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What's actually classed as big?!?!
Im a 16 all rounder tho 16 is loose, 34dd boobs. I don't c me as big, but again a lady at my size a few inch shorter might c herself as that.
I guess big is only what's in your eyes, but I just wondered if actually there was a size that represented this on males and females? |
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I think its in the eye of the beholder personally.
I have relatives who are all on the larger side and they see themselves as average because their whole family is a similar size and I have relatives who are on teh smaller side who also see themselves as average. So everyone will have a different idea I think. |
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"I think its in the eye of the beholder personally.
I have relatives who are all on the larger side and they see themselves as average because their whole family is a similar size and I have relatives who are on teh smaller side who also see themselves as average. So everyone will have a different idea I think."
I think that too just wondered if there was a sort of unwritten rule that I didn't know. I've put myself as curvy just wondered if it was "right".... |
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Wouldnt it be easier for women to put their actual size on the profile instead of this "fabulous,BBW,curvy" ? some women class themselves as slim when they clearly arent.
That way most people would have a better idea as to how small or big that person is and yes i know that different shops have slight differences when sizing dresses etc but they arent that far out on the whole if you buy a dress in a size 10 in Jane Norman you are not gonna be a size 18 in Primarni !
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"Wouldnt it be easier for women to put their actual size on the profile instead of this "fabulous,BBW,curvy" ? some women class themselves as slim when they clearly arent.
That way most people would have a better idea as to how small or big that person is and yes i know that different shops have slight differences when sizing dresses etc but they arent that far out on the whole if you buy a dress in a size 10 in Jane Norman you are not gonna be a size 18 in Primarni !
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I see your point but that's a bad analogy coz primark sizes are absolutely shocking!! Lol xx |
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I wouldn't dream of asking a man his waist size... But men on here expect boob and dress size...
I just ignore.... On the grounds that we aren't going clothes shopping...  |
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"I wouldn't dream of asking a man his waist size... But men on here expect boob and dress size...
I just ignore.... On the grounds that we aren't going clothes shopping... "
Most men don't know their waist size! Their other halves do their shopping for them.  |
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Putting dress sizes isn't much good either because a size 12 on a 6ft woman looks a lot different to a size 12 on a 5 ft woman. The system we have now is fine I think as long as pictures are recent . |
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"Putting dress sizes isn't much good either because a size 12 on a 6ft woman looks a lot different to a size 12 on a 5 ft woman. The system we have now is fine I think as long as pictures are recent ."
Very true  |
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"What's actually classed as big?!?!
Im a 16 all rounder tho 16 is loose, 34dd boobs. I don't c me as big, but again a lady at my size a few inch shorter might c herself as that.
I guess big is only what's in your eyes, but I just wondered if actually there was a size that represented this on males and females?"
im a size 16 and I's say im fat
size is subjectional tho, ask 10 people what size a BBW is and you'll get several different replies because the size it starts at will depends on their taste in womenm |
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"Wouldnt it be easier for women to put their actual size on the profile instead of this "fabulous,BBW,curvy" ? some women class themselves as slim when they clearly arent.
That way most people would have a better idea as to how small or big that person is and yes i know that different shops have slight differences when sizing dresses etc but they arent that far out on the whole if you buy a dress in a size 10 in Jane Norman you are not gonna be a size 18 in Primarni !
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I just said the same thing in the other post I am 5"10 and a 14/16 I don't think I look enormous I would still like to lose a few pounds but I have a friend of a friend who is 5"0 and the same 16 who looks totally different but thinks because we are the same size she isn't big!! I would never be horrible but we are totally different shapes!! That said if you are happy then it's no ones business but your own!! |
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if you think your curvy ... put curvy too many ladies on here over do the im fat thing . i can appreciate that they dont want to be let down by horrible guys who then say theyre too big .. but curvy is a nicer way to say on the ample side ... lets face it most guys are no oil paintings with fit bodies either but we all find playmates and fbs to suit us x |
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If they had the option pear shape id put that down.
As someone already said different height, different shapes.
Back to the original question, there isn't a set size for a BBW. |
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I'd hate to put my dress size on my profile :-/ like others have said, people are different shapes and carry weight differently. I am 6ft tall so I generally look in proportion, yes definitely big but I don't waddle and and too tall to be spherical lol. I get approached sometimes by people who I think might be put off by my size, I have point blank refused to meet a guy who I was convinced I would be too big for based on what he said on his profile. Shame as he was lush but I wouldn't be able to relax, I'd think he was looking at me and thinking 'oh my god what have I done?!'.
I have a no flattering angles, lumpy bits included more or less full body shot in my friends only pics and I reckon if that doesn't scare them off it'll be ok  |
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I see my self as average, a bit if a podgy belly but not a beer belly. I consider big to be 16 plus, some people hold there size well and others not so well. Both my ex wife and her sister were of a similar weight and size, 18-20, but my ex sister in law was shorter than my ex and didnt carry it as well as my ex did. So it does depend on height how well it's carried but as stated before I prefer women on the bigger size with curves and places to put my hands  |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"I am 5 2. I am size 12 and have bmi of 27
So I'm overweight "
BMI is nonsense - I'm 5ft 4 and have a BMI of 28 - which is upper end of overweight. Even my nurse says its nonsense. I'm a size 10/12 but count my body size as average because I have a podgy tummy and am not perfect. |
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"I am 5 2. I am size 12 and have bmi of 27
So I'm overweight
BMI is nonsense - I'm 5ft 4 and have a BMI of 28 - which is upper end of overweight. Even my nurse says its nonsense. I'm a size 10/12 but count my body size as average because I have a podgy tummy and am not perfect."
Lol BMI is the bullshit measurement index..... It allows doctors to say your fat when your not. I'm 5' 5" have a 36 inch waist weigh 13 1/2 stone and have a BMI OF 30.... According to my doc I'm morbidly obese.... Go figure |
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