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By *rtistA OP Man 1 week ago
camden |
I recently started seeing someone who said she wanted to explore this as a dynamic. I actually have found myself really interested and think it could be a great dynamic.
Wanted to reach out to see if other couples had advice on how to enter this lifestyle? Or their experiences short and long term? Appreciate any help |
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It’s a fun dynamic, and can evolve to what you both find enjoyable, do research on the right cage, measure properly and decide how long you want to be locked, best to start off for a few days before moving to months of chastity  |
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Depends how small you want to go, smaller cages are good for not being too visible under normal clothing etc, if you go plastic probably the “holy trainer” is good start, Steel cages look better and come in many shapes sizes and forms, try house of denial they have a great selection, but also Prime has a good selection with real life reviews |
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By *rtistA OP Man 1 week ago
camden |
So helpful thank you. I’ll look at both of those sites.
Have you found it has improved your relationship? Are you wearing it constantly now?
How does he find not being able to get erect? Also not orgasming? Is that something it takes time to get used to?
Sorry so many questions |
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They’re not particularly comfortable in most cases. I find the metal ones much better than the plastic ones. However the weight of the metal ones can be a problem as they tend to slide down and hang off your balls, which can be painful. Retaining waist straps are available to help with this. You will need to consider how often you want to remove it for hygiene and for shaving if you stay smooth. |
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