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By *host63Man 4 weeks ago
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If you are a single man, unless you are meeting someone there or going with a female friend I honestly wouldn't bother.
You will be charged a small fortune to join in the first place You then will have to pay double the price entry fee.
And you will spend the rest of the night being ignored or brushed off if you attempt to make conversation.
M |
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"If you are a single man, unless you are meeting someone there or going with a female friend I honestly wouldn't bother.
You will be charged a small fortune to join in the first place You then will have to pay double the price entry fee.
And you will spend the rest of the night being ignored or brushed off if you attempt to make conversation.
M"
I have to disagree with this;
Male memberships are slightly higher than for couples and Females; but there are a few clubs that don't require a membership (The Attic in Derby is one). Entry fees are again slightly higher for males, but not double.
As for clubs, I have never had a problem with finding people to chat to, and I have had great nights in clubs where I didn't play. The key is be youself and not talk solely about sex/swinging etc.
As for clubs close by; you may have to travel to find a club you feel at home in. If that means trying lots of clubs all over, then treat each trip as a little adventure and set yourself a goal to make a new friend at each club.The fact you have travelled a distance to try a new club is a nice little opening talking point
Now go have an adventure |
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Agree with most of what the Doctor says, Attic was going to be my recommendation too.
My only hesitation in agreeing wholeheartedly is the chat stuff, whilst it’s not good only to talk about sex/swinging try and stay away from more boring subjects, I’ve heard men droning on about the oil change they’d just done in their motor, bit off putting when I was trying to discipline M.  |
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By *uckfunCouple 4 weeks ago
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We do find that a lot of single men in clubs can be a total pain in the arse. We’ve been to a couple of clubs in London where every time we or any couple stood up, to go to the bar, the toilet or a wander round, up they all jump and start to follow you until they realise what you are actually doing. You try to have a bit of fun and the moment you start you get a gaggle around you ‘hi would you like some company/an extra hand’ etc, real mood killers.
We went to a fantastic club in Rotterdam where ‘couples night’ actually meant couples night and the ‘select single men’ were working as club staff who would join in if invited rather than as many single mean who would pay the hugely inflated entry price as they could get through the door.
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Decent clubs are generally quite well policed. Chameleons (Darlaston) is pretty good, lots of singles but they are generally polite, friendly and do not hassle.
If by some chance some do, just tell them to refrain and if that doesn't work - inform the management who will take action if justified. |
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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"If you are a single man, unless you are meeting someone there or going with a female friend I honestly wouldn't bother.
You will be charged a small fortune to join in the first place You then will have to pay double the price entry fee.
And you will spend the rest of the night being ignored or brushed off if you attempt to make conversation.
M"
Not my experience.
Sure, it's more expensive but £59 entry us hardly a fortune. And once there I had lots of friendly conversations.
I think the experience you get out is dependant on the attitude and expectation you go in with. If you act entitled tgen you'll be disappointed. If you're humble and friendly with no expectations of sex then you'll have a good night and start some connections that may eventually lead to some fun. |
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"Agree with most of what the Doctor says, Attic was going to be my recommendation too.
My only hesitation in agreeing wholeheartedly is the chat stuff, whilst it’s not good only to talk about sex/swinging try and stay away from more boring subjects, I’ve heard men droning on about the oil change they’d just done in their motor, bit off putting when I was trying to discipline M. "
I had some talk about golf when I was in the dungeon with my partner. Another one was on and on about places he's been on holidays to when me and my partner were trying to get to "down and dirty" on the bed in the open area at another club. Neither were talking to us, but it's distracting enough, just hearing it in the background. |
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Sadly, OP, there are no swingers clubs in Oxfordshire, as far as I'm aware. Your nearest one would probably be Penthouse Playrooms in Dunstable, or maybe even Chams/Xtasia in Birmingham area (Darlaston and West Bromwich respectively). |
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"Sadly, OP, there are no swingers clubs in Oxfordshire, as far as I'm aware. Your nearest one would probably be Penthouse Playrooms in Dunstable, or maybe even Chams/Xtasia in Birmingham area (Darlaston and West Bromwich respectively). "
Abfabs near Heathrow (or whatever it is called now) |
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"Sadly, OP, there are no swingers clubs in Oxfordshire, as far as I'm aware. Your nearest one would probably be Penthouse Playrooms in Dunstable, or maybe even Chams/Xtasia in Birmingham area (Darlaston and West Bromwich respectively).
Abfabs near Heathrow (or whatever it is called now)"
That's true, might be nearer than Birmingham. I think it's called "Ignite" now. |
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"I have been few times there but only Sunday's I don't know how it is Friday or Saturday "
Saturdays, they are only open in the evening. Fridays, they are open both day time and evening, with a break in between. Can't comment on how busy they are (that's assuming you're talking about Kestrels/Ignite). |
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"I have been few times there but only Sunday's I don't know how it is Friday or Saturday "
I've been on a Friday and had a nice evening. The lounge and wet areas are great for relaxing and socialising. Give it a go |
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