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Unconfirmed meet - would you still go?!
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"I’ve arranged a meet for today, but not heard back from her since last week when I’ve asked to confirm location and if she’s still coming.
Would you still go?? "
Depends how far from my house and how inconvenient it'd be to get there, if it was in the local pub probably, worst case scenario you get a pint and no harm done |
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If it seems too good to be true , it probably is. I would want to confirm address before travelling. If it's just up the road, I'd probably go. If it's any distance or inconvenience, probably not without a confirmation message or phone call.
Ladies and sometimes couples often arrange to meet a number of people to meet with and pick one at the last minute. |
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By *_welsh OP Man 1 week ago
Speke / Chester |
We arranged a general location for the social, and a time, but when I’ve asked to confirm which coffee shop she meant, nothing back…..
it’s only 5 mins from my work so I’ll probably rock up in hope!! |
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"We arranged a general location for the social, and a time, but when I’ve asked to confirm which coffee shop she meant, nothing back…..
it’s only 5 mins from my work so I’ll probably rock up in hope!! "
Even though it’s only 5 minutes away I wouldn’t turn up. If she hasn’t messaged you since last week i would block and move on. |
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"I’ve arranged a meet for today, but not heard back from her since last week when I’ve asked to confirm location and if she’s still coming.
Would you still go?? "
It's going to be a bit difficult without a location isn't it? But absolutely, I wouldn't. |
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"Nope if there's not a plan in place the day before and you don't hear from them on the day, it's not happening."
I agree.
Also a big part of the excitment of a meet is the flirting before the actual meet. It maybe just a coffee social/no sex happening type meet but still, i'd be thinking, its not happening with no contact.
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I had that a while back. It was an hour drive to the meet. So txt just before I left, no reply. So decided to go back to work. An hour later I had txt from her saying can we meet later on. I replied yes what time. Again it took her over an hour to reply. At that point I had had enough. So many time wasters out there. |
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If it's been over a week and no confirmation I wouldn't go. I know life can get busy etc but it only takes a msg to confirm. In this case I may go for the coffee but that's just because I like coffee and nothing to do with the meet |
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We are in this very position with another couple we have been speaking to for a couple of months.
Meant to be meeting them in Saturday night in a hotel, sent them 2 messages in the last 2 weeks, one saying we were looking forward to it, and another offering our phone number for them to confirm if they are still going, we have seen they have been online but no message, so as far as we are concerned it's not happening  |
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"I’ve arranged a meet for today, but not heard back from her since last week when I’ve asked to confirm location and if she’s still coming.
Would you still go?? "
How can you still go if you don’t know the location? |
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"I’ve arranged a meet for today, but not heard back from her since last week when I’ve asked to confirm location and if she’s still coming.
Would you still go?? "
No chance. Message again and ask if she is still OK with arrangements and if u get no reply stay put. |
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I only meet locally if I'm unsure they'll turn up. If they've been offline for a few hours then I'd assume it's a no show but I've never not turned up. I don't care if they don't show. I'll have a nice coffee and some peaceful me time 😇 |
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No contact on the day would mean we aren’t going to bother.
If there is no contact on the build up to a social we wouldn’t bother.
The build up is part of the fun for us so if it’s sporadic beforehand it’s not going to improve.
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"I only meet locally if I'm unsure they'll turn up. If they've been offline for a few hours then I'd assume it's a no show but I've never not turned up. I don't care if they don't show. I'll have a nice coffee and some peaceful me time 😇"
This.
And the OP said he may not know the exact location but a coffee shop 5 mins from his work. So i'd grab a coffee and see. Its 5 mins out the way, no biggie if they dont show really.
If it were miles away i wouldnt be going |
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By *RWoodyCouple 1 week ago
Lincolnshire |
"I only meet locally if I'm unsure they'll turn up. If they've been offline for a few hours then I'd assume it's a no show but I've never not turned up. I don't care if they don't show. I'll have a nice coffee and some peaceful me time 😇
This.
And the OP said he may not know the exact location but a coffee shop 5 mins from his work. So i'd grab a coffee and see. Its 5 mins out the way, no biggie if they dont show really.
If it were miles away i wouldnt be going"
This too I think. Coffee is never a bad runner up prize if all else fails.
Hope things worked out ok OP.
J x |
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