Few swinger friends of mine that live far and wide are organising a get together and thinking of holding it at abfabs.
I've never been to a club before and tbh the thought never really appealed to me but seeing as there will be a fair few there I know I'm considering taking the plunge... (Babysitter/money/transport allowing)
What's it like there?? It's not one where you have to be naked is it?? Ill be a nervous wreck, I've been to private parties before but nothing like this x |
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By *exxxesCouple
over a year ago
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Good club!!
Just imagine a big one storey house, which is exactly what it is. Lots of rooms though and rather creatively the walkway out to the stable block is all enclosed so you dont really have to go outside (but it can be chillier hehe).
Stable block itself has a few rooms etc bout is fashoned more as a dungeon. There are cabin rooms and hotubs but we've not tested those yet, and a swimming pool (linked off walkway).
Good vibe inside, large communial room for chatting and relaxing just like any other club really. Everyone tends to dress up and it certainly isn't a club you see naked folk walking around, we'd say that is kept to play areas / rooms.
By the way, its BYOB which you label and pop in the fridges yourself, the soft drinks are all on tap FOC. |
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If all your group are coupled or single fems go on a Saturday night, if there are single males, Friday night.
Monday, Wednesday and Friday daytimes it is naturist and early evening clothing optional.
It's large and spread out with a range of room types and facilities. Since your planning a social the house will be a good place to meet and have fun |
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Good club, especially for a first visit. Busier on Sat and more relaxed we find, Fri if you want single guys, but its horses for courses. 
Wear what you like and makes 'you' feel sexy, best party clothes, bedroom wear, fetish, whatever, as long as it makes you feel good, that’s the important bit.
If you are going with friends you will be a safe as you want to be and are bound to have a lot of fun.
There’s a great hot pool, Jacuzzis, private and voyeur rooms, and a lot of interesting stuff in the stables if that takes you fancy.
Have a good time and good luck.
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It's great far more chiled than you would imagine. And if you're going with a group it'll be amazing for just the facilities alone. It's a classier club than some and people dress up and then it's the appeal of what's beneath. We go on Saturdays as its cpls and fems. The pool, the swing, the dark room ... God I miss the place
Well worth the travel
If you need a lift from kent and fancy hooking up let us know xx |
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"It's great far more chiled than you would imagine. And if you're going with a group it'll be amazing for just the facilities alone. It's a classier club than some and people dress up and then it's the appeal of what's beneath. We go on Saturdays as its cpls and fems. The pool, the swing, the dark room ... God I miss the place
Well worth the travel
If you need a lift from kent and fancy hooking up let us know xx "
I think they are looking on going in June sometime ill find out. That would be brilliant! Thank you x |
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"ive just posted about abfabs in the other forum. going on friday for my first event. shall let you know how it goes. bit nervous at the moment :/"
Ooh really?? Yeah please do. If you like it maybe you could come again when I go! Meet you there for a natter x |
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"ive just posted about abfabs in the other forum. going on friday for my first event. shall let you know how it goes. bit nervous at the moment :/
Ooh really?? Yeah please do. If you like it maybe you could come again when I go! Meet you there for a natter x "
that sounds like a plan let me know date asap so i can work it around my rota
and yea...hope i fit in and feel sexy. if i dont then we wont be staying long. |
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"ive just posted about abfabs in the other forum. going on friday for my first event. shall let you know how it goes. bit nervous at the moment :/
Ooh really?? Yeah please do. If you like it maybe you could come again when I go! Meet you there for a natter x
that sounds like a plan let me know date asap so i can work it around my rota
and yea...hope i fit in and feel sexy. if i dont then we wont be staying long. "
As soon as my mates who are organising it decide ill PM you x |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
It's a very comfy, but large club. Private and public play areas and lots of places to just socialise too.
You'll need to join so check out the web-site about that.
I always feel very safe there as the whole set up is well handled. People not behaving well are discreetly escorted out. If you don't like the vibe from people in one area it's big enough to go elsewhere.
The only issue can be that single men rarely turn up with condoms.
Finally, the car park could do with some work and I find it difficult to walk in my heels from the car park to the front door. I take my flatties and change in reception.
Have fun and maybe see you there when you go. |
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"It's a very comfy, but large club. Private and public play areas and lots of places to just socialise too.
You'll need to join so check out the web-site about that.
I always feel very safe there as the whole set up is well handled. People not behaving well are discreetly escorted out. If you don't like the vibe from people in one area it's big enough to go elsewhere.
The only issue can be that single men rarely turn up with condoms.
Finally, the car park could do with some work and I find it difficult to walk in my heels from the car park to the front door. I take my flatties and change in reception.
Have fun and maybe see you there when you go."
what do people wear in the hot tubs? i dont want to get naked but a bit of lace should make me feel comfortable. so if i had a lace chemise/underwear kinda thing for the pool and hot tubs would that look odd? do people take stockings off for the water? |
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It is a great club, classy venue, dress to impress, lovely hot pool. I've always had a great time there and I haven't found people pushy.
I haven't been recently, it's well over a year since I've been but Ive enjoyed every time. It is a naturist spa I'm the daytimes but on swinging nights everyone is dressed, women in dresses or lingerie if they wish and guys smart wear, no tshirts or trainers etc |
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"It's a very comfy, but large club. Private and public play areas and lots of places to just socialise too.
You'll need to join so check out the web-site about that.
I always feel very safe there as the whole set up is well handled. People not behaving well are discreetly escorted out. If you don't like the vibe from people in one area it's big enough to go elsewhere.
The only issue can be that single men rarely turn up with condoms.
Finally, the car park could do with some work and I find it difficult to walk in my heels from the car park to the front door. I take my flatties and change in reception.
Have fun and maybe see you there when you go."
When I know when it is ill let you know so I can keep an eye out. Would be nice to meet some forumites x. |
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Our favourite club. Fantastic facilities, scrupulously clean, great atmosphere and first rate staff make this a brilliant club for first timers or seasoned swingers alike.
Like others have said, you can dress up in your sexy finest but there's no pressure whatsoever to play. You'll spend a while just exploring the place - it's pretty large.
During the day it's known as Kestrels and although that's a naturist spa, I never walk about naked (god forbid!) but opt to wear a robe or sarong instead.
I'm sure you'll absolutely love it!
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I agree with the comment about the car park ... there are a few pot-holes that could do with sorting. |
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"I wear a bikini in the pool and hot tub
i dont have a bikini body and thought a swiming costume a bit prudish so thought something lacey. "
I have to say I've never seen anyone wearing anything in the hot tubs or pool - it'd just look 'odd' to me now I've seen so many people naked in them.
Even though I have no self confidence, I wouldn't wear anything in the wet areas as I feel it would only draw MORE attention to me so I wear a robe or sarong then quickly hang it up next to the pool or hot tubs and get in asap.
To be honest, nobody bats an eyelid.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I wear a bikini in the pool and hot tub
i dont have a bikini body and thought a swiming costume a bit prudish so thought something lacey. "
Just wear what you feel comfortable wearing. The bubbles cover you and I always think a little something is more alluring than a lot of nothing. That's just me though. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Ok stupid question but I'm assuming there's a changing area? Is it like a swimming pool changing room? Are there lockers? X"
Yes. There are secure lockers in reception for AbFabs and lockable lockers in the changing area for Kestrels. There is a shower room too. The two clubs run separately and membership of one doesn't mean membership of the other. |
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"Ok stupid question but I'm assuming there's a changing area? Is it like a swimming pool changing room? Are there lockers? X
Yes. There are secure lockers in reception for AbFabs and lockable lockers in the changing area for Kestrels. There is a shower room too. The two clubs run separately and membership of one doesn't mean membership of the other."
I used the lockers in the changing room for both. The ones in the reception are small and for valuables. The ones in the changing area have towels in for use in the wet areas. |
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"Ok stupid question but I'm assuming there's a changing area? Is it like a swimming pool changing room? Are there lockers? X
Yes. There are secure lockers in reception for AbFabs and lockable lockers in the changing area for Kestrels. There is a shower room too. The two clubs run separately and membership of one doesn't mean membership of the other."
I won't be going to kestrels. I don't do naked lol x |
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"Ok stupid question but I'm assuming there's a changing area? Is it like a swimming pool changing room? Are there lockers? X
Yes. There are secure lockers in reception for AbFabs and lockable lockers in the changing area for Kestrels. There is a shower room too. The two clubs run separately and membership of one doesn't mean membership of the other.
I won't be going to kestrels. I don't do naked lol x "
Neither do I ... and at Kestrels you don't HAVE to be naked. It's naturist but I wear a sarong or robe.
Don't let the 'naturist' tag put you off - it's a great place when the weather is sunny and the roof of the pool is back and loungers on the lawn. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok stupid question but I'm assuming there's a changing area? Is it like a swimming pool changing room? Are there lockers? X
Yes. There are secure lockers in reception for AbFabs and lockable lockers in the changing area for Kestrels. There is a shower room too. The two clubs run separately and membership of one doesn't mean membership of the other.
I won't be going to kestrels. I don't do naked lol x "
I don't either - I get told off for wearing my sarong at Kestrels but only in a jokey way. |
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the changing area is for both sexes but i am sure you could go into the large shower/toilet in the house to change many big girls go there and are loved by most, |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok stupid question but I'm assuming there's a changing area? Is it like a swimming pool changing room? Are there lockers? X
Yes. There are secure lockers in reception for AbFabs and lockable lockers in the changing area for Kestrels. There is a shower room too. The two clubs run separately and membership of one doesn't mean membership of the other.
I won't be going to kestrels. I don't do naked lol x
Neither do I ... and at Kestrels you don't HAVE to be naked. It's naturist but I wear a sarong or robe.
Don't let the 'naturist' tag put you off - it's a great place when the weather is sunny and the roof of the pool is back and loungers on the lawn. "
Yay! Another one. I actually prefer Kestrels to AbFabs as it feels much more relaxed and you get the fun of outdoors too. |
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By *r OreoMan
over a year ago
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We usually so kestrels and having been to both numerous times kestrels just seems so much more relaxed and to us seems more emphasis on relaxing and chilling out.
Going again on the 8th for the first time this yr ... Hope weather works out otherwise plan b! |
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"Ok stupid question but I'm assuming there's a changing area? Is it like a swimming pool changing room? Are there lockers? X
Yes. There are secure lockers in reception for AbFabs and lockable lockers in the changing area for Kestrels. There is a shower room too. The two clubs run separately and membership of one doesn't mean
membership of the other.
I won't be going to kestrels. I don't do naked lol x
Neither do I ... and at Kestrels you don't HAVE to be naked. It's naturist but I wear a sarong or robe.
Don't let the 'naturist' tag put you off - it's a great place when the weather is sunny and the roof of the pool is back and loungers on the lawn. "
I have never been in the day and I would love it on a hot day, sunbathing on those loungers. I couldn't go
fully naked, but I could sunbathe
topless at kestrels I think. I've always wondered if my OHs cock would tan es he'd have no problem being completely naked |
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"Ok stupid question but I'm assuming there's a changing area? Is it like a swimming pool changing room? Are there lockers? X
Yes. There are secure lockers in reception for AbFabs and lockable lockers in the changing area for Kestrels. There is a shower room too. The two clubs run separately and membership of one doesn't mean
membership of the other.
I won't be going to kestrels. I don't do naked lol x
Neither do I ... and at Kestrels you don't HAVE to be naked. It's naturist but I wear a sarong or robe.
Don't let the 'naturist' tag put you off - it's a great place when the weather is sunny and the roof of the pool is back and loungers on the lawn.
I have never been in the day and I would love it on a hot day, sunbathing on those loungers. I couldn't go
fully naked, but I could sunbathe
topless at kestrels I think. I've always wondered if my OHs cock would tan es he'd have no problem being completely naked "
... only one way to find out! |
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I have to say I've never seen anyone wearing anything in the hot tubs or pool - it'd just look 'odd' to me now I've seen so many people naked in them.
Even though I have no self confidence, I wouldn't wear anything in the wet areas as I feel it would only draw MORE attention to me so I wear a robe or sarong then quickly hang it up next to the pool or hot tubs and get in asap.
To be honest, nobody bats an eyelid.
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The first time we went we were both worried about this, N especially. But the truth is there really are all shapes and sizes there, and people don't gawp.
To the OP
Do whatever makes you feel comfortable but do go. |
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