can only get an Sti from a swinging partner and not your actual partner (all of whom are always totally faithful all the time obviously)
I'm assuming also that you all when pregnant also drive within the Speed limit, don't drink or smoke or any other high risk activity.
I'm sorry, but whislt i think each to their own and all that, i just have to point out a glaring error in your post! When you say that a pregnant lass can catch a sti from her partner if HE is cheating, SHE would catch it unknowingly. I just don't see them as the same situation!
Can you identify a time when someone would knowingly catch an STI? !-:
Historically people cheat, clearly no one here does because we're all as clean as the driven snow, but others do. The risk is not eliminated by being with your partner, merely reduced. Did they get checked before you were trying for a child for example? He or indeed she may have been infected prior to conception.
Please don't get confused I'm neither for nor against swinging while pregnant, I personally don't think I would want to, but that doesn't mean everyone who does is somehow less of a person than me. "
What i meant was, there is a GLARING difference between a pregnant lass who MAYBE catch a sti from a 'cheating' partner, and a pregnant lass who catches a sti from having multiple partners. The lass who chose to bond with her partner is at NO fault, whereas the lass who chose multiple partners SHOULD have some blame attached! |
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over a year ago
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"all this thread shows is the divide between responsible and irresponsible parents
all this swinger/sexual liberation bullshit has nothing to do with it "
What irritates me is that everyone is so forceful of their own opinions. Yesh people, take it down a notch. |
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"I am a little over 4 months pregnant now and was wondering if most people won't fuck a pregnant woman or are we just looking in the wrong place "
love it, have done it once before, would love to try again
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"All sorts of judgmental coming out in the open community of swinging as per usual!
I love the fact many of you assume you can only get an Sti from a swinging partner and not your actual partner (all of whom are always totally faithful all the time obviously)
I'm assuming also that you all when pregnant also drive within the Speed limit, don't drink or smoke or any other high risk activity.
I'm sorry, but whislt i think each to their own and all that, i just have to point out a glaring error in your post! When you say that a pregnant lass can catch a sti from her partner if HE is cheating, SHE would catch it unknowingly. I just don't see them as the same situation!
Can you identify a time when someone would knowingly catch an STI? !-:
Historically people cheat, clearly no one here does because we're all as clean as the driven snow, but others do. The risk is not eliminated by being with your partner, merely reduced. Did they get checked before you were trying for a child for example? He or indeed she may have been infected prior to conception.
Please don't get confused I'm neither for nor against swinging while pregnant, I personally don't think I would want to, but that doesn't mean everyone who does is somehow less of a person than me.
What i meant was, there is a GLARING difference between a pregnant lass who MAYBE catch a sti from a 'cheating' partner, and a pregnant lass who catches a sti from having multiple partners. The lass who chose to bond with her partner is at NO fault, whereas the lass who chose multiple partners SHOULD have some blame attached! "
Blame? Fault? What about if they'd contracted it before she got pregnant? Or if both of them are swingers would it only be the woman's fault? |
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"All sorts of judgmental coming out in the open community of swinging as per usual!
I love the fact many of you assume you can only get an Sti from a swinging partner and not your actual partner (all of whom are always totally faithful all the time obviously)
I'm assuming also that you all when pregnant also drive within the Speed limit, don't drink or smoke or any other high risk activity.
I'm sorry, but whislt i think each to their own and all that, i just have to point out a glaring error in your post! When you say that a pregnant lass can catch a sti from her partner if HE is cheating, SHE would catch it unknowingly. I just don't see them as the same situation!
Can you identify a time when someone would knowingly catch an STI? !-:
Historically people cheat, clearly no one here does because we're all as clean as the driven snow, but others do. The risk is not eliminated by being with your partner, merely reduced. Did they get checked before you were trying for a child for example? He or indeed she may have been infected prior to conception.
Please don't get confused I'm neither for nor against swinging while pregnant, I personally don't think I would want to, but that doesn't mean everyone who does is somehow less of a person than me.
What i meant was, there is a GLARING difference between a pregnant lass who MAYBE catch a sti from a 'cheating' partner, and a pregnant lass who catches a sti from having multiple partners. The lass who chose to bond with her partner is at NO fault, whereas the lass who chose multiple partners SHOULD have some blame attached!
Blame? Fault? What about if they'd contracted it before she got pregnant? Or if both of them are swingers would it only be the woman's fault? "
Lol. But thats not what we're talking about and you know it! We are talking about gals that CHOOSE to have multiple partners during pregnancy and MAYBE putting their unborn child in harms way! NOT whether they have a sti BEFORE the pregnancy!!
Does it help you if i say, The gals that choose NOT to have multiple partners, but just choose to bond with their partner, (whether hes a cheating sod or not), stand a FAR BETTER chance of NOT contracting a sti?? |
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