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Hey,
So, we are experimenting by the Mrs meeting a guy for regular and potentially long term fun as part of a hotwife / cuckold dynamic. We have had one off or the odd repeat meet previously but keen to try this progression as the psychological arousal for us is so intense!
Love to hear from people who have tried similar: experiences, what you enjoyed and how far it developed. |
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I did this with a coupe for many years. Was so good we have so much fun together and the more we got to know each other the better it got. I know there are a lot ot time wasters and chancers but keep trying and its so worth it
Good luck |
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We understand how meeting a regular is good from a familiarity perspective and getting to know likes / dislikes. What else do couples like from this dynamic? For us, the potential for the Mrs to regularly really enjoy another cock and start to want it more, even the possibility of over night stays etc is really driving the intensity. |
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I have met and been friends for a long time with couples I have met . Then you move and start again. Now living in Spain and have found a lovely couple. Hope this lasts as long as the rest. Trust is a big one but also to get on socially as well. |
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"Good luck with it, it seems almost impossible. Too many chances and fakes and the odd ones that seem good live miles away  "
From the other side of the fence (so to speak!), I totally get the frustration.
For me it's the ideal scenario, and from the two times I've had this previously, you certainly, IMHO, get a ton more out of it, when you know, like and really trust those involved.
I too find that seemingly compatible people are often miles away or, certainly for me, are also often seeking someone younger.  |
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we find long term much better, get to know someone. depends what you want some women just want a crude fuck and some want loving sex all different, and all people different we got lucky but mant havent xxxx |
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"Hey,
So, we are experimenting by the Mrs meeting a guy for regular and potentially long term fun as part of a hotwife / cuckold dynamic. We have had one off or the odd repeat meet previously but keen to try this progression as the psychological arousal for us is so intense!
Love to hear from people who have tried similar: experiences, what you enjoyed and how far it developed. "
It is possible just finding said right person, the Mrs has done this twice. One lad for about 2 years,then another for nearly 5 |
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"Hey,
So, we are experimenting by the Mrs meeting a guy for regular and potentially long term fun as part of a hotwife / cuckold dynamic. We have had one off or the odd repeat meet previously but keen to try this progression as the psychological arousal for us is so intense!
Love to hear from people who have tried similar: experiences, what you enjoyed and how far it developed. "
Whoever gets the job is one hell of a lucky guy. Mrs Hotwife is gorgeous |
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I met a couple for 14 years. We had some great fun together and were all honest about what we wanted out of the relationship. He wanted to watch his wife have sex and he encouraged me to call at their home whenever I wanted to. Only came to an end when they moved away. Good times. |
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We find a long time bull the best way and become closer and lot more intimate.
Lucy had her last one few years back, it lasted 5 years and he lot older and it developed in such away that valentines was there special night and they meet lot of evenings and Lucy would go stay at his for weekends and go out in public and they went on holidays together and he fuck her in front of me. It was best for all of us as Lucy really really liked him |
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"Good luck with it, it seems almost impossible. Too many chances and fakes and the odd ones that seem good live miles away "
There’s plenty of us good guys on here but it’s like the January sales, you have to rummage through the crap to get to the treasure  |
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"Many potential bulls either seem like they are in such a rush and/or lose interest very quickly. Hardly the right basis for a longer term dynamic."
For me its the opposite cpls are in rush and i like to take things slow..
They seems to not like it after all |
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The longest bull/cuck relationship I had was 6 months. It was great. Long term is far better. You can really push how far you want to take it with the cuck (within their boundaries) I ended up locking the cuck in chastity and he would pay for me and his Mrs to go away for weekends etc. |
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Were fairly new to the scene(2yrs) and started our journey with the thought that one off meets were the way forward, we was wrong as meeting up with regulars is far more interesting for various reasons, eg, you can explore more, be more comfortable in certain scenarios. Expanding your boundaries is the best thing ever  |
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By (user no longer on site) 4 weeks ago
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Well, I have to say beware , I was a cuck to my ex-wife for 8yrs unfortunately for me, she fell in love with an older dom bull we met on fab she now lives with him and I'm alone, pitfalls of swinging I suppose , but it was amazing while it lasted |
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About 15 years ago I met a couple fairly regularly for about three years, he mainly watched but also sometimes acted as a fluffer it was horny and we met once every few months.
My ex also had a boyfriend whom she met about once a week for the best part of two years; it was very horny and we both loved it…
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By *ansduoCouple 4 weeks ago
Glasgow |
"Well, I have to say beware , I was a cuck to my ex-wife for 8yrs unfortunately for me, she fell in love with an older dom bull we met on fab she now lives with him and I'm alone, pitfalls of swinging I suppose , but it was amazing while it lasted "
I think that is always a possibility. Perhaps some cucks fantasise about that. |
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We found ourselves evolving into this exact same situation over the last 3 years. Started off just another fab meet where Helen would meet up with guy alone for social dinner and drinks then if all went well would bring him back to ours where all 3 could have fun. Could tell from the start they hit it off as usually was just an hour or so she was away then she would be bringing him home. This time though she was away almost 4 hours and I’d been receiving texts from her saying they had dinner and were just chatting over drinks in few different bars. Eventually when she got home there was a lot more kissing and touching between her and him than the usual just sex. Over the next few months we had all met up a good few times and had even been for a night on the town together. Now 3 years on it’s almost fully developed into a 3 way relationship. She will go to his overnight alone, nights out either just them or all 3, I’ve even had a night out with the lads and he’s came along as me and him have become good mates. All 3 of us make sure there’s a good mix of shared time together and time for each guy separately with her. Even 3 years on it’s all still great for us all and as long as everyone communicates and sticks to the rules there’s no reason why it can’t continue another 3 |
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"Over the years I have been a regular for two couples and definitely much more fun.
But very hard to find especially on here. "
Totally agree ive been involved with 2 hotwives,1 I still see,love it |
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From a bulls point of view it’s a much more rewarding experience to be intimate, and I can say it’s been a pleasure being a FWB rather than a stunt cock. And eventually there can be trust to play anyway that they want also when a connection is formed. It definitely takes a lot of effort also but so so worth it. It opens up a lot of possibilities is the upside.. while making sure that you have ground rules also. |
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Was involved with a cuckhold couple for 6 months and was the best thing ever. Enjoyed our random meets and then videos and messages between us. Would definitely encourage more couples and guys to try it |
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I've only ever had one partner up for anything like this. She doesn't fully cuckold me, but I've had her meet her fuck buddy and not tell me about it. Then when I next see her she will tell me to turn me on. Occasionally had times her fuck buddy was either just about to leave or just left as I turn up. And she's in a bath robe, slutty lingerie on. Pussy used and dripping. I love that. |
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Rubbish. My first lover was with me 28 years. He got married in that time. And still kept seeing me my new fwb lives 4 houses away and it's secret but good. I've only ever had 6 men in my life. But they tend to stay. Well hubby has since we were 16 lol. So it does workxxxxx |
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We always had extra men for me in our life.
We started swinging as I was 19 and after lots of fun and enjoyment we got chatting to much older couple in a club and she said her husband not her only guy and explained it and I wanted that so next night in club it was main thing to find me a lover and found a married man in club on his own and sex was good and he was mid 50s and went on from there for 16 years but he and wife moved abroad. Me and him did loads together like holidays. Since I had men fucking me as hot wife |
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By *olfie26Man 4 weeks ago
Brierley Hill |
I met a cuck couple several years back via Craigslist. Saw them for about Three and a half years. All three of us built a good relationship and had some wonderful fun. Ended when their daughter moved back in.
Would love to find another couple but it's hard to find a suitable local couple. |
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I’m on fab to find a regular fwb or two. Having an arrangement with a hotwife would be perfect for me. I can host, drive, work shifts so daytime meets are possible. Finding people interested that are near me is the issue… |
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By *andydan69Man 2 weeks ago
south west nr you mmm |
Had a year n a half regular arrangement with a married couple had to sign ✍️ a gag agreement (she didn’t lol loved gagging ) as he was in the public eye he was a cuck he paid for weekends away weeks away etc nights out etc etc amazing times |
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"Had a year n a half regular arrangement with a married couple had to sign ✍️ a gag agreement (she didn’t lol loved gagging ) as he was in the public eye he was a cuck he paid for weekends away weeks away etc nights out etc etc amazing times "
That’s hot |
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It must be such a rush for a bull in a long term cuck relationships. Each time fucking the wife and knowing she's getting what cuck can't deliver, that feeling of been the one satisfying her everytime and the cuck just left to watch and be thankful to the bull his wife is getting what she deserves. |
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By *oxy jWoman 2 weeks ago
somerset |
i have 3 regular guys 2 very long term one 30 years one 25 years and one now coming up to 5 years they are very hard to find as most guys just dont understand the cuckold relationship bearing in mind those 3 are over the span of 30 years+++ ...
guys think they want regular but they really dont or they lie saying they want regular just to get a shag also ''regular'' is different for all on top of the real lifestyle or roleplay fantasy ..
i cant say this enough avoid bulls yep ill say it again avoid bull as 99% are just wannabe porn stars and guys to far into porn and ill go another step further avoid those who say the have experience with cuckold couples because what they know will not apply to you and again they lie... the best regulars are guys wgo just naturally mould into your 3rd guy i just call them boyfriends ..
then all the emotional pitfalls from that 3rd guy that you dont want or planned for real yukky stuff
regular has to match physical and sexual attraction needed and understanding of your relationship and emotions again some want very little some want full on and some in the middle.
its not easy to find a regular not easy at all no mater what lifestyle / kink i know a few younger couples getting deflated over it but you cant let it beat you just enjoy the fun and one or two will be found eventually ..
guys need to stop with the porn obsessed minds cuckold is about the mental relationship not just the sex |
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"i have 3 regular guys 2 very long term one 30 years one 25 years and one now coming up to 5 years they are very hard to find as most guys just dont understand the cuckold relationship bearing in mind those 3 are over the span of 30 years+++ ...
guys think they want regular but they really dont or they lie saying they want regular just to get a shag also ''regular'' is different for all on top of the real lifestyle or roleplay fantasy ..
i cant say this enough avoid bulls yep ill say it again avoid bull as 99% are just wannabe porn stars and guys to far into porn and ill go another step further avoid those who say the have experience with cuckold couples because what they know will not apply to you and again they lie... the best regulars are guys wgo just naturally mould into your 3rd guy i just call them boyfriends ..
then all the emotional pitfalls from that 3rd guy that you dont want or planned for real yukky stuff
regular has to match physical and sexual attraction needed and understanding of your relationship and emotions again some want very little some want full on and some in the middle.
its not easy to find a regular not easy at all no mater what lifestyle / kink i know a few younger couples getting deflated over it but you cant let it beat you just enjoy the fun and one or two will be found eventually ..
guys need to stop with the porn obsessed minds cuckold is about the mental relationship not just the sex"
Fully agree and every dynamic is and should be different.
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Queen had about 4 guys last year, they were all VWE, but no connection, then one day on a random club night we met a guy ended up chatting, didn’t play but arranged a meeting for private oh man he put me(cuck) my place and took the queen for him self I can say the best thing happened to us on the journey, while I’m writing this my cage on they both fucking on our bed lol, |
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"i have 3 regular guys 2 very long term one 30 years one 25 years and one now coming up to 5 years they are very hard to find as most guys just dont understand the cuckold relationship bearing in mind those 3 are over the span of 30 years+++ ...
guys think they want regular but they really dont or they lie saying they want regular just to get a shag also ''regular'' is different for all on top of the real lifestyle or roleplay fantasy ..
i cant say this enough avoid bulls yep ill say it again avoid bull as 99% are just wannabe porn stars and guys to far into porn and ill go another step further avoid those who say the have experience with cuckold couples because what they know will not apply to you and again they lie... the best regulars are guys wgo just naturally mould into your 3rd guy i just call them boyfriends ..
then all the emotional pitfalls from that 3rd guy that you dont want or planned for real yukky stuff
regular has to match physical and sexual attraction needed and understanding of your relationship and emotions again some want very little some want full on and some in the middle.
its not easy to find a regular not easy at all no mater what lifestyle / kink i know a few younger couples getting deflated over it but you cant let it beat you just enjoy the fun and one or two will be found eventually ..
guys need to stop with the porn obsessed minds cuckold is about the mental relationship not just the sex"
This was pretty much our situation also. We always knew we would prefer regular and spent years trying to find it. Wasn’t till we gave up looking that we ended up finding the natural progression and it’s evolved into exactly what we had been looking for all the time. We’ve learned just to go with the flow and see what happens |
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Been fortunate to have two separate couples I meet on a every 3 to 4 months basis, over the past 5/6 years to keep it fresh and not to get to samey , both cuck husbands with varying levels of cuckholding
Works well for all involved |
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we had a regular guy for over 11yrs, sadly we think he may be leaving the site soon. Sam and I got on really well with Will. we were like good friends,he and Sam obviously got to know each other sexually over the years, knew what each other likes etc, so we can say its great while it lasts and if You can get it, go for it. |
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"i have 3 regular guys 2 very long term one 30 years one 25 years and one now coming up to 5 years they are very hard to find as most guys just dont understand the cuckold…..
….guys need to stop with the porn obsessed minds cuckold is about the mental relationship not just the sex"
This is spot on! |
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By *eyeYCouple 1 week ago
Nr Leicester |
"We have very high hopes that an imminent meeting with a Hot wife may pan out to be a semi regular thing.. 😈🤞😘
Has it??"
Oh yes!!
We picked her up from the hotel they'd booked near us, took her to a local bar where we sat either side of her, both helping ourselves to the increasing dampness between her legs as we discussed all her husband wanted us to do to and with her..
Then back to ours, D watching as she enjoyed her first lady experience, before we both undressed him..
3 hours later she called hubby to collect and reclaim her.
She's 'cuming' back next month 😈🔥👍 |
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