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By (user no longer on site) OP    3 weeks ago

Well……. sounds like a lot of kinky fuckery to me - did he go over the boundaries or is it just because he’s famous ….?

The lines can be pretty faint sometimes -or do we all need ‘contracts’ either way safe words -protocols etc…..?

Discuss….

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman 3 weeks ago

Manchester

Consent can be withdrawn at any point during sex/play.

Just because you have had sex with someone before, or they are your partner, or your dominant, doesn't mean you cannot withdraw consent even in the middle of sex. You can consent to some acts, without consenting to others. Agreeing to have sex with someone doesn't give them free reign to do anything they want if you've not consented.

Seems like some of these women were employed by him, as well as being much younger, so it sounds like there's some power dynamics being abused too.

I don't know what happened as I wasn't there, but what I have read about the allegations don't sound very good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP    3 weeks ago

All good points.

The ‘Real world’ imbalance in the power rings a lot of bells doesn’t it ?

It’s always a bit sad when powerful men think that ‘the stripper really faces me….’

But then -there IS women’s agency and a woman’s right to indulge her power transfer kink - seems to me this was another iteration of the patriarchy tho -a man as intelligent as NG SHOULD have been better than letting his ego get out of control -bit sad really…..?

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