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By *aughty50sCouple 4 weeks ago
Yorkshire - but we travel a lot |
"That seems a turn on to a lot of people?"
I think the OP's question is getting misread a bit. One thing that both of us dislike *that seems a turn on to a lot of people*, is use of the word 'slut'. Just our opinion of course.
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By *T_111Man 4 weeks ago
Windsor |
- D/s dynamics that involve BDSM
- Cringey dress up roleplay
- Men in lingerie. Just no.
However I am partial to the following less popular turn-ons
- hairy armpits on women
- sports / active wear
- don't mind feet (if well looked after)
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Negativity in a profile or on statuses specifically slagging people for not wanting to meet.
Name and shame walls. Always just makes me think people are going to be indiscreet about meets and it makes the discloser look worse than anyone who's done the standing up who's being named.
Photos of people with cigarettes hanging out of mouths- never looks sexy, always looks a bit grimey to me. Another one is yellow finger due to smoking.
Blank profiles asking for any pics especially face pics but then stating they can't offer back anything because of discretion.
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Guys being overly aggressive about wanting you, what they’re gonna do to you and what they’re gonna make you do.
Er, I think not.
Doesn’t actually make me feel overly desired, makes me feel used, like any holes a good hole as long as they get their kicks |
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Rimming, the thought really turns me off, either way.
Ass to mouth or mixing from one hole to another.
Being “made” to squirt.
I’m another one against big beards, sorry. I like a short beard or designer stubble style but I just don’t fancy bushy or long beards.
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By *essaMayWoman 4 weeks ago
Fairytale Wood |
There is a whole host of things, such as certain words I find very derogatory
Selfies in bathrooms, holding phone in mirror. Etc etc.
But people who try and convince you something they are not. The harder try and convince you, the less likely they are who or what they say they are. Quickest turn off for me
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"That seems a turn on to a lot of people?
I just don't get the feet thing. I don't like even looking at feet, let alone in a sexual way"
Snap!
I do not like feet full stop - it's almost like a borderline phobia. Doing something like sharing a bath or shower is tolerable as feet are not really what you're looking at. But...close-up feet pictures, people wearing open-toed sandals or footwear whilst otherwise fully clothed...that sort of thing just makes me want to heave in a big way. |
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Mess in back ground (esp kids toys! Or dirt)
Hit you with a copy paste message or a whole long scenario of what they want.
I like dirty talk but some words are a no.
Arrogance.
Lack of hygiene.
Bullshitters. |
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"Having my nipples touched, the feeling makes
Me gag
You may wish to think about changing your username buddy 😂"
If my name was “lick my nips” then I’d agree but personally don’t think licking/touching my nips has anything to do with my username |
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"Having my nipples touched, the feeling makes
Me gag
You may wish to think about changing your username buddy 😂
If my name was “lick my nips” then I’d agree but personally don’t think licking/touching my nips has anything to do with my username "
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"I think a lot of posters are missing the OP's original point - i.e. what turns you off that seems to turn other people on. "
I think this has been one of the most misunderstood posts ever
Maybe it is something to do with the wording... could the question have been phrased with more clarity?
What turns ons turn you off?
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what are some turn ons that you dont understand?
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if you could yuck someones yum... what would you choose?
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Impatience, beards, photos taken in untidy rooms, tiny cocks, guys telling me they will ruin me (yeah right lol) and long detailed descriptions of what they want to do with me. There's others but these are enough. |
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By *rKC92Man 4 weeks ago
St Helens |
Using "willy" to describe a cock/dick which comes across as far too childish for me. If I watched porn and the woman said "That's such a big willy" I think my dick would retreat up inside me from sheer disgust.
Monosyllabic/poorly spelled messages despite demanding "a true connection", if you want a connection the conversation has to be a back and forth, it's exhausting when you get a limited reply and then see a status about how nobody can carry on with them! |
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Excessive tattoos as in on the face same with piercings.
The ones in the ears that are the size of a plate. Eyebrow rings too.
Behavioural, a reply with ??? because I haven't replied quickly enough to their message.
People who demand to go on telegram etc after only two messages.
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OP I'm personally with you on the feet thing but I've got stuff I absolutely love that I know a significant number of others HATE.
Having come of age when hair was the norm, I'm generally a fan of a tidy but plushly covered mons and can find absolutely bare pubic area on both men and women off-putting at times.
Chillgirl is a fan of the mustache...lol...I think she's weird for that.
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Another for feet. I'm an ex professional ballerina, have broken toes and other feet more often that I care to count and as a result have feet that would shame the gruffalo.
I never have them out. Shoes or stockings/socks always in clubs etc. |
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"That seems a turn on to a lot of people?
I think the OP's question is getting misread a bit. One thing that both of us dislike *that seems a turn on to a lot of people*, is use of the word 'slut'. Just our opinion of course.
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Agree on that. A lot of messages suggest guys think M is a good slut, whatever they think that means.
It always gets a short response from me, maybe because Ms ex once messaged us in a similar vein. |
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"That seems a turn on to a lot of people?
I just don't get the feet thing. I don't like even looking at feet, let alone in a sexual way"
Women sticking their bottoms out to the camera. Even worse when they pull their cheeks apart. |
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