I'm finding quite a lot of people lack emotional intelligence, is emotional intelligence important in a person to you? It is to me especially if I want to get to know them on a deeper level. I find it difficult to communicate with them without this. What are your thoughts? |
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Fåir måiden, there is nothing worse than making love to a good looking dullard. Emotional intelligence is a prerequisite for me. I like to delve deep beneath the veneer of someone's superficial qualities. ❣️ |
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"I'm finding quite a lot of people lack emotional intelligence, is emotional intelligence important in a person to you? It is to me especially if I want to get to know them on a deeper level. I find it difficult to communicate with them without this. What are your thoughts? "
Emotional intelligence is quite important to us for sure and a very rare thing these days. To truly 'feel' the other person and that they feel you is so important for good sex. 'Mechanical' or quickie sex is not of interest to us. One reason we prefer to build up a connection with others before becoming sexual, everything is then so much better in all ways. General intelligence, honesty and manners are important to us too, hence we rarely have meets these days. We seem so alone on here now, was much better when we first joined some ten years ago... |
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"I'm finding quite a lot of people lack emotional intelligence, is emotional intelligence important in a person to you? It is to me especially if I want to get to know them on a deeper level. I find it difficult to communicate with them without this. What are your thoughts?
Emotional intelligence is quite important to us for sure and a very rare thing these days. To truly 'feel' the other person and that they feel you is so important for good sex. 'Mechanical' or quickie sex is not of interest to us. One reason we prefer to build up a connection with others before becoming sexual, everything is then so much better in all ways. General intelligence, honesty and manners are important to us too, hence we rarely have meets these days. We seem so alone on here now, was much better when we first joined some ten years ago..."
I totally agree with what you're saying, it is so rare and yet so important. Thank you for your feedback  |
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