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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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times the length of time on site, the number of days available, subtracted from the amount of meets requested, added to the number of people contacted, square rooted by the number of clubs visited, and divided by the number of repeat meets I guess  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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5 months on the site no recorded (verified) meets perhaps you should browse the single guys profiles, see who is successfull and think about how thier profile differs from yours 
Perhaps they have pictures ? |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"times the length of time on site, the number of days available, subtracted from the amount of meets requested, added to the number of people contacted, square rooted by the number of clubs visited, and divided by the number of repeat meets I guess "
plus one of course! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"maybe if you wasnt so negative you would..."
they have a point...... I tell people it took me 6 months to get my first meet, and that was getting myself known to the point of getting trusted......
the problem is too many people think it is should be handed to them on a plate as such...
I would like to think that it is my personality and the way I come across in chat, on the forum and at socials that has gotten me meets....
If I have made one more friend than I had before I started that to me is success.... its not always about the meets and the sex!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you want to be a successful male start hosting parties 
Unfortunately though it’s really the parties that attract the interest/success and if you ever stop hosting them your just another single male  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you want to be a successful male start hosting parties
Unfortunately though it’s really the parties that attract the interest/success and if you ever stop hosting them your just another single male "
Im not asking for advice lol was just a question for a fun thread lol so i thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you want to be a successful male start hosting parties
Unfortunately though it’s really the parties that attract the interest/success and if you ever stop hosting them your just another single male Im not asking for advice lol was just a question for a fun thread lol so i thought "
And was just answering your question?
as in the most successful males will be the ones who host parties, socials etc.
but hey sorry for replying |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its easy to spot the most successful guys on here. There the ones that are not in the forums whinging about not getting meets."
im not whinging about meets i think your reading something thats not there.
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"Its easy to spot the most successful guys on here. There the ones that are not in the forums whinging about not getting meets.im not whinging about meets i think your reading something thats not there."
I didnt say you where. Lots of single guys come into the forums whinging and whining. The successful ones are the ones with a positive attitude and soldier on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if there was a competition..
I wouldn't enter ...
you may end up shagging anyone with a pulse and no attraction...
you would become very popular with some guys who would try and befriend you to ride on yur back and get meets...
other guys would bitch about you thro jealousy as they getting feck all...
yu would put some couples/fems off as they see a huge list of verifications as poss someone who doesnt play safe...
if you host parties as risky/frisky says that is a good way but yu end up with loads of takers amongst the lovely people who attend.. and you will find some have no respect for your property/furniture when the alchohol flows......... ( and not always do the invitations to their parties come your way )
and once you stop.... suddenly yu are less popular
so quiet, respectful, humble is the best way in my book...... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't you love it when they come asking stupid questions then get shirty because people in the forums won't take them seriously?  "
well you obviously do love it lol enjoying yourself are you lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if there was a competition..
I wouldn't enter ...
you may end up shagging anyone with a pulse and no attraction...
you would become very popular with some guys who would try and befriend you to ride on yur back and get meets...
other guys would bitch about you thro jealousy as they getting feck all...
yu would put some couples/fems off as they see a huge list of verifications as poss someone who doesnt play safe...
if you host parties as risky/frisky says that is a good way but yu end up with loads of takers amongst the lovely people who attend.. and you will find some have no respect for your property/furniture when the alchohol flows......... ( and not always do the invitations to their parties come your way )
and once you stop.... suddenly yu are less popular
so quiet, respectful, humble is the best way in my book...... "
Well put |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are always amazed how many messages we get from single males where there is no more than five or six words used
As a couple who plays with single males we tend to favour the ones who write a message to start with which explains abit more about themselves than the normal one liner "you want shagging tonite"
First impresions count!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We are always amazed how many messages we get from single males where there is no more than five or six words used
As a couple who plays with single males we tend to favour the ones who write a message to start with which explains abit more about themselves than the normal one liner "you want shagging tonite"
First impresions count!!!"
I've never put that i always ask if they would like to chat and send pic. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"We are always amazed how many messages we get from single males where there is no more than five or six words used
As a couple who plays with single males we tend to favour the ones who write a message to start with which explains abit more about themselves than the normal one liner "you want shagging tonite"
First impresions count!!!"
now that i am 35... can i apply??? I promise at least 10... maybe even 20 words and a paragraph!!! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didnt think it was a whining thread, I knew what the OP was saying just thought it a bit odd as there's no definitive answer. So come on people, play nice! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm negative? i ask a light hearted question and i get a fucking thread of abuse about me lol you chill out and for the record i have had 2 meets. "
This why single men get a bad time!!! at least there's a healthy majority of ladies around that can suss the good un's from the knobheads..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hmm em dont think "sucess" is quite the right word , in fact being honest this is a silly thread , its not a competition its meant to be fun for like minded folk |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm negative? i ask a light hearted question and i get a fucking thread of abuse about me lol you chill out and for the record i have had 2 meets.
This why single men get a bad time!!! at least there's a healthy majority of ladies around that can suss the good un's from the knobheads....."
lol so a good guy starts calling someone a knobhead then does he lol what a joke |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if there was a competition..
I wouldn't enter ...
you may end up shagging anyone with a pulse and no attraction...
you would become very popular with some guys who would try and befriend you to ride on yur back and get meets...
other guys would bitch about you thro jealousy as they getting feck all...
yu would put some couples/fems off as they see a huge list of verifications as poss someone who doesnt play safe...
if you host parties as risky/frisky says that is a good way but yu end up with loads of takers amongst the lovely people who attend.. and you will find some have no respect for your property/furniture when the alchohol flows......... ( and not always do the invitations to their parties come your way )
and once you stop.... suddenly yu are less popular
so quiet, respectful, humble is the best way in my book......
Well put "
I second that and let the fun begin!!! Isn't that why we use this site? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think people are trying to point out that your "light hearted thread" is not descriptive enough, you need to tell people what you want from the thread, threads have a basic title then a chance to explain what it's all about.
F'instance
It's Christmas and to lighten the forums let's have a little thread to see how people percieve success on Fabswingers, namely single males.
What do you consider would make your visits here successfull ?
Is it the number of meets you get ?
The number of meets that end up with you getting sex ?
The number of meets that result in an invite to return ?
The number of meets that end up with new friendships with or without sex.
We all have different ideas on it, what do you think, what makes it successfull for you, who do you think is the most successfull male here.
How people start threads in here can bring out the negative in people, the threads that get the least abuse if you wanna call it that are those that start with a good question, a good background to the question and a definate objective of the question |
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By *ourgeMan
over a year ago
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its better to see if you can get a fuck buddy ,been on 12months, not much look,had some party meets been good ,so thats why have got a buddy now to see if it will get better |
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