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Can or Can't Accommodate?
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Why do people put down they can accommodate when actually they can't.
I appreciate hotel meet for first time, just in case there's no connection.
But this happens time & time again.
I clearly state in my bio I can't, not that many people bother to read it.
Don't get me wrong. Fwb I've known for a while do get invited, but it's very rare I have a free house. |
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Often a partner/married. You get talking more perhaps if you can accommodate with no partner assumed. Then once in conversation you can't accommodate for various reasons which by that point seem reasonable.
I know of a married got here who successfully meets with this approach. Not actually being able to accommodate whilst saying he can has never been an issue. |
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A lot of it is to do with filters. If you’re looking for a guy most know that women will want someone who can accom so they list that they can and hope they can work around it if meets are arranged. |
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"It's the first thing I check. I don't accom. If they can't, then regular meets means that gets expensive real fast."
Exactly. I meet with the hope it will be regular, so like you say it gets expensive with hotels. Unfortunately my daughter's work from home so I've not much choice 🙄 |
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Dear OP, I have stated in my profile that I "Can Accommodate", and which I do...in hotels.
'Accommodate' doesn't necessarily mean in one's abode or living quarters.
Personally, I always accommodate in hotels. AirB&B™ is also an option or anywhere similar, but never in my house. |
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We can accommodate, profile states that.
No kids and no dramas but we may choose to meet somewhere else for the first time.
We really only let people we know in the house..
Sometimes, that can be on the first night. |
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"Why do people put down they can accommodate when actually they can't.
I appreciate hotel meet for first time, just in case there's no connection.
But this happens time & time again.
I clearly state in my bio I can't, not that many people bother to read it.
Don't get me wrong. Fwb I've known for a while do get invited, but it's very rare I have a free house."
It’s a constant thing with us we don’t do hotels and like to meet for a social first to see if there’s a connection
Fully agree don’t put can accommodate when clearly you can’t |
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"Dear OP, I have stated in my profile that I "Can Accommodate", and which I do...in hotels.
'Accommodate' doesn't necessarily mean in one's abode or living quarters.
Personally, I always accommodate in hotels. AirB&B™ is also an option or anywhere similar, but never in my house."
Perhaps you should say hotel meets we are uncomfortable with hotels I’m sure there are others who are but at the same time there are those who are happy with hotels |
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"Dear OP, I have stated in my profile that I "Can Accommodate", and which I do...in hotels.
'Accommodate' doesn't necessarily mean in one's abode or living quarters.
Personally, I always accommodate in hotels. AirB&B™ is also an option or anywhere similar, but never in my house.
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Perhaps you should say hotel meets we are uncomfortable with hotels I’m sure there are others who are but at the same time there are those who are happy with hotels "
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It's a lovely suggestion but I'm content with the status quo. 💙
It doesn't hinder my Fab journey with my current incumbent profile. |
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I can accommodate, but only within reason. I'm not going to put anyone up overnight, as night for me is for sleeping, not shagging. And that's one of the reasons I am not interested in anyone coming from miles and miles away. |
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"Sometimes it's to hide the fact that they have a partner."
Correct. So annoying we cant due to kids living with us but when single blokes say or have listed they can accommodate then Get chatting, then Claim they can’t. |
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