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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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DO ALL the people on this site think they are swingers?
You would have thought that the amount of people on this site I would have had more thsn a sniff or is it just me?
How do I make myself more appealing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"stop shouting and put a little bit more in your profile.
Have you messaged many people?"
Yes I have messaged quite a few but sadly not much look
And yes I do need to update my profile thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"DO ALL the people on this site think they are swingers?
You would have thought that the amount of people on this site I would have had more thsn a sniff or is it just me?
How do I make myself more appealing "
Get a partner and become a couple!  
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"DO ALL the people on this site think they are swingers?
You would have thought that the amount of people on this site I would have had more thsn a sniff or is it just me?
How do I make myself more appealing "
Swinger doesn't mean 'will shag anything that moves'.
You could do with a bit more about yourself and less cock pics. |
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Why did you use capitals? It means SHOUTING!! See?
You've had meets....so what did you say to them? Go to a club or a social....put more in your profile about what you like and what you don't. You like to experiment? In chemistry? See? If I don't know, no-one does....tell people. You only get one chance to impress. Why should a couple choose you? Answer that and there you go, a USP. All the men on here are red blooded be more descriptive with yourself. Adjectivise yourself.
Hey! I used an adjective as a verb!! You saw it here first, folks!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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7 cock pics.
You're 51 and can't accomodate?
You're profile is shouty and says nothing of any substance.
Your post on here suggests a disproprtionate sense of entitlement.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"DO ALL the people on this site think they are swingers?
You would have thought that the amount of people on this site I would have had more thsn a sniff or is it just me?
How do I make myself more appealing
Get a partner and become a couple!
XXXX"
I would like to meet a couple but not be one |
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By *andF_funCouple
over a year ago
Philly PA area |
Swinging site? Or dating site?
Single men are looking for dates, many dates. They don't swing.
Swinging is for couples. Some couples invite singles, but it is the couple that is swinging. It's the single being lucky enough to be asked to join. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging site? Or dating site?
Single men are looking for dates, many dates. They don't swing.
Swinging is for couples. Some couples invite singles, but it is the couple that is swinging. It's the single being lucky enough to be asked to join."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging site? Or dating site?
Single men are looking for dates, many dates. They don't swing.
Swinging is for couples. Some couples invite singles, but it is the couple that is swinging. It's the single being lucky enough to be asked to join."
Utter rubbbish and to me indicative of a not particularly appealing elitest attitude.
Swinging has moved on from partner swapping |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging site? Or dating site?
Single men are looking for dates, many dates. They don't swing.
Swinging is for couples. Some couples invite singles, but it is the couple that is swinging. It's the single being lucky enough to be asked to join."
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"Swinging site? Or dating site?
Single men are looking for dates, many dates. They don't swing.
Swinging is for couples. Some couples invite singles, but it is the couple that is swinging. It's the single being lucky enough to be asked to join.
Utter rubbbish and to me indicative of a not particularly appealing elitest attitude.
Swinging has moved on from partner swapping"
^This!
It's been covered many times before in these forums but many couples treat singles like meat puppets, only there for their entertainment. I have absolutely no interest in meeting people like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging to me means meeting a variety of different people whereby you have more in common than just the patch of carpet your stood on being the same.
I lead a double life, none of my friends know about this at all. I don't talk about it whatsoever.
I've wanted to try swinging for years.
I first saw a documentary about it about 4 years ago, maybe 5.
It was Louis Theroux's Weird lives and it was all about swingers and swinging in the USA.
I thought at the time there was nothing weird about it, it looks like fun.
I put it off and put it off for ages, then I tried it when I got invited to a party. Done it a few times like that, then phased out started dating someone, she didn't want to even touch the idea, she's out of the picture now, so I thought GREAAAT! let's give this shit a go.
And here I am.
Cheers
Ben |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"Swinging site? Or dating site?
Single men are looking for dates, many dates. They don't swing.
Swinging is for couples. Some couples invite singles, but it is the couple that is swinging. It's the single being lucky enough to be asked to join.
Utter rubbbish and to me indicative of a not particularly appealing elitest attitude.
Swinging has moved on from partner swapping
^This!
It's been covered many times before in these forums but many couples treat singles like meat puppets, only there for their entertainment. I have absolutely no interest in meeting people like that. "
Yep, divisive, elitist crap, but works as another filter for me |
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"Swinging site? Or dating site?
Single men are looking for dates, many dates. They don't swing.
Swinging is for couples. Some couples invite singles, but it is the couple that is swinging. It's the single being lucky enough to be asked to join."
You should be so bloody lucky to have me join you!!!! Please pass me by...oh wait, the Female is bi-curious, what a shame I might have lowered myself to patting your bum to give you a thrill!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging site? Or dating site?
Single men are looking for dates, many dates. They don't swing.
Swinging is for couples. Some couples invite singles, but it is the couple that is swinging. It's the single being lucky enough to be asked to join.
Utter rubbbish and to me indicative of a not particularly appealing elitest attitude.
Swinging has moved on from partner swapping
^This!
It's been covered many times before in these forums but many couples treat singles like meat puppets, only there for their entertainment. I have absolutely no interest in meeting people like that.
Yep, divisive, elitist crap, but works as another filter for me "
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By *andF_funCouple
over a year ago
Philly PA area |
WOW, thought forums were for asking questions and offering opinions. Every one is different and others need to accept that, not criticize.
I made one comment, my opinion. If you don't like it, just take a pass and move on. Geez. Instead, people look at our profile and say "you should be so lucky to have me join you"?
I also don't remember my post inviting anyone into our bed to play, how minds work!
Anyway, I gave MY opinion to the original question, don't like it, oh well. To each their own.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"WOW, thought forums were for asking questions and offering opinions. Every one is different and others need to accept that, not criticize.
I made one comment, my opinion. If you don't like it, just take a pass and move on. Geez. Instead, people look at our profile and say "you should be so lucky to have me join you"?
I also don't remember my post inviting anyone into our bed to play, how minds work!
Anyway, I gave MY opinion to the original question, don't like it, oh well. To each their own.
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And you got opinions back that disagreed with yours
As you say each to their own
No fire sparked |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"WOW, thought forums were for asking questions and offering opinions. Every one is different and others need to accept that, not criticize.
I made one comment, my opinion. If you don't like it, just take a pass and move on. Geez. Instead, people look at our profile and say "you should be so lucky to have me join you"?
I also don't remember my post inviting anyone into our bed to play, how minds work!
Anyway, I gave MY opinion to the original question, don't like it, oh well. To each their own.
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People were just giving their opinions the same as you did. Everyone will think differently. If everyone agreed it would be boring. No-one on the forum was rude.
If you got rude mail, report it.
And don't let it put you off posting. Discussion is good. |
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"Well, guess I sparked a fire.
I've sparked a fire in frenchbambi's loins so swinger or not..... "
My sex is on Fire for sure.....you, me..we'd be a couple then which means we become swingers!! Hurrah!! Now...where can we find a lonely, sexless single to invite and make them feel privileged to have been invited to play with us?? PMSL hahahahaha! |
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"Well, guess I sparked a fire.
I've sparked a fire in frenchbambi's loins so swinger or not.....
My sex is on Fire for sure.....you, me..we'd be a couple then which means we become swingers!! Hurrah!! Now...where can we find a lonely, sexless single to invite and make them
feel privileged to have been invited to
play with us?? PMSL hahahahaha!
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And the fun bit of being bi is it doesn't matter if they are male or female so we can choose almost anyone who wants to  |
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"Well, guess I sparked a fire.
I've sparked a fire in frenchbambi's loins so swinger or not.....
My sex is on Fire for sure.....you, me..we'd be a couple then which means we become swingers!! Hurrah!! Now...where can we find a lonely, sexless single to invite and make them
feel privileged to have been invited to
play with us?? PMSL hahahahaha!
And the fun bit of being bi is it doesn't matter if they are male or female so we can choose almost anyone who wants to "
That is the truth mister!!! But are swingers allowed to be bi?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinger doesn't mean 'will shag anything that moves."
Apparently the majority on the site think that just because your a swinger you will immediately want to have sex with all and sundry, even going out for the evening means your going to have sex with anyone.
The major put off is when you arrange to meet someone, they immediately ask what sex is on offer, then cancels the date. When they realise you don't do sexy messages And the meet is not a meet in a pub at 8.00 then back to ours and then get home to the wife by 9.00 pm thinking that you have just been to get some milk lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging site? Or dating site?
Single men are looking for dates, many dates. They don't swing.
Swinging is for couples. Some couples invite singles, but it is the couple that is swinging. It's the single being lucky enough to be asked to join."
What utter rubbish! With respect, I think you need to go and do a bit more research on what Swinging is... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well, guess I sparked a fire.
I've sparked a fire in frenchbambi's loins so swinger or not.....
My sex is on Fire for sure.....you, me..we'd be a couple then which means we become swingers!! Hurrah!! Now...where can we find a lonely, sexless single to invite and make them
feel privileged to have been invited to
play with us?? PMSL hahahahaha!
And the fun bit of being bi is it doesn't matter if they are male or female so we can choose almost anyone who wants to
That is the truth mister!!! But are swingers allowed to be bi? "
Allowed? It's the Swinging law! Women have to be bi. Men have to be bi but they have to deny it. |
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Gotta laugh a the couples saying the singles should be lucky to get asked.....
Really!!?
Why not turn that about and count yourself lucky that the singles are available to help YOU with your little fantasies??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmmm.... Two days since this thread started and I see the OP has taken on all the advice...... not.
 
They very seldom do... "
What's a word that means 'less than seldom....'?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging to us is a certain mind set, about respect, socialising and sharing and likeminded adult fun and we have known plenty of singles with this mind set, however there is a good percentage that use it for quick easy sex, and that's fine we just don't class them as swingers though, and believe that's a different scene,
just our humble opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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read your profile, just cock pics ladys don't like to many, plus you have ticked every box in the interest section which makes you look desperate for anything. say a few thing you realy like and concentrated on them the rest will follow |
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"Swinging to us is a certain mind set, about respect, socialising and sharing and likeminded adult fun and we have known plenty of singles with this mind set, however there is a good percentage that use it for quick easy sex, and that's fine we just don't class them as swingers though, and believe that's a different scene,
just our humble opinion "
Debateable but a good honest opinion |
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"Gotta laugh a the couples saying the singles should be lucky to get asked.....
Really!!?
Why not turn that about and count yourself lucky that the singles are available to help YOU with your little fantasies??
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PSMLLLLLLLLLLLLL!! Get an oxygen mask...I can't breaaaaaaaaathe... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"DO ALL the people on this site think they are swingers?
You would have thought that the amount of people on this site I would have had more thsn a sniff or is it just me?
How do I make myself more appealing "
We think of ourselves as wife swappers |
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"DO ALL the people on this site think they are swingers?
You would have thought that the amount of people on this site I would have had more thsn a sniff or is it just me?
How do I make myself more appealing
We think of ourselves as wife swappers "
I saw you on TV he he.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In these threads I read OP all the time, at the risk if being ridiculed what's OP ???"
opening poster, when it says OP its just referring to the person who started the thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"DO ALL the people on this site think they are swingers?
You would have thought that the amount of people on this site I would have had more thsn a sniff or is it just me?
How do I make myself more appealing
We think of ourselves as wife swappers
I saw you on TV he he.... "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all your advice it will be taken on board sorry haven't answered for a while have had the flu
Irs funny what people say and how arguments start |
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