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"Is it me or is it impossible for a newish single male to get a meet on here. How do you get a verification if no one will meeting you if you don’t have one 🤪"
You can always get a verification via cam. But the odds are stacked against you. That’s for sure. Just don’t expect too much and don’t expect anything NOW!
Take your time, be patient and you’ll be fine, I’m sure |
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"I’m not sure who you are trying to attract with your photos but it isn’t single ladies. Maybe look at some other profile for ideas "
Agreed.
I don't want to see multiple cock pics and I certainly am not interested in seeing women on a single guys profile
I don't know what you expected from fab but you clearly have your harem so where is your issue
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"Ok you are entitled to your opinion but I’m. Here to meet people and have fun shaming me because I have met woman isn’t cool. Have you only ever slept with one person?!?! "
I don’t think one person on this thread has shamed you but given you lots of positive useful advise.
Don’t get yourself cancelled in the forums otherwise your chances will drop further. Take the advice on board. Use it. Don’t waste it. |
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"Ok you are entitled to your opinion but I’m. Here to meet people and have fun shaming me because I have met woman isn’t cool. Have you only ever slept with one person?!?! "
No one has said that. What people have said is, using photos of your past partners won’t help you in terms of attracting meets on fab.
Women don’t look at action shots and think, I wish that was me - I’ll message so it can be. |
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"Ok you are entitled to your opinion but I’m. Here to meet people and have fun shaming me because I have met woman isn’t cool. Have you only ever slept with one person?!?! "
No one is shaming you
Don’t ask for advice if the answers are t what you want to here
A lot of people will stay away from singles showing others because you’ll never prove if they have consented for their photos to be used on here. |
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"I took it the wrong way apologies I’m try to learn here and get conflicting information so it’s all appreciated "
A key thing to understand about fab is there are numerous ways to use it. You need to figure out what you want and do what best fits what you’re looking for.
Many people, including lots of forum users, are looking to develop friendships and won’t appreciate the action shots, dick pics and messages/profile text that show all you’re after is quick gratification that focuses on your needs.
Others prefer that approach, just want quick hook ups and are only interested in what your dick looks like and how quickly you can get over - you may find they’re more interested in their pleasure than yours.
There’s a million variations in between, so advice may seem conflicting as people will speak from their preferences - although there will be common themes, especially on the forums.
Advice - be clear on what you want. Write a profile that fits the approach you prefer and seek compatibility with likeminded people whose wants match yours. |
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"Ok you are entitled to your opinion but I’m. Here to meet people and have fun shaming me because I have met woman isn’t cool. Have you only ever slept with one person?!?! "
No one is shaming you 
What we are saying is your profile is your shop window
The photos are meant to draw your audience in
Multiple cock shots
Or ones including your other meets don't really do that for the majority of people on fab
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"I took it the wrong way apologies I’m try to learn here and get conflicting information so it’s all appreciated
A key thing to understand about fab is there are numerous ways to use it. You need to figure out what you want and do what best fits what you’re looking for.
Many people, including lots of forum users, are looking to develop friendships and won’t appreciate the action shots, dick pics and messages/profile text that show all you’re after is quick gratification that focuses on your needs.
Others prefer that approach, just want quick hook ups and are only interested in what your dick looks like and how quickly you can get over - you may find they’re more interested in their pleasure than yours.
There’s a million variations in between, so advice may seem conflicting as people will speak from their preferences - although there will be common themes, especially on the forums.
Advice - be clear on what you want. Write a profile that fits the approach you prefer and seek compatibility with likeminded people whose wants match yours. "
Way too sensible a response for Fab 🤣 |
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As above:
- add photos that give more of an idea of you, your style, your personality.
- add as much detail as you like to your profile about what you want in a meet. You’ll never be right for everyone so give a steer on what’s right for you
- just accept it’s a numbers game. My guess would be that this site (and all others like it) are 80% single blokes. Manage your expectations accordingly… |
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You are wasting your time pal. Fab is mostly time waster, fatasist and people wanting their ego boosted.
I woukd recommend leaving fab and just go along to your local club. |
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50% of your profile text is quasi legal mumbo jumbo that means absolutely nothing , and is recognised as a sign of someone that doesn't know what they are doing. Maybe start with changing that.
Then I would suggest, the same as others have, that you change the focus of your photos. Very few women want to see a wall of cock pics, even fewer want to see action shots from your previous conquests, which the person involved may not even be aware has been uploaded to the Internet. It starts to make people think that you cannot be discreet.
Another tip I would give is that you need to remain calm and see advice (that you asked for) as exactly that, advice. It is not an attack, but you counter attacking will make many people judge you far quicker than what you know. After all, this thread will be read by more people than will ever reply to it.
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"I took it the wrong way apologies I’m try to learn here and get conflicting information so it’s all appreciated
A key thing to understand about fab is there are numerous ways to use it. You need to figure out what you want and do what best fits what you’re looking for.
Many people, including lots of forum users, are looking to develop friendships and won’t appreciate the action shots, dick pics and messages/profile text that show all you’re after is quick gratification that focuses on your needs.
Others prefer that approach, just want quick hook ups and are only interested in what your dick looks like and how quickly you can get over - you may find they’re more interested in their pleasure than yours.
There’s a million variations in between, so advice may seem conflicting as people will speak from their preferences - although there will be common themes, especially on the forums.
Advice - be clear on what you want. Write a profile that fits the approach you prefer and seek compatibility with likeminded people whose wants match yours.
Way too sensible a response for Fab 🤣"
I’ll get my coat 😂 L |
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"Any feedback on my profile would be appreciated "
Etiquette would say start your own thread.
My feedback though - more photos, one with an odd black box covering 50% of it does very little to sell you. Write more - see the various advice above. People aren’t going to message to find out about you without an initial understanding of compatibility. |
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"Any feedback on my profile would be appreciated
Etiquette would say start your own thread.
My feedback though - more photos, one with an odd black box covering 50% of it does very little to sell you. Write more - see the various advice above. People aren’t going to message to find out about you without an initial understanding of compatibility. "
I see where you're coming from but the black box is hiding what most people say they don't enjoy seeing?  |
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It’s very hard work for us single males on here because of the sheer number of us outweighing couples and females that actually seek us.
But it’s worth putting in the hard work and effort and be patient, polite and respectful. I think an awful lot of single guys join here with a sense of entitlement and expect ladies and couples to be easy and are surprised when they don’t get meets. |
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It depends what you are after, how hard tou will go for it and if you will bend your boundaries to get it.
Personally, like most, I have things I am looking for with the need for both physical and mental chemistry, it's a rare thing to find and even harder to match, patience is tour friend but not the horns. |
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"Any feedback on my profile would be appreciated
Etiquette would say start your own thread.
My feedback though - more photos, one with an odd black box covering 50% of it does very little to sell you. Write more - see the various advice above. People aren’t going to message to find out about you without an initial understanding of compatibility.
I see where you're coming from but the black box is hiding what most people say they don't enjoy seeing? "
So crop it. Or use another photo without your cock do you don’t have to cover it. And a large part of my point is that you have just one photo. |
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Yeah I've only been here for a little bit, I must admit it's a bit frustrating to get no feedback at all.
But I understand the sheer amount of messages the ladies must get, so I've learned to just use this place to try and socialise with like minded people - if something comes of it then even better! |
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"Any feedback on my profile would be appreciated
Etiquette would say start your own thread.
My feedback though - more photos, one with an odd black box covering 50% of it does very little to sell you. Write more - see the various advice above. People aren’t going to message to find out about you without an initial understanding of compatibility.
I see where you're coming from but the black box is hiding what most people say they don't enjoy seeing?
So crop it. Or use another photo without your cock do you don’t have to cover it. And a large part of my point is that you have just one photo. "
It's a good pic lol, I also have 6 more |
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"Any feedback on my profile would be appreciated
Etiquette would say start your own thread.
My feedback though - more photos, one with an odd black box covering 50% of it does very little to sell you. Write more - see the various advice above. People aren’t going to message to find out about you without an initial understanding of compatibility.
I see where you're coming from but the black box is hiding what most people say they don't enjoy seeing?
So crop it. Or use another photo without your cock do you don’t have to cover it. And a large part of my point is that you have just one photo.
It's a good pic lol, I also have 6 more "
I’m confused as to your point. It feels as though I’m giving you pretty standard advice and you’re arguing with that so, good luck, as clearly you know more than I do. |
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It's also a criminal offence to publish pics without consent of the person involved , revenge porn basically . Whether it be past partners or not , I highly doubt that someone unverified on site as single and having sexually explicit pics of women on there profile is consensual. |
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"Is it me or is it impossible for a newish single male to get a meet on here. How do you get a verification if no one will meeting you if you don’t have one 🤪"
I found it easier as a single man to go to a club or party if you want to play with couples and females on here! Unless you are gym fit with a 10inc cock. That way you might get lucky? Hope it works out for you buddy but there are so many single guys on here we are 10 a Penny! And we always get a raw deal Happy fabbing  |
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"Any feedback on my profile would be appreciated
Etiquette would say start your own thread.
My feedback though - more photos, one with an odd black box covering 50% of it does very little to sell you. Write more - see the various advice above. People aren’t going to message to find out about you without an initial understanding of compatibility.
I see where you're coming from but the black box is hiding what most people say they don't enjoy seeing?
So crop it. Or use another photo without your cock do you don’t have to cover it. And a large part of my point is that you have just one photo.
It's a good pic lol, I also have 6 more "
Open your own thread. Please show respect to the OP and not hijack his. |
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