What are your opinions on them?! I would not date someone 10+ years younger than me, but is it OK to play with someone quite a bit younger? Lowest I've gone is 10 years younger. Not sure whether I'd go younger than that. Do you subscribe to the healthy rule of half your age, plus 7 as the minimum age, even if it is just playing and not a relationship? |
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Is it different rules for just playing? I guess I am wondering if it is ok to just have fun with someone who is much younger/older when I wouldn't have considered a relationship with a big age gap. Am I being hypocritical. Or should I chill the f**k out 🤣 |
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I don’t have _any_ issues with age gaps. If someone is an adult then I am fine with it and I don’t see why people should judge at all.
That said, I prefer women in their 40s and onwards but that’s only because I think they are in their sexual prime - they are more comfortable with what they want and don’t mind asking for it. |
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By *end1Man 4 weeks ago
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Met a 27 year old woman who was 8 months pregnant last Christmas from fab. Also have 2 children from relationships both 20+ years younger than myself. Had a couple more one night stands with younger women with a good 25 years younger. |
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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I have no issues with age as long as they are over 18 then ok, my girlfriend on the other hand won't play with anyone under 40 there is a 20 year gap between us. |
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I don't understand why age gaps are such a contentious and much discussed issue on Fab
I am in one, with a considerable gap
We are both adults
It's healthy
It's open
It just works
The only people that seem bothered by it are onlookers who, to be frank, it has absolutely nothing to do with |
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By *eyeYCouple 4 weeks ago
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Attraction is attraction for us, D is 10 years older than I and initially it was a little bit of a concern.
But as you can guess 5 years later it is not.
Play wise we'd prefer 30ish upwards, but have had a lot of fun with younger and they/we have no problem with it..
All about the person 😘 |
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Tbh I don’t look at age -so long as they legal of course lol ! If I like look/sound of them and they happy with me I am good. Afterall I am not having a relationship with them and vice versa of course. It’s purely sex -is that harsh ?
Em x |
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Personally absolutely no problem with big age gaps, good love is good love. However where I do have concern is when one is very young, especially say 18-early 20s. Take a 20 year age gap for example. I see a huge difference between a practically adolescent 18 year old dating a fully mature 38 year old than a 38 year old dating a 58 year old. The gap is the same in years but difference is massive. So I definitely see something often problematic and predatory about mature adults chasing barely legal almost adolescents. Because there's a real unevenness in the power dynamic and the brain doesn't really mature till around the mid 20s.
I say all the above with the following caveat. Although I believe in most cases an age gap couple with one very young is iffy and exploitative I'm also happy to concede on occasion some are good and healthy. I'd never want to stand in the way of something good. However life experience has taught me the majority of times it's not healthy and often exploitative and predatory of that person's youth and lack of life experience.
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"Personally absolutely no problem with big age gaps, good love is good love. However where I do have concern is when one is very young, especially say 18-early 20s. Take a 20 year age gap for example. I see a huge difference between a practically adolescent 18 year old dating a fully mature 38 year old than a 38 year old dating a 58 year old. The gap is the same in years but difference is massive. So I definitely see something often problematic and predatory about mature adults chasing barely legal almost adolescents. Because there's a real unevenness in the power dynamic and the brain doesn't really mature till around the mid 20s.
I say all the above with the following caveat. Although I believe in most cases an age gap couple with one very young is iffy and exploitative I'm also happy to concede on occasion some are good and healthy. I'd never want to stand in the way of something good. However life experience has taught me the majority of times it's not healthy and often exploitative and predatory of that person's youth and lack of life experience.
Mr"
Really agree with this. |
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