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Why it hard to find a single woman to play with couple
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've been finding it hard to find a single bi woman to join me and my hubby for fun , can anybody advise me on how to find one or if u intrested please email us. |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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You are meeting loads of couples.......... if you can't find a single bi fem, be thankful you are meeting couples....... a large percentage of them are gonna have bi females so I don't really see what you are maoning about.
And single bi females have the pick of the bunch on any swinging site.
maybe you are just not what they are looking for.
I personally don't think you have any reason to complain. |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
Cyprus |
I remember being a single bi fem on swinging sites........
I'm not joking when I say that I used to get at least 50 messages a day from couples looking for a single bi fem.
I was extremely picky about who I played with and in the 7 years of being single, I probably only played with a dozen couples of MY choosing from the sites.
And to be honest, if couples were verified by loads of couples, I would pass them by because, in MY opinion, as they were getting plenty of play, they were looking for the single bi fem for purely selfish reasons.
If a couple plays with a couple, then there is generally (I say generally) interaction for all.
I generally found when a couple brought in a single bi fem, it ended up with either the bi fem sitting there like a lemon because the bloke wasn't allowed to touch her, or the other woman got stroppy because the bloke wanted to play with both and the 'wife' wouldn't get a different cock.
Thats why I was so picky and thats why, after a few years I changed my profile to straight........
I may have just been unlucky but when looking for a single bi fem, SHE is the one who should set the rules and thats the way it should be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its simple math, a huge percentage of people on a site such as this will be male, a lesser number couples and and very few single females (and real single females even less). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes the problem is I'm not just looking for the sex side of it we like to meet and have the friendship side of it as well, and the reason is why I'm looking is I love the girl on girl and I dong mind my hubby playing in fact I would like to watch him with another woman instead of me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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SHE is the one who should set the rules and thats the way it should be 
_adchick ive met 3 cpls an 2 of them
turn out 2 be a bad experience
an up untill now i still meet 1 of
them cpl who r friends now..so now
im just abit funny about cpls now
i know ever cpl isnt the same but
after my bad experience im just
carefull now |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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"Yes the problem is I'm not just looking for the sex side of it we like to meet and have the friendship side of it as well, and the reason is why I'm looking is I love the girl on girl and I dong mind my hubby playing in fact I would like to watch him with another woman instead of me "
But surely you are getting that from the couples you have played with?
Why can't you be friends with the female from a couple........ you are meeting plenty of those (according to your verifications)? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being a single straight fem with no bi tendency, I made a decision not to play with couples, except MMs.
I do not wish to be in a situation when the fem of the couple made advances on me during play and have to back off.
If I were to play with the gent of a couple, I may as well look for single gents to play with!
It's my personal choice, and I would appreciate if peeps could respect my decision.  |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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"SHE is the one who should set the rules and thats the way it should be
_adchick ive met 3 cpls an 2 of them
turn out 2 be a bad experience
an up untill now i still meet 1 of
them cpl who r friends now..so now
im just abit funny about cpls now
i know ever cpl isnt the same but
after my bad experience im just
carefull now "
I know how you feel hun.
Couples are the worst! There's always different rules, one isn't happy, one sits their like a lemon, the bloke wants to meet you on his own.....
I know, I've been there as well.
We don't ask to meet single bi fems because we think they have enough on their plates!
Good luck to you hun. One good couple outweights all the bad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I remember being a single bi fem on swinging sites........
I'm not joking when I say that I used to get at least 50 messages a day from couples looking for a single bi fem.
I was extremely picky about who I played with and in the 7 years of being single, I probably only played with a dozen couples of MY choosing from the sites.
And to be honest, if couples were verified by loads of couples, I would pass them by because, in MY opinion, as they were getting plenty of play, they were looking for the single bi fem for purely selfish reasons.
If a couple plays with a couple, then there is generally (I say generally) interaction for all.
I generally found when a couple brought in a single bi fem, it ended up with either the bi fem sitting there like a lemon because the bloke wasn't allowed to touch her, or the other woman got stroppy because the bloke wanted to play with both and the 'wife' wouldn't get a different cock.
Thats why I was so picky and thats why, after a few years I changed my profile to straight........
I may have just been unlucky but when looking for a single bi fem, SHE is the one who should set the rules and thats the way it should be."
very wise words my freind...
i only met 2 women as a single lady and things never go as planned, in my case the guy always got overly keen...lol... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had many good experiences playing with couples, but I find if you have more than one couple at a time playing with you there isn't that 'spare part' feeling, lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being a single straight fem with no bi tendency, I made a decision not to play with couples, except MMs.
I do not wish to be in a situation when the fem of the couple made advances on me during play and have to back off.
If I were to play with the gent of a couple, I may as well look for single gents to play with!
It's my personal choice, and I would appreciate if peeps could respect my decision. "
Also being a single straight woman i cant see the point in meeting a couple, i know people have mmf with straight men and if that works for them fine, but personally i cant see the point in playing with someone im not going to play with, if that makes sence? i may as well meet two guys and play with them both lol |
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"Being a single straight fem with no bi tendency, I made a decision not to play with couples, except MMs.
I do not wish to be in a situation when the fem of the couple made advances on me during play and have to back off.
If I were to play with the gent of a couple, I may as well look for single gents to play with!
It's my personal choice, and I would appreciate if peeps could respect my decision. "
as a bi female i've played with a straight couple with no problem at all pearl...its the joy of liking both things ! if the boundaries are clear then there shouldnt be a problem and it can be great fun enjoying a guy between two women
if its not for you then its not for you, but dont make the reason a fear of being pounced on ..being bi doesnt mean we are unable of knowing how to be respectful around boundaries xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being a single straight fem with no bi tendency, I made a decision not to play with couples, except MMs.
I do not wish to be in a situation when the fem of the couple made advances on me during play and have to back off.
If I were to play with the gent of a couple, I may as well look for single gents to play with!
It's my personal choice, and I would appreciate if peeps could respect my decision.
as a bi female i've played with a straight couple with no problem at all pearl...its the joy of liking both things ! if the boundaries are clear then there shouldnt be a problem and it can be great fun enjoying a guy between two women
if its not for you then its not for you, but dont make the reason a fear of being pounced on ..being bi doesnt mean we are unable of knowing how to be respectful around boundaries xxx"
maybe not for you, but you cant speak for all bi women, ive had women try and tocuh me in the past when they have known im not bi, lots of women think the 'ask before you touch' rule dont apply to them, if it was a couple i knew very well and trusted them id be happy to play with them but lots of women do think they have the rights to touch anyone they like, cause we rule the swingers world dont we?!!! lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...maybe not for you, but you cant speak for all bi women..."
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My sentiment exactly.
I have met a number of bi-fems at socials and am very comfortable with them.
However, I cannot say that about the other bi-fems
I even had a supposingly "straight" fem wanted to "cyber" with me!  |
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"I've been finding it hard to find a single bi woman to join me and my hubby for fun , can anybody advise me on how to find one or if u intrested please email us. "
Because most of them are actually guys kidding on! |
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Having read that i am not having a go at the many lovely ladies on here
just came across a profile earlier today where someone had taken pictures straight of another site and used them as a scottish profile,
strangely the pics used were all taken in what appeared american locations. Continiouty is the key guys! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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met some marvelous single bi fems on here and honestly can say that its all about being up front, honest, having a sense of humour and above all treating people like people - that differentiates you from the other 49 messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hey im genuine lol and i play with couples too, but saying that i do agree with some of the other girls on certain points, i tend to find that the male likes to give directions and i hate flamin wannabe directors and it puts me off as i feel like a toy just for his wifes pleasure, and quiet honestly im better than a rampant rabbit so hence why i am extremely fussy about who i play with.
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"hey im genuine lol and i play with couples too, but saying that i do agree with some of the other girls on certain points, i tend to find that the male likes to give directions and i hate flamin wannabe directors and it puts me off as i feel like a toy just for his wifes pleasure, and quiet honestly im better than a rampant rabbit so hence why i am extremely fussy about who i play with.
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as i said i genuinely wasnt having a go at the real profiles on here, i wrote it and then realised it didnt read well. |
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