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It would easily be a picture of her in underwear clearly on someone else's bed after a night out.
The message would say something like 'Had a great night, everyone's gone home but I managed to pull. Do you mind?'
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Probably a huge house countryside with hot tubs outside and a classy theme nothing tacky |
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Sex - against a tree or in a classroom at 6th form
Masturbation:
D - at a house party
C - at work |
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Having a wank with a mate at a sleepover |
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We don't have many nights apart
Best night together would be boring for most but in the early days of our relationship we had random conversations with would you rather type questions that was fun xx |
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I'm in,while I'm n my lunch break |
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We once got asked to fuck without a condom |
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No, we wouldn't take 1 for the team, it's 1 of our rules |
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K = vin diesel
D = carol vordemon |
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I can’t single it down to one night there’s been a lot! One good night was when we were having a little kitchen fun and we filmed ourselves all night playing sucking and fucking. Using toys and dressing up and talking dirty all night. Just an entire evening of naughtiness on repeat |
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Well K hasn't got a cock so D will answer 🤣
Not as much as you'd expect 😁 |
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"Well K hasn't got a cock so D will answer 🤣
Not as much as you'd expect 😁"
my bad, apologies😂 |
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Not sure they're weird, attraction is subjective.
D - Ryan Reynolds, Tom Ellis
C - Pink, Dua Lipa |
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Nothing further than oral and toys, relatively inexperienced that way |
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I can occasionally be very submissive, so have been edged for a few hours and denied an orgasm
Or remotely with a toy when apart from hubby, sexting, voicenotes, pics etc and the toy being sporadically used to tease me.
That was fun/agony/frustrating/titillating all at once  |
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My Answer: I have done it in 3 countries so far. |
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About six ins soft and about 11 hard |
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I had a weird thing about Chris witty during all the Covid stuff. Not sure it’s a crush but I was a bit like awwww towards him lol 😂 |
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It was about two weeks ago. A pretty little cock, leaking precum and with his ladies cum still fresh  ,
Xx |
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This morning using the morning wood |
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Yes. I was part of a swinging couple,and was in a club. This guy was interested in my partner,and she in him,but I hated the thought as he was so arrogant to me,but really arse licky to her. |
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"Not sure they're weird, attraction is subjective.
D - Ryan Reynolds, Tom Ellis
C - Pink, Dua Lipa"
was in Oban last year, we were in a pub and it was packed listening to live music, and Mrs was sat in front of me and I was standing behind her and she reached behind her, unzipped my flies and took me right to the edge and just stopped, needless to say she was punished for being a very naughty girl  |
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I say "no thank you" in clubs to far more many people who approach me than I say yes to, including women.
I often pick up on they are looking to "perform" for the benefit of their male partner rather than being 100% into playing with ladies
In terms of being turned down myself, not that I can recall, but I approach very few people anyhow. |
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"Lorraine Kelly...  "
I can see that lol |
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Not a wrong un per se , but she can be and look quite polarising.
Christina Auguilera (or however it's actually spelt)
She looks like utter filth sometimes. And she could ruin me. Or if nothing else sing to me |
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Yes, regretfully we've both had affairs with engaged people when we were a lot younger.
D's was her neighbour, who after months of flirting and teasing finally got her way after a house party at his house. That carried on for about 6 months on and off.
C's was a woman he met on a night out and then went back to hers. Didn't know she was at the time, no ring, but found out two days later. Still carried on for 3 months.
The stupidity of youth as they might say |
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To explore more
Good oral
Probably our kinky likes - we don’t think anybody would guess |
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Missed one.
Most men in one night is 2. |
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Just now in shower on site at work n it was great |
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Still in from the previous thread |
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Turn the lights out and whatever hand or mouth goes anywhere is what you get |
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By *W_RedMan 1 week ago
Manchester |
About 1am this morning on the sofa |
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Oh go on it's a quiet afternoon
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Our biggest toy is a large Slater from Bad Dragon and it is a fucking monster (literally) |
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We have tried to meet single men on here before and have given up.
On the very odd occasion I want to involve one it's much easier by far to go to a club. |
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Due to the age difference we were mates first and didn't expect to fall for each other. Eventually the sexual stuff filtered in and about a year and a half after meeting we slowly started doing things. She was not as experienced as me and gushed a lot, especially during oral. I would have to wash my hair and beard a lot |
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Our most common quickie is often a bit of oral both ways and then her getting fucked from behind. |
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thankyou
people must get intimidated which is a shamr but im just a normal fun guy |
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Prefer MMF to MFF (but it's close). My oral game is strong enough to satisfy both women but it's easier not to be the only cock on offer. |
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I love a proper sex swing, my favourite being at a club where it has a mirror over it, so not only can I get into fantastic positions, I get a good view of being fucked. I always find that a great turn on.  |
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We haven't done a club yet but would love to be watched. Eventually I would love for my partner and I to be pleasing a cock each and watching each other. |
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My first ever experience of ass play. Woman was sucking the back of my balls and pulling me off before slipping here tongue into my ass. I think it was how unexpected it was. |
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Most of my fantasies are about things we cannot do together straightaway so they involve my bi side or her having a new experience I cannot provide solo. I've had plenty of experiences with women so I don't have many things on my to do list there that I can't do with K. I'd obviously help another couple with something they want but it's not a major drive for me. |
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Good question.
She would probably just dress as herself in a social because it's important for her to get to know people before she plays.
Saying that I do want to experiment with her wearing more revealing clothing when we are away from people who know us. I think she would enjoy people checking her out in the summer. |
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I originally joined Fab because I like talking about sex. The first meet was almost coincidental because I didn't think anyone would be interested in me. Then I got into fulfilling wishlists and it kept going. We started a couple account here far later. |
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I'm not a fan of receiving a strap on, but I am a fan of giving. I enjoy the power dynamic. |
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Taken a while to reply.. apologies.
Id say it was at center parcs i was on a spa day and met someone randomly who was there foe the week. We hit it off sstraight away talking flirting flashing. Had a play in 3 or 4 of the rooms and water beds when it was quie. thought that was the end and after changing she was waiting outside and took me back to her cabin for the night. |
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In! I have a spare 30 minutes lol |
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quite a lot but ended up with her getting a lovely facial |
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Changes all the time ,but
Maggie O'Neil
Jodie Marsh
Kate Beckinsale |
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Cyprus. We have a place there and love the weather, people and scenery.
Venice- nothing positive to say about it whatsoever. |
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As single item - 1300
A single shopping trip- embarrassing
Total value of lingerie and shoes just for sex, that i don't wear for anything else- obscene |
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As a solo. Not prepared to say.
As a adult, around 16.  |
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Favourite, Western Canada especially Vancouver Island
Never go back, Prague, just ruined by stag dos |
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By *heerFlirtMan 1 week ago
Quite near Bath usually |
I'll slip in for a little bit of fun |
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Penny Mordant
It would give her something different to moan about |
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My favourite is a brand new set that's being saved for Sunday. So you maybe can next week. & thank you. Xx |
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Saw a documentary during lockdown down about liberty elite. So thought post COVID why not give it a go.
Plus I was fully bisexual in my younger years, swapping between men and women.
Decided I missed women now I'm older and hubby was supportive of me rekindling that element. |
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At the moment, my remote egg. Can be very entertaining on a night out. The look on ppls faces when you hand them the remote. |
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So my tractor I currently drive is 500horse power and the tyres are taller than me so pretty big |
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Was when we first started, our 2nd club visit. Mentioned it had never happened before and suddenly lips were locked before we could even say anything!! |
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Our bride and groom Friday the 13th sugar skulls as we got married on a Friday the 13th |
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On a balcony overlooked by other apartments |
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By *heerFlirtMan 1 week ago
Quite near Bath usually |
Most definitely ... knickers!! |
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F , 19 when I was at college. & 54 oldest.
M , 17 I think. Was a long time ago. & hubby. He's 57. Lol. |
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I prefer younger to me, not older. |
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Have to say an unexpected threesome with a lady |
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There is a place foe both, but i enjoy sex “dressed up”
I do it mainly for me; it makes me feel confident, I can hide/accentuate the bits about my body i dislike and like, and in a club i enjoy the validation of admiring glances and compliments. |
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Defo lingerie on … then as sex progresses it comes off but having sex with a women whose panties are pulled to one side is one of my favourite feelings |
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There isn't a set thing I look for as my meets have all varied in looks and build; I have a preference for dark hair and if they have good thighs and lips that is a (huge) bonus. Personality, how they communicate and arousing my mind are the most important factors however - that’s what keeps my attention 😁 |
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Changes depending on how feel but would probably say my boobs 😁 |
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Lockdown was just so long ago and how things change 🤣 |
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On my fantasy list is a bi MMF/clean up guy … one day! |
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By *heerFlirtMan 1 week ago
Quite near Bath usually |
I would say...apart from making lots of friends here 
Physically... my first (and only) meet with a 'hotwife'... from the moment she opened the door we were both at ease and enjoyed a very frisky Friday morning! |
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Agggh, I’ve had a few … but I’d say a chap I’d met a few times visited me at my workplace when I was there alone. Lots happened - it’s too long a story to go into all the details but it always brings a HUGE smile to my face when I think about it. |
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With a lot of communication, setting boundaries and sticking to them! |
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biggest fantasy that I've not been able to do yet....
I'd like to be taken home by my boss and for him and his wife to use me lol. |
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Im in if anyone wants to ask away |
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I've had to, as part of my sub role, swallow whenever I've been told to during a session and to clean up afterwards. |
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First visit wasn't anything special. We were both so nervous and felt out of our depths! |
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At a guestimate, 8 different clubs, 45 visits, there or there abouts |
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I have a book of them there’s been that many but I’ll go with …
“I want to fuck your arse then shit down your throat”
No hello, how are you, had a nice day or anything 😂😂😂 |
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Me and hubby, plus 12. All in one room. I only played with hubby, cant swear to the dynamics of everyone else. But it was a coulples event.
Spent the majority of the time on a bed in the middle of the room with most others watching.
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6 clubs by reckoning,and probably well over a 100 times. Most of which at my favourite club,OP4F. |
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Wide so I can feel it. Clean, preferably shaved or trimmed. Length I'm not bothered but girth is a definite |
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Just a few 3somes
Nothing more... yet
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I haven’t no but it is in my fantasy list … ideally about 5+ |
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I open up really quickly with lube. When a full fist is inside I just feel outside my body. I don't move. It feels divine, painful and like sheer bliss all rolled into one. |
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Id like to try a group meet / club
And just have fun and explore what I like and what I don't |
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Mr - BJ, anal and mffff
(Anna Kendrick, Isla Fisher, Rachel McAdams, Margot Robbie)
Mrs - lick out, spitroast, group orgy
(Couldn't say who!) |
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Some good. Some bad. You do tend to forget the bad ones tho. Looking forward to many more this year. |
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If I could get away with it, sex in a hot air balloon. |
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With Jeremy Clarkson and Trevor McDonald? |
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I’d choose option 2 - Use your favourite toy/fingers and enjoy the show
If they were really hot then maybe I will moan loudly and if it garners their attention then option 3 can come into action too 😁 |
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Sorry missed this one.
People who try to convince me to bend my rules “just for them”; I made them for a reason |
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I’d go out and watch discretely. Possibly make a noise and see if they continued; then take it from there |
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2, Watch listen and play, but try and let them watch me, Giving them the option if they wanted to take it further |
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Alley way down the side of a pub with a doorman. Not my proudest moment. |
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Oooooooo ok I’ll give this a go….
I’m in x |
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I literally have no answer… I’m so open with friends that they know everything lol x
What a boring (but honest) response! X |
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Absolutely not!! Before becoming a swinger I was very naive. That soon changed!
In those early days I could never imagine my gallery would look the way it does now |
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Been a while since getting involved on the forums, count me in lol |
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Next changing room is one that comes to mind x |
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