When did you realise that you’re submissive ? What type of submissive are you ? Inside and outside the bedroom, are you a bratty sub, a Yes Sir sub or other ? Can you switch or do you need your “Sir, Master” to be inside your head for your sexual/mind fuck and if you’re Bi and haven’t got dom who does it better for you Men or Women,
I do find it fascinating watching and reading about people but especially Women who “need and give up control to someone else” yes I know you’re still technically still in control,
Any other Submissive or dominant questions and answers are welcome |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By *hirleyMan 10 weeks ago
somewhere |
Most people don't know what bdsm is or how to implement it. That goes for men and women. Then you get people that want to try it because the heard about it or have read 50 shades and think they can just turn it on like a switch... pun intended |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Most people don't know what bdsm is or how to implement it. That goes for men and women. Then you get people that want to try it because the heard about it or have read 50 shades and think they can just turn it on like a switch... pun intended "
What does it matter if people are using something like 50 shades for ideas to spice up their sex life a little? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
The sub ladies I have met knew from an early age.
Even admitted that their mum's were subs too.
Many seem to work on the caring profession nurses etc.
Almost as if it's in their genes I called them naturally submissive.
Very hot when they submit to use |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Most people don't know what bdsm is or how to implement it. That goes for men and women. Then you get people that want to try it because the heard about it or have read 50 shades and think they can just turn it on like a switch... pun intended
What does it matter if people are using something like 50 shades for ideas to spice up their sex life a little?"
How people decide how “Submissive” they’re is up to them either a little role playing or full on control in the bedroom and in every day life, For some they just want to someone else to take control as they normally control everything else in the work/family life |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Most people don't know what bdsm is or how to implement it. That goes for men and women. Then you get people that want to try it because the heard about it or have read 50 shades and think they can just turn it on like a switch... pun intended
What does it matter if people are using something like 50 shades for ideas to spice up their sex life a little?
How people decide how “Submissive” they’re is up to them either a little role playing or full on control in the bedroom and in every day life, For some they just want to someone else to take control as they normally control everything else in the work/family life "
In my experience it’s more women that hold powerful important posistions
At work that need an alpha male to take control outside of their normal role |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ebbie69Couple 10 weeks ago
milton keynes |
"When did you realise that you’re submissive ? What type of submissive are you ? Inside and outside the bedroom, are you a bratty sub, a Yes Sir sub or other ? Can you switch or do you need your “Sir, Master” to be inside your head for your sexual/mind fuck and if you’re Bi and haven’t got dom who does it better for you Men or Women,
I do find it fascinating watching and reading about people but especially Women who “need and give up control to someone else” yes I know you’re still technically still in control,
Any other Submissive or dominant questions and answers are welcome "
I (Debbie) have been submissive as long as I can remember. When younger I always wanted a man to take the lead but that is quite normal. It wasn't until a good few years ago that I got a glimpse into the feelings of submitting myself totally and giving control to others, when on a meet from here. I was and still am hooked on that feeling. For me it is submission when actually meeting others and the time we are together. I am not into being controlled outside of a meet. I have dabbled with trying to be Dom but it was soon clear I was just putting on an act. It just does not feel natural for me like being a sub does. I have played in the cuckold scene as well, totally separate from this and the guy who is the cuck is the only one I have been dominant too whilst feeling good about it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I (Mrs) have known I was submissive since my first real relationship at 15 when I wanted him to take the lead and he thought I was lazy sexually.
At 17 I could name/label it and at 18 I found the bdsm scene.
How I would define my submissiveness varies vastly..... and wayyyyyyy too long and convoluted for a forum post! lol
K |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I (Mrs) have known I was submissive since my first real relationship at 15 when I wanted him to take the lead and he thought I was lazy sexually.
At 17 I could name/label it and at 18 I found the bdsm scene.
How I would define my submissiveness varies vastly..... and wayyyyyyy too long and convoluted for a forum post! lol
K"
Can I ask... "when I wanted him to take the lead and he thought I was lazy sexually" Was that just shyness from the start or do you still like him to take control/tell you what to do ? and do you get off from completing your command ?
I'm just trying to understand other peoples arrangements a bit more |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I have a thing for someone being in control and them 'taking' what they desire
As I grew into knowing more about submission I have varied in the amount of control I have being willing (and able) to give to someone. Some have been more of a Master/sl@ve relationship.
And to add to the earlier thoughts of job roles.... I have always been in an educator/support role
K |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
