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Am I Bi-Curious or Bi-Sexual?
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I don’t have any desire to play solo with other guys, but if there’s both a guy and girl and me, then I’d be up for sucking a guy off if I’m horny enough, and he has decent looking cock. I’d also be curious to suck a trans female I found attractive |
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As a guy that gets 100% where your coming from and plays the same I'd say bi-curious.
I would never have the desire to kiss a guy in the moment or otherwise and I don't see guys and think oooof. So I'd say I'm bicurious.
But that's just my point of view.
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As a rule of thumb you are bi- curious if as it suggests you're still at the curious stage. Bi-sexual if you have actually taken it further and actually done some form of sexual activity with another guy even if it was playing as a mmf threesome. |
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"As a guy that gets 100% where your coming from and plays the same I'd say bi-curious.
I would never have the desire to kiss a guy in the moment or otherwise and I don't see guys and think oooof. So I'd say I'm bicurious.
But that's just my point of view.
J "
Thanks man. I guess it’s very nuanced and there’s no correct definition. It comes down to each individual.
It’s just if I set my profile to bi curious, then some guys might think I’d be tempted by them, and if I put bi sexual, then some guys would assume I enjoy being with guys (which they’re well within their right to think - but isn’t the case).
But then MF couples looking for a bi-sexual male might be put off by me being only ‘bi-curious’, but in that context (with a guy and girl) I’m more bi-sexual if that makes sense. So confusing  |
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You are what you are... it's nobody else's job to define you and what they think of you us none of your business.
Pick a label, or don't. If anyone disagrees then that's their opinion. And like all opinions, they're just like penises.
It's 9kay to have them
It's okay to be proud of them
But when you wave it around and try to stick it down my throat, that's when we're gonna have a problem
Just because some people are so weak and fragile they need you to fit in a box they define doesn't mean you have to massage their ego.
IMHO... |
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There can be boundaries to your sexuality… I would class myself as sexually bi but romantically hetero.
Mr is orally bi. But only in group situations if the mood takes him.
Labels are subjective! You can choose for yourself! |
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At the end of the day if your messaging someone that's interested your likely to cover limits and likes beforehand so you can discuss that stuff further regardless of whether your profile says bicurious or bisexual. We all like different things and all have our own icks regardless of the label.
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To be honest...does it matter ? If you like it do it.
If you're not sure then satisfy your curiosity one way or the other. It's your mind body and soul and your free to be whoever and what you want to be my friend.
Don't let a label be a controlling fac5orif that's your concern.
Go with your feelings and desires..... no-one here will judge you for it.  |
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Bi curious is definitely someone curious to explore…
Similar quandaries - not attracted by a male, or turned on by male anatomy. But kinky and curious to explore with a male. But wouldn’t be comfortable or horny enough to meet 121 but mmf seems intriguing…
Het exible is what seems similar to those situations |
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For a bi couple point of view. We would say you’re bi sexual.
But you will put off your target audience by listing straight. We wouldn’t find you in a search when looking for a bi guy. And if you messaged aging in bi but don’t want to put women off or that putting bi means you get harassed then we wouldn’t see you as genuine. It’s very easy to put bi and block guys from messaging you. |
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"You're bi curious up to the the point you do it for the 1st time. If you try it a 2nd time you can (in my opinion) consider yourself bisexual."
This implies people who’ve never had sex do not have a sexual orientation, which is false. Orientation is who you are attracted to, not whether you have done the act. |
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