We’d love to meet more genuinely bi couples, we don’t class ourselves to be overly experienced but enjoy pushing our boundaries with the right people. The question is why do so many males find it hard to be open about being bi or curious on here? It’s just sex and fun for gods sake. We get lots of messages from guys, and couples saying they are open to bi play yet list themselves as straight. We just won’t meet these people who can’t be open and honest on their profile. It’s off putting. What’s the opinions? |
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"We’d love to meet more genuinely bi couples, we don’t class ourselves to be overly experienced but enjoy pushing our boundaries with the right people. The question is why do so many males find it hard to be open about being bi or curious on here? It’s just sex and fun for gods sake. We get lots of messages from guys, and couples saying they are open to bi play yet list themselves as straight. We just won’t meet these people who can’t be open and honest on their profile. It’s off putting. What’s the opinions? "
totally agree with you.x
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Tried this alot with ex wife, we swung for maybe 8 yrs, met a few cples then tried bi cples, over 5 yrs only met 2, and low and behold the guy wasnt bi.
But, meeting bi men on there own is another level, we had so many to choose from. Was heaven |
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By *eyeYCouple 6 weeks ago
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Frankly it seems many couples who are honest enough to be honest about the fact experience a complete tumble scenario..
Many messaged us in support of our thread 'Put off by bisexuality..' of course female bisexuality is celebrated.
It was a quite an open chat, but we're not going to adjust our stance that D's pleasure and exploration should come second to mine 😘 |
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By *WANDTGCouple 6 weeks ago
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We've also had this, then you start asking what the male half what he is into. One said , he won't kiss, won't fuck or be fucked , won't suck , I said what's that leave then , me sucking him and he doesn't mind our cocks touching if double sucked. |
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"Frankly it seems many couples who are honest enough to be honest about the fact experience a complete tumble scenario..
Many messaged us in support of our thread 'Put off by bisexuality..' of course female bisexuality is celebrated.
It was a quite an open chat, but we're not going to adjust our stance that D's pleasure and exploration should come second to mine 😘"
Absolutely.!
Damned if you do and damned if you don’t on this subject, people want honesty but afraid of the honest answer.
You’re both hot.. 😉
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By *eyeYCouple 6 weeks ago
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"Frankly it seems many couples who are honest enough to be honest about the fact experience a complete tumble scenario..
Many messaged us in support of our thread 'Put off by bisexuality..' of course female bisexuality is celebrated.
It was a quite an open chat, but we're not going to adjust our stance that D's pleasure and exploration should come second to mine 😘
Absolutely.!
Damned if you do and damned if you don’t on this subject, people want honesty but afraid of the honest answer.
You’re both hot.. 😉
X"
'Blushing' that thread was refreshingly open from both 'sides of the coin' and tried to keep it from becoming a slanging match..
Respect should prevail regardless of preference we feel..
Requesting you guys as friends as we frankly love your attitude regardless of anything else! 👊😘 X |
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When I first came on here I had myself as straight but through time and being open to trying things I'm bicurious on here, edging to bi.
Since changing it I have had less success on here, that could be coincidental with the sands of time. |
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A few genuine guys may be in my camp.
No experience with a guy, not attracted to guys, but want to explore sexually and the nerves ambiguity that goes with that. A couple makes it easier to explore vs deep dive.
So not bi curious yet wish to explore.
Also socially it’s still very significantly looked down upon a guy being open sexually vs women. Just see the number of couples/women’s profile that explicitly say no bi guys.
Just my opinion. I can imagine a fair few twats pretending to meet the female like most things ruin it for everyone else |
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By *eyeYCouple 6 weeks ago
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"A few genuine guys may be in my camp.
No experience with a guy, not attracted to guys, but want to explore sexually and the nerves ambiguity that goes with that. A couple makes it easier to explore vs deep dive.
So not bi curious yet wish to explore.
Also socially it’s still very significantly looked down upon a guy being open sexually vs women. Just see the number of couples/women’s profile that explicitly say no bi guys.
Just my opinion. I can imagine a fair few twats pretending to meet the female like most things ruin it for everyone else "
Confusing honestly and maybe a theme, but your profile says straight and your only verification is from a guy.
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It's not just men who lie op, I'm half a Couple and straight.
We've spoken to couples where she's listed as straight, say they're fine for partner swap only. Then they try to ask if I'll kiss the lady or play with her.
I don't know why they waste our time as I am straight,rather than fab straight.
I've seen many men say they write straight as it puts some ladies and couples off meeting them, if they are honest.
Plus it seems more acceptable and indeed encouraged for women to explore their bi sides.
Mainly because do many men want to see two women together, although lots of women are very bi I add.
If someone lies about how they play, then I'd wonder what else they lie about too though. |
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Just to add, I've seen a fair few people on threads like this, who don't see themselves as bi, as they don't fancy the same gender or have relationships with them.
Even if they regularly play with people of the same sex. |
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Thanks for all the replies, we’ve read all of them. I think it all boils down to the guys and couples being true on their profiles and the fact that more guys should just say bi or curious as will make it more accepted. We find it strange that it’s widely accepted for females but seemingly frowned upon for a guy to say the same. It’s just sex! This does not mean a guy is gay (absolutely nothing wrong with that either obviously) but just be open to that side of things when on your profile when looking to meeting another couple who have the same or similar outlook. 
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Agree totally. Honesty is key for us on here however we do understand that there may be occasions where things are going well in a meet, everyone is getting along and then it may feel like boundaries may be pushed. Nothing wrong with that as there is some kind of communication before going ahead with what they think is okay x
Thanks for your message by the way x |
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"A few genuine guys may be in my camp.
No experience with a guy, not attracted to guys, but want to explore sexually and the nerves ambiguity that goes with that. A couple makes it easier to explore vs deep dive.
So not bi curious yet wish to explore.
Also socially it’s still very significantly looked down upon a guy being open sexually vs women. Just see the number of couples/women’s profile that explicitly say no bi guys.
Just my opinion. I can imagine a fair few twats pretending to meet the female like most things ruin it for everyone else
Confusing honestly and maybe a theme, but your profile says straight and your only verification is from a guy.
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I have it as straight for the reasons I explained already… also if you read the verification it was a massage and nothing sexual… so? |
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"We’d love to meet more genuinely bi couples, we don’t class ourselves to be overly experienced but enjoy pushing our boundaries with the right people. The question is why do so many males find it hard to be open about being bi or curious on here? It’s just sex and fun for gods sake. We get lots of messages from guys, and couples saying they are open to bi play yet list themselves as straight. We just won’t meet these people who can’t be open and honest on their profile. It’s off putting. What’s the opinions? "
No, we're exactly the same. We simply don't and won't meet anyone that's listed as straight. |
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We're both bi, but the "curious" part packed its bags and left ages ago.
We’ve heard all the usual comments before, but let’s add this: being bi actually enhances our relationship. Meanwhile, some single guys seem convinced my gorgeous lady is somehow missing out on a "real man"—which is hilarious, considering she doesn’t even like most men. Lucky for me, I’m one of the few exceptions.
Then there are the couples and singles who act like meeting us might give their man a case of the gay. As if we’re out here breaking boundaries like a pair of bi-chaotic supervillains.
But honestly? The best people we meet—again and again—are the ones who are just as delightfully kinky and bi as we are. And we absolutely adore them.
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We're both bi, but the "curious" part packed its bags and left ages ago.
We’ve heard all the usual comments before, but let’s add this: being bi actually enhances our relationship. Meanwhile, some single guys seem convinced my gorgeous lady is somehow missing out on a "real man"—which is hilarious, considering she doesn’t even like most men. Lucky for me, I’m one of the few exceptions.
Then there are the couples and singles who act like meeting us might give their man a case of the gay. As if we’re out here breaking boundaries like a pair of bi-chaotic supervillains.
But honestly? The best people we meet—again and again—are the ones who are just as delightfully kinky and bi as we are. And we absolutely adore them.
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I’m still curious purely because I haven’t managed to find the right couple to explore this with yet and I’m being picky about that side of things but I’m amazed (however, not surprised) that you have experienced such homophobia surrounding bi play. |
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By *eyeYCouple 5 weeks ago
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We're both bi, but the "curious" part packed its bags and left ages ago.
We’ve heard all the usual comments before, but let’s add this: being bi actually enhances our relationship. Meanwhile, some single guys seem convinced my gorgeous lady is somehow missing out on a "real man"—which is hilarious, considering she doesn’t even like most men. Lucky for me, I’m one of the few exceptions.
Then there are the couples and singles who act like meeting us might give their man a case of the gay. As if we’re out here breaking boundaries like a pair of bi-chaotic supervillains.
But honestly? The best people we meet—again and again—are the ones who are just as delightfully kinky and bi as we are. And we absolutely adore them.
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That!! 🙌 Brilliantly put x |
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It’s to make themselves more appealing to those who don’t meet bi guys, also sometimes pretend to be bi to get with the woman, hoping it wouldn’t matter when it comes down to it.
We can’t wait to meet a genuine full bi couple |
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We play straight and bi (N is bi playful) but we don’t really engage with anyone who has straight on their profile. We would rather people were open. All of this only works if you’re open, honest and truthful. If they’re lying about that then we can’t trust them.
C x |
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