Does anyone have any tips? Its like were both walking on eggshells around the subject, id say she would be up for being watched for sure but does anyone have any experiemce of going from vanilla to developing into this? I know this is probably a taboo question, but where better to ask?! Tia! X |
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Always an awkward one and not everyone will be the same.
With one ex was just something that happened slow after a night out with friends she made a mention of wanting another cock in a joking way while I was fucking her. We chatted about it awkward the next day and took a slow few months before we met anyone for swinging |
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Blimey!
In a nutshell I was very lucky.
Initially with my 2nd wife, I was a bit selfish. I suggested that we go to a swinging club, Chameleons (Darlaston).
I said that I just wanted to experience the environment, but neither of us would indulge with others.
1st Visit, enjoyed the environment and spent most the evening speaking with one single gent.
2nd Visit, much the same with same single chap.
3rd Visit, much the same with same single chap. On the way home, I said to the Wife "Did you enjoy it?". She replied, "Yes it was alright and I could see his cock whilst we were chatting".
I cannot explain it to this day, but I got an immediate hard on and said to her, "Perhaps you should play with it next time".
So next visit, he massaged her.
Next visit, he massaged her and she game him a BJ.
Next visit, he gave her a massage and she sat on his cock.
He became our buddy for over a decade!
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By *AYENCouple 6 days ago
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IMO a lot depends upon what element of swinging you're looking for in the first instance. Meeting other couples or meeting single men/ladies.
It sounds like you may have already spoken about it, if the idea has been spoken about and not rejected it should be easy to expand upon.
I would say, be really patient and slowly develop the ideas and scenarios that you both like. K. |
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