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By *oxy j OP   Woman 2 weeks ago

somerset

how does abuse via messages make you feel ..

had another one today someone ive never spoken to or messaged but i did get a message from them twice so abuse do you take it to heart or do you think well they showed their true colours and laugh it off

im very much the later how about you how do you handle it

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By *layfull pairingCouple 2 weeks ago

Bristol

Find it hilarious .... certainly wouldn’t take any of it to heart.... just put it all down to their jealousy and desperation...

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By *naswingdressWoman 2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

irritated. also, bullet dodged. if they can't take no for an answer online, they're not safe to be around.

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By *gstarsMan 2 weeks ago

Keighley

Horny if they are abusing and degrading my wife while we jerk.

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By *iscombobulated1523Couple 2 weeks ago

Worcestershire

We find it comical how single guys go from telling you how sexy and hot we are and how they are dying to meet us to I'll pay you money to meet you

To your fat ugly and it's a sympathy meet

We just find it really funny that they are so brave and brazen and then block you so you can't respond when they get abusive

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan 2 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Find it hilarious .... certainly wouldn’t take any of it to heart.... just put it all down to their jealousy and desperation... "

This. You will always get desperate bellends. Block, move on

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By *BWLOVER1965Man 2 weeks ago

Ipswich


"how does abuse via messages make you feel ..

had another one today someone ive never spoken to or messaged but i did get a message from them twice so abuse do you take it to heart or do you think well they showed their true colours and laugh it off

im very much the later how about you how do you handle it"

Like anytime else block report and move on don’t let it get to you I don’t would left many times over

Lucky escape I’d say Next

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By *oxy j OP   Woman 2 weeks ago

somerset


"Find it hilarious .... certainly wouldn’t take any of it to heart.... just put it all down to their jealousy and desperation...

This. You will always get desperate bellends. Block, move on"

thats not the question ..i asked how does it make you feel ?? we all know what to do well most of us do

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By *oxy j OP   Woman 2 weeks ago

somerset


"how does abuse via messages make you feel ..

had another one today someone ive never spoken to or messaged but i did get a message from them twice so abuse do you take it to heart or do you think well they showed their true colours and laugh it off

im very much the later how about you how do you handle it

Like anytime else block report and move on don’t let it get to you I don’t would left many times over

Lucky escape I’d say Next "

i asked how it makes you feel not what to do thats easy

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By *eavenscentitCouple 2 weeks ago

barnstaple


"Horny if they are abusing and degrading my wife while we jerk. "

WoW what a keeper

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By *itygamesMan 2 weeks ago

UK

it should make you feel that your better than the person sending it...

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By *oxy j OP   Woman 2 weeks ago

somerset


"We find it comical how single guys go from telling you how sexy and hot we are and how they are dying to meet us to I'll pay you money to meet you

To your fat ugly and it's a sympathy meet

We just find it really funny that they are so brave and brazen and then block you so you can't respond when they get abusive "

yep this is my take too i dont get as many now as i used too still get quite a few on the joint but we just laugh it off one min you the sexiest person alive but dont answer or say no you a fat cow and nobody wants you ... desperation it is

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By *ony MannMan 2 weeks ago

Lagos, Portugal/ Ilfracombe Devon/ Anoover

I get excited, it means I can report and block them.

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By *ifeleftMan 2 weeks ago

Lincoln

I've not yet been abused, but don't understand why anyone would do it to be honest. If someone turns you down or doesn't reply, move on. If you look at a profile or pic and the person isn't for you, move on.

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By *ucka39Man 2 weeks ago

Newcastle

I don't feel anything but I do feel extremely sorry for them if I did receive any

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By *WANDTGCouple 2 weeks ago

Borough of Greenwich

We've had a couple of younger blokes get shitty and abusive, obviously we made our feelings felt. It's not the end of the world and we try and shrug it off. Maybe a younger me would have arranged a date with them just to front them face to face, but as you get older you become wiser and calmer.

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By *adcouple777Couple 2 weeks ago

Neverland


"how does abuse via messages make you feel ..

had another one today someone ive never spoken to or messaged but i did get a message from them twice so abuse do you take it to heart or do you think well they showed their true colours and laugh it off

im very much the later how about you how do you handle it

Like anytime else block report and move on don’t let it get to you I don’t would left many times over

Lucky escape I’d say Next

i asked how it makes you feel not what to do thats easy "

Think you might be part of the problem hear to be honest xx

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By *acd03Man 2 weeks ago

Naughtyville

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By *oxy j OP   Woman 2 weeks ago

somerset


"Find it hilarious .... certainly wouldn’t take any of it to heart.... just put it all down to their jealousy and desperation... "

yep best way ...got a friend to join she had so much abuse in the first week she was going to leave however told her that if she was out for the night she would tell them to jog on and have a laugh about it and she needs to do the same here shes finding it so much better with that mindset she now only answers those shes interested in everybody else just sits there until she deletes or block ..

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By *acd03Man 2 weeks ago

Naughtyville

......or when they all of a sudden start firing abuse at you because you won't accede to them pestering/badgering you repeatedly to share your personal phone number!!!!

...........the same c^^ts not having the "precious time" to even entertain the thought of a social face-to-face meet when you are travelling in their part of the world...............and worse still, this wasn't a fake profile but an actual F and a particularly deluded one!

In one ear, out the two of them🤪

One of the more unusual fruitcakes encountered on my particular journey of ~20yrs in and out of swing scene.

In and out........hehehe, I made a funny 🤭🤪

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By *arleyQuinnandTheJokerCouple 2 weeks ago

Cumbria


"how does abuse via messages make you feel ..

had another one today someone ive never spoken to or messaged but i did get a message from them twice so abuse do you take it to heart or do you think well they showed their true colours and laugh it off

im very much the later how about you how do you handle it

Like anytime else block report and move on don’t let it get to you I don’t would left many times over

Lucky escape I’d say Next

i asked how it makes you feel not what to do thats easy

Think you might be part of the problem hear to be honest xx"

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By *otuseater11Man 2 weeks ago

kilwinning

Definitely wouldn't take it to heart.they act like silly little boys because they got told no.hit the block button and carry on

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By *tsJustKateWoman 2 weeks ago

London


"how does abuse via messages make you feel ..

had another one today someone ive never spoken to or messaged but i did get a message from them twice so abuse do you take it to heart or do you think well they showed their true colours and laugh it off

im very much the later how about you how do you handle it"

I take no notice and just block them.

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By *ecretSilverlinkMan 2 weeks ago

Manchester

Says a lot about their character & you dodged a bullet if they are abusive. Stay strong x

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By *atinaChica54Woman 2 weeks ago

Marlborough


"Find it hilarious .... certainly wouldn’t take any of it to heart.... just put it all down to their jealousy and desperation...

This. You will always get desperate bellends. Block, move on"

This⬆️

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