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Is it just me, or do nearly all the videos and pics posted on here seem to be bareback?
Don’t get me wrong it’s incredibly hot, and I get some might be people in a relationship, however I’d expect to see more condoms being a swingers site? |
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I have had to knock back Soo many meets as the women want bareback only.
No one seems to care about the risks anymore.
Everyone lives bareback, that's a hard fact, but not with every single person on a first meet. |
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With each other were bare (tho sometimes in group situations we use condoms as some women wouldn't want to give him a BJ after he's fucked me bare... their choice which we respect)
So.... anything of us would be bare...
Oral also tends to be bare...
Anyone else..... ABSOLUTELY a condom is used. Too much risk thanks!
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I always think showing the genitalia of a one off meet on your profile pictures is distasteful. I like to think the majority of ones I see are at least regular partners who continue to consent to their images being used 💜 |
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"I have had to knock back Soo many meets as the women want bareback only.
Are you sure it's women requesting this?
Yes they often are verified with numerous pics."
Given the number of guys that complain that they never get any first contact messages from women, this just seems highly unusual |
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"I have had to knock back Soo many meets as the women want bareback only.
Are you sure it's women requesting this?
Yes they often are verified with numerous pics.
Given the number of guys that complain that they never get any first contact messages from women, this just seems highly unusual "
I never said they message me first, but when we chat they state clearly I want bareback only.
I have had a couple of messages from women, but they don't come at me like, "Hi cum inside me", it's always after some talking.
Literally last night I was talking with a super hot adventurous woman and I had to say I couldn't meet for that reason. |
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"Is it just me, or do nearly all the videos and pics posted on here seem to be bareback?
Don’t get me wrong it’s incredibly hot, and I get some might be people in a relationship, however I’d expect to see more condoms being a swingers site?"
You will probably find most bareback pics on here are with partners or long term friends.
Yes it doesn't paint a great picture of the scene, but most I have encountered are safe. |
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"Is it just me, or do nearly all the videos and pics posted on here seem to be bareback?
Don’t get me wrong it’s incredibly hot, and I get some might be people in a relationship, however I’d expect to see more condoms being a swingers site?
You will probably find most bareback pics on here are with partners or long term friends.
Yes it doesn't paint a great picture of the scene, but most I have encountered are safe."
How do you know they are safe? |
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Unless planning on fucking them I don’t see why anyone would be concerned about what’s on other people’s profiles, or who they sleep with or how they do it.
I prefer bareback. I test and I’m transparent about it. People I’m interested in can make their own mind up… and as far as I’m concerned that’s my obligation met. |
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"Unless planning on fucking them I don’t see why anyone would be concerned about what’s on other people’s profiles, or who they sleep with or how they do it.
I prefer bareback. I test and I’m transparent about it. People I’m interested in can make their own mind up… and as far as I’m concerned that’s my obligation met."
I agree, but not everyone will have a recent test, that's what's off putting |
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I have a creampie video on my profile but that is with my wife. I'm clear on my profile that I'm very STI conscious with meeting on here and I'm also not desperate for any meets. I'm not into meeting the whole website and I've turned down plenty of meets because I've got some red flags with regards to sexual health.
I think if it's someone you're interested in meeting and you see some raw/bareback content on their profile why not ask them about it? Could be a long term partner etc.
I've asked others about some content I've seen on their profile and was either put at ease or red flagged and moved on. |
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As a few have said we are all adults who make calculated decisions on a daily basis, with some being more risk adverse than others, and no doubt some taking steps where there is any element of risk, but they may not be the same steps that everyone would take.
Stigma and stereotypes I think also play a part in people's perception. |
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On both this and our couples account the only pics are of me and hub so no condoms but we only do bareback together, I might play along in fantasies about bareback but even when we only play with each other in clubs hubs uses a condom as a lead by example! He's had a V so im not on BC anymore and refuse to run any risk at all, even with condoms the guy needs to supply their own (in case of size difference) and i check it before they open it or put it on, even if we've played before, we like to be safe x |
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It is what it is. If it's not affecting you directly, what does it matter?
As most have said, bareback generally happens between yourselves as a couple and *maybe* with close associates/people you've swung with a few times before.
Every picture/video I've seen of what appear on the surface to be one off meets shows usage of a condom. |
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We are a cuckold couple so some of Dee’s encounters over the years have been bareback.
Depends on the guy (or couple), the scenario and a multitude of other things.
We don’t get too hung up about how others play, it’s pretty much up to them. No one forded anyone to do anything they don’t want to do, or shouldn’t do anyway ! |
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"We enjoy bareback we both mature and of course understand the risks but to have another guy actually cum in your wife is very very exciting "
Yes agree extremely exciting but also be careful and LTR really more realistic in this situation |
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I always steer clear no matter how enticing their profile looks.
Each to their own 🤷♂️