yes wev all been through it (time wasters)..are most folk on this site are time wasters or genuine.this is the only great free site in web land & all the folk know this and it attracts all mankind sad to say the worst kind also..maybe in too old bitter & twisted..
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"We're not ALL timewasters on here!"
Although defining 'timewaster' would be a good start. Some people join expecting others to be ready to drop anything to meet, and get disillusioned when they don't. Some people don't realise how much work it takes to arrange a successful meet (yes, even us single bi females get messed around).
But not getting a meet is hardly the same as contracting a fatal disease! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I'm a time waster of the first degree! U can tell by reading my profile that I'm out to waste as much of my time as possible on here and if u want to join me I will waste Urs too   |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"We're not ALL timewasters on here!
Although defining 'timewaster' would be a good start. Some people join expecting others to be ready to drop anything to meet, and get disillusioned when they don't. Some people don't realise how much work it takes to arrange a successful meet (yes, even us single bi females get messed around).
But not getting a meet is hardly the same as contracting a fatal disease!"
^^^This, plus the over dramatic op may explain a lot too! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It actually cost 5£ for a silver or gold site supporter set your profile to let only people registered and site supporters and enjoy the lots and lots of decent honest swingers on here. Every swingers site has as I call them wasters but there are lots and lots of great peeps on fab xxx happy swinging  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Timewaster seems to be the new catch all term for everything to do with not having a meet.
This site offers you a huge gambit of options for making sure people are real, you have photo verification, meet verifications, site supporter (oh yes spending real money), chat rooms with webcam functionality etc etc, these are all tools that you should look to use when planning any potential meet.
I can understand getting frustrated if you have done all of the above and have still been let down, but then also realising that swinging is a hobby a past time and often things will come up in life that are more important or pressing and no matter how much you would love the meet sex is quite frankly not that far up there on the importance scale.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"It actually cost 5£ for a silver or gold site supporter set your profile to let only people registered and site supporters and enjoy the lots and lots of decent honest swingers on here. Every swingers site has as I call them wasters but there are lots and lots of great peeps on fab xxx happy swinging "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
We don't have a problem with time wasters here, we check profiles see if they actually meet, we don't just look for meet local to us we are prepared to travel, we go to clubs and attend socials and to be honest we have never been let down. This site works very well if you use the tools that have been provided and you use common sense. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *b586Couple
over a year ago
pemberton twp |
Seems to me every individual uses this site to meet their needs. I spend lots of time messaging people near us who say they want to meet. Have found that the majority of couples are men with shy wives. Lol. So I guess they can only hope one day for a hook up. Dispite my willingness to send a phone number to voice verify(we don't have a cam) there are numerous couples who say they want to meet, no fem to verify with me or they are never avaiable. So... On wards I look , continue to message those we are interested in and wait in hope that one day we will meet a couple we are interested in. We choose to meet socially first and have managed two private social meets , that one we ended up playing with and the other we are still waiting for that day. Also arranged to meet four couples at a party we went to. Being our first party we were clear that we may not play as we were more interested in checking out the scene and seeing what it was all about. Doses that make us time wasters? Seems to be that phrase is over used. If people don't fit a personal criteria then they are time wasters? Like I said everyone uses the site differently. For pics, a perv, chat, friends, parties, individual meets,cams... Oh and the forumI personally don't think any of its a problem and we can all choose to participate at what ever level we are comfortable. The only waste of time to me is if a meet is planned and there is a no call no show. K |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
