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When did you first realize you were kinky?
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Definitely we both realised we were not your usual attitudes to sex when we were younger. But only began acting out on our kinks later in life as we realised we were missing out and normal attitudes suck.
Mr was swinging before we got together and Mrs joined in the lifestyle as soon as we got together. Not looked back since, although we are not prolific |
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By *eyeYCouple 9 weeks ago
Nr Leicester |
Don't think there was a 'lightbulb' moment.
I'd always felt that sex should be a little more exciting than I'd experienced and then I met D!! Christ I was right!! 🤣😈
However he says he felt similar, but he'd never been with someone who both enjoyed and encouraged his deviant side or at least he felt secure in sharing it with.. x |
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In my younger years although back then I was more or less having same old run of the mill boring sex always knew I wanted more excitement but being younger and lacked the confidence to say to what I wanted , split with the boyfriend back then and had a MMF after a night out and loved it ,I loved the power I had in it and the way the guys responded to it. To this day it's been the only time I have participated in it, had a few FFM though but only one MMF . I realised pretty quickly vanilla wasn't for me but never got into "swinging" until I was 30 , was a guy I had a mutual arrangement with who suggested it would be a good fit for me and I've never looked back . |
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By (user no longer on site) 9 weeks ago
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When I was late teenager early 20s girl in village that had slept half lads in village . How much liked her saying what she been upto then fucking her.
Same as once working away from home got told stay away from a girl as known as local bike !!! I was straight there
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By *apio51Man 9 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
I don’t know. I thought I had some kinks but when I tried them I found I didn’t really enjoy them.
I have some that I’ve tried and do like, but o can’t put my finger on when.
I think they originate from watching porn, which I no longer do to the same extent, so I guess my late twenties.
I like the connection of minds (hence the profile name). Is that a kink? I have a couple of others but I’m not really that wild tbh. |
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When I realised one day that every time I was masturbating it was about different guys forcing me to do all kinds of debauched things.
Some things will always stay fantasy… but it did prompt a convo with Hubby about letting other men into our sex life  |
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In my mid 20s. I'd been with my girlfriend a few years and the sex was good and frequent. I gave her feet a good lick on regular occasions and never thought it kinky or a fetish. It was my growing desire to ask her to knee or squeeze my balls that made me think.
Didn't ask her as thought she would find it odd.
Eventually sought the services of a pro domme and never looked back. |
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Mrs here
Probably about age 19
I’ve always engaged in super uber fun sex but didn’t play around with kink until about age 30.
Then met mr and it’s rocked right off the charts since then so the last 6.5 years had been raucous! And v liberating |
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When I was about 14 I watched a documentary about BDSM on channel 4 one evening and was shocked but it also kinda intrigued. That curiosity never left me over the years, it just took me a good while to try exploring any of it. |
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